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OPNIONS

Greensburg, KY

#1 Apr 5, 2009
Why is it so common these days? Why are people so addicted to this nasty crap that it actually causes a relationship or marriage to fall apart I just don't understand. I talked to a beautiful woman today that told me that was why her relationship failed with her fiance. I just want people's opinions on this problem... How could someone choose porn over a real person that they can love and share a life with together. You
can't share a life with porn... I just don't understand.... I want some opinions on what other people think about this nasty addiction.
chicka chicka bow wow

Lexington, KY

#3 Apr 5, 2009
I use to look at porn years ago but it's just like any other fascination. I got tired of it after a while and now I never watch porn. Married guys are more vulnerable because they secretly want their wives to act like the porn stars they watch.
My Michelle 88

Doniphan, MO

#4 Apr 6, 2009
Role playing is fun, trying new positions exciting, do what you are comfortable with. You would be suprised at some of the things youwill enjoy, giving porn credit where it is due!! Just me, I like making sex fun, and watching it with your partner does add excitment!! I`m not talking bondage,etc. just good ole` exploration.
Wanker

Lexington, KY

#6 Apr 6, 2009
because their wives lose interest in sex.
UK ALL THE WAY

Cave City, KY

#7 Apr 6, 2009
What so wrong with porn? I think its better than watching all the movies with killing and other stuff. Is the problem that it is real and no faking in it? I think people need to get thier priorities straight.
UK ALL THE WAY

Cave City, KY

#8 Apr 6, 2009
OPNIONS wrote:
Why is it so common these days? Why are people so addicted to this nasty crap that it actually causes a relationship or marriage to fall apart I just don't understand. I talked to a beautiful woman today that told me that was why her relationship failed with her fiance. I just want people's opinions on this problem... How could someone choose porn over a real person that they can love and share a life with together. You
can't share a life with porn... I just don't understand.... I want some opinions on what other people think about this nasty addiction.
I can't believe porn broke 2 people up it the fact that one doesn't like what the other is needs to be satisfied. If it was porn then they are better off apart.
OPINIONS

Brownsville, KY

#9 Apr 6, 2009
UK ALL THE WAY wrote:
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I can't believe porn broke 2 people up it the fact that one doesn't like what the other is needs to be satisfied. If it was porn then they are better off apart.
Well it did and to everybody else on here that has posted a problem I am not talking about just having fun and watching porn, I am talking about a real porn addiction to be honest with you it was my fiance that I am talking about and yes I broke off the engagement with him because he had a real porn addiction problem. It was so bad that it affected him having sex with me and at first I thought there was something wrong with me but there is not a damn thing wrong with me i am a very beautiful person I have always took good care of myself. now i realize it was him he is just sick in the head. And yes you are right we definitely are better apart, but it really broke my heart that someone could do that to me. speaking of the fact that everyone that saw me talked about how ugly he was and how I could do so much better. In fact a couple of months back we were seen in walmart and i was asked if he was my dad. but like i said i know realize he is just sick in the head. I just wanted to see if anyone had ever been through the same thing i have. I didn't mean to get all of these dumb comments back. Aparently some people need to read thoroughly through the comment before replying.
chicka chicka bow wow

Lexington, KY

#10 Apr 6, 2009
OPINIONS wrote:
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Well it did and to everybody else on here that has posted a problem I am not talking about just having fun and watching porn, I am talking about a real porn addiction to be honest with you it was my fiance that I am talking about and yes I broke off the engagement with him because he had a real porn addiction problem. It was so bad that it affected him having sex with me and at first I thought there was something wrong with me but there is not a damn thing wrong with me i am a very beautiful person I have always took good care of myself. now i realize it was him he is just sick in the head. And yes you are right we definitely are better apart, but it really broke my heart that someone could do that to me. speaking of the fact that everyone that saw me talked about how ugly he was and how I could do so much better. In fact a couple of months back we were seen in walmart and i was asked if he was my dad. but like i said i know realize he is just sick in the head. I just wanted to see if anyone had ever been through the same thing i have. I didn't mean to get all of these dumb comments back. Aparently some people need to read thoroughly through the comment before replying.
Why would you come on topix of all places with a problem of this nature? I might understand if you had been married for years but dang... you haven't even tied the knot and he's obsessed with porn already. God ahead and tell us the rest of the story
OPINIONS

Brownsville, KY

#12 Apr 6, 2009
My Michelle 88 wrote:
Role playing is fun, trying new positions exciting, do what you are comfortable with. You would be suprised at some of the things youwill enjoy, giving porn credit where it is due!! Just me, I like making sex fun, and watching it with your partner does add excitment!! I`m not talking bondage,etc. just good ole` exploration.
Yeah if you say so.... What you have just said was a waste of time for you. Next time you decide to post a comment read the topic first apparently you don't know the difference in watching porn and then a porn addiction. Do research on something if you have no clue what porn addiction is.
curious

Elizabethtown, KY

#13 Apr 7, 2009
OPINIONS wrote:
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Yeah if you say so.... What you have just said was a waste of time for you. Next time you decide to post a comment read the topic first apparently you don't know the difference in watching porn and then a porn addiction. Do research on something if you have no clue what porn addiction is.
What is the definition of porn addiction?
My Michelle 88

Trinity, TX

#15 Apr 9, 2009
Yeah smartass what is the definition of porn addiction, obviously he liked it better than he liked you,get over it if you can`t beat them, join them. There is no difference to me anyway!!
REHAB

Greenbrier, AR

#17 Apr 9, 2009
My Michelle 88 wrote:
Role playing is fun, trying new positions exciting, do what you are comfortable with. You would be suprised at some of the things youwill enjoy, giving porn credit where it is due!! Just me, I like making sex fun, and watching it with your partner does add excitment!! I`m not talking bondage,etc. just good ole` exploration.
I guess youve been emotionaly abused too.
crazy world

Trinity, TX

#18 Apr 10, 2009
I don't know about you being so beautiful...but I do know that porn does tear relationships apart. It is sick and sick people enjoy it. Someone mentioned other movies with violence.blood &bad language. Think about! What goes in through your head, comes out through your heart. If you want a clean decent person, then put clean decent ideas in your head; if you want a dirty, violent person, then put dirty, violent things in your head. The United States people are headed to hell on roller skates and don't have a clue.....because years ago some idiot said,"If it feels good, do it." Now the majority of the people don't even know they're corrupting themselves and their loved ones.
fed up with bs

Leitchfield, KY

#19 Apr 10, 2009
A lot of men think their is absolutly nothing wrong with porn. They care nothing abut how it will affect their relationships. They dont care how devestating it is to their spouse/girlfriend. Heaven forbid you say something to them about looking at the porn, they act defensive like they did nothing wrong. Almost like they think their doing you a favor by not coming to you for sex. "you were tired I didn't want to bother you." Is this how you people raise your kids....teaching them that porn is ok??
so sad

Elizabethtown, KY

#20 Apr 10, 2009
OPNIONS wrote:
Why is it so common these days? Why are people so addicted to this nasty crap that it actually causes a relationship or marriage to fall apart I just don't understand. I talked to a beautiful woman today that told me that was why her relationship failed with her fiance. I just want people's opinions on this problem... How could someone choose porn over a real person that they can love and share a life with together. You
can't share a life with porn... I just don't understand.... I want some opinions on what other people think about this nasty addiction.
First of all I want to tell you that I am so sorry for you and what has happened to your relationship. But, I have seen this first hand. And you made a very wise decision on ending the relationship. I do believe you are a beautiful woman and just your words show that. He is the one that lost out here.
Anyways....an addiction period is an ugly sin. It doesn't matter what the addiction is! I watched my sister that is absolutely beautiful with a heart of gold go through this same thing. She had been married for quite some time and unfortunately is still now. Her husband's addiction to porn shredded any respect, faith, trust and love in their marriage. It is so sad. Please don't ask me why she is still his wife. The only thing I can say is none of us know why. Only she knows. His addiction made the both of them miserable and unhappy. He really needs only God to help him with that. No counselor or any professional has what it takes to break someone free of an addiction. Only The Almighty. Lay your burdens on Him. I hope and pray you get through your hard times and find happiness. In the meantime, ignore these people who have no clue whatsoever what you feel. God bless you and stay strong:)
OPINIONS

Big Clifty, KY

#21 Apr 11, 2009
so sad wrote:
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First of all I want to tell you that I am so sorry for you and what has happened to your relationship. But, I have seen this first hand. And you made a very wise decision on ending the relationship. I do believe you are a beautiful woman and just your words show that. He is the one that lost out here.
Anyways....an addiction period is an ugly sin. It doesn't matter what the addiction is! I watched my sister that is absolutely beautiful with a heart of gold go through this same thing. She had been married for quite some time and unfortunately is still now. Her husband's addiction to porn shredded any respect, faith, trust and love in their marriage. It is so sad. Please don't ask me why she is still his wife. The only thing I can say is none of us know why. Only she knows. His addiction made the both of them miserable and unhappy. He really needs only God to help him with that. No counselor or any professional has what it takes to break someone free of an addiction. Only The Almighty. Lay your burdens on Him. I hope and pray you get through your hard times and find happiness. In the meantime, ignore these people who have no clue whatsoever what you feel. God bless you and stay strong:)
Thank you... I know that he is a sick person.. The bad part isI have been dealing with this problem for a long time I met him when I was eighteen years old I am know twenty four. As I got older I started to realize he was a sick individual by the stuff he would do. But I have to say that the part that did me in was when he purchased a laptop about a month ago and crashed it by looking at all that nasty stuff and started geting all this nasty junk in his e-mails and then had enough nerve to tell me that his brother was the one looking at it... How pathetic but i am happy to say that i have met someone else and he has been a real gentlemen so far and i hope it stays that way I would really like to find someone to love for the rest of my life that would never do something like that to me again.
OPINIONS

Big Clifty, KY

#22 Apr 11, 2009
My Michelle 88 wrote:
Yeah smartass what is the definition of porn addiction, obviously he liked it better than he liked you,get over it if you can`t beat them, join them. There is no difference to me anyway!!
Well I am sorry that my comment got underneath your skin. You know what yes apparently he has a problem with porn. But here is the problem I have with what you just said if I didn't do nothing for him why won't he leave me alone? He always bothers me you know what I think the problem was it wasn't that he wasn't attracted to me because he was. The problem was that I didn't act like he wanted me to in bed.. So you know what since you like porn just as much as he does maybe you both should hook up with each other, if you are interested I will give you his number and then you can degrade yourself and act like a freak like he wanted me to do. How does that sound to you?? Me on the other hand I am looking for love not just weird sex ok.. I like to feel loved ok not feel like i should be getting paid to have sex. That was not something I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. And if you think your little comments bother me think again.. I know who I am and I also know he will regret what he has done for the rest of his life he messed up the best thing that ever happend to him up and that was me.
so true

Elizabethtown, KY

#23 Apr 11, 2009
OPINIONS wrote:
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Well it did and to everybody else on here that has posted a problem I am not talking about just having fun and watching porn, I am talking about a real porn addiction to be honest with you it was my fiance that I am talking about and yes I broke off the engagement with him because he had a real porn addiction problem. It was so bad that it affected him having sex with me and at first I thought there was something wrong with me but there is not a damn thing wrong with me i am a very beautiful person I have always took good care of myself. now i realize it was him he is just sick in the head. And yes you are right we definitely are better apart, but it really broke my heart that someone could do that to me. speaking of the fact that everyone that saw me talked about how ugly he was and how I could do so much better. In fact a couple of months back we were seen in walmart and i was asked if he was my dad. but like i said i know realize he is just sick in the head. I just wanted to see if anyone had ever been through the same thing i have. I didn't mean to get all of these dumb comments back. Aparently some people need to read thoroughly through the comment before replying.
I was engaged and I broke it off for the same reason. He would get on the computer and watch it and I caught him several times. It got so bad that I found him looking at kiddie porn! Now thats just plain sick. He was addicted to porn. I left him and I'm so glad that I found out before I married him! Theres all kinds of addictions. Some people have sex addictions and go to rehab for it. I'm sorry this happened to you. I know how you feel.
My Michelle 88

Trinity, TX

#24 Apr 11, 2009
OPINIONS wrote:
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Well I am sorry that my comment got underneath your skin. You know what yes apparently he has a problem with porn. But here is the problem I have with what you just said if I didn't do nothing for him why won't he leave me alone? He always bothers me you know what I think the problem was it wasn't that he wasn't attracted to me because he was. The problem was that I didn't act like he wanted me to in bed.. So you know what since you like porn just as much as he does maybe you both should hook up with each other, if you are interested I will give you his number and then you can degrade yourself and act like a freak like he wanted me to do. How does that sound to you?? Me on the other hand I am looking for love not just weird sex ok.. I like to feel loved ok not feel like i should be getting paid to have sex. That was not something I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. And if you think your little comments bother me think again.. I know who I am and I also know he will regret what he has done for the rest of his life he messed up the best thing that ever happend to him up and that was me.
No thanks!!, I already have a good man, who by the way is a FREAK. So I am sorry you don`t feel comfortable wih your own body to try and experiment with your man. A lot of happy couples have tried, and enjoyed!! So keep looking and I hope you find the man of your dreams!!LOL
OPINIONS

Big Clifty, KY

#25 Apr 11, 2009
My Michelle 88 wrote:
<quoted text>No thanks!!, I already have a good man, who by the way is a FREAK. So I am sorry you don`t feel comfortable wih your own body to try and experiment with your man. A lot of happy couples have tried, and enjoyed!! So keep looking and I hope you find the man of your dreams!!LOL
Well I am sure I will find the man of my dreams. But seriously if you ever want his number just let me know. And yes I am very comfortable with my body I just don't like weird sex, everybody is different you like what you like and I like what I like. I like to feel loved not like I am a piece of trash ok. I am a very respectful woman and I have morals. Apparently this topic is not for you so why don't you just get lost.

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