No JAIL for parents who cannot pay CHILD SUPPORT

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“SUNDANCE ”

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I know. What can be done to change these laws is the real question.

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Thats the biggest question of all How do you change the governments way of thinking . Your taking money out of certain branches of Government state and local officials Not to mention the lawyers Who fight for these outlandish amounts in the first place pockets .
When you cannot hold government nor the president accountable for their actions .
WE THE PEOPLE need to stand up and take back our rights as citizens Demand that no laws shall be made with out a public vote by the citizens Instead of the house and senate saying ok this bill passed so therefore it is law .
Support your child yes but not the spouse
when your paying 100.oo a week in child support and make minimum wage How can one possibly support the child and themselves ?
It should not be a crime when you don't have the child and you can't pay the parent that has the child can get food stamps and all kinds of government help so the child(ren) do not go without . the state requires Four things Shelter , food clothing and access to medical attention , Not primerib and lobster But food
Chicken pork hamburger The norm .
Not air Jordans and NikE or tommy or Fubu or even Levi Strauss . I grew up with Wrangler and hand me downs My shoes were whatever was on sale and in the color I liked
Not a lake house or mansion .But a roof over their head that keeps them warm and dry .Whether it be a Shack in the woods with a wood stove or a single wide mobile home or a House with a little white picket fence .
The family clinic works just fine unless there is a need for a specialist.Play station 3 is a great gift But a bicycle is healthier .Hot wheels are still around and a child's imagination is endless Easy bake ovens are more dangerous than the real thing why not teach your little girl to cook and bake with moms your supervision of course on the real deal cake mixes cost about a dollar or so at dollar general.
Now unless the child has some serious med problem ? What is the purpose of this outrageous amount thats been awarded ?
some will argue bills such as lights water and such I argue you got custody ! When the kid(s) come for my visits who helps me pay for mine ? or the extra food or cloths or beds or room(s) for their sleeping area yet I'm expected to pay my ex spouse some ridiculous amount because some idiots on a panel deemed it was fair that make double or triple what my salary is a week .
You cannot put a price on your children this is true But you cannot be expected to pay some Ridiculous amount every week when times are so uncertain as they are now .
change these laws, stop the madness! Take mandatory child support out of the divorce proceedings and make it instead an amount based on what the non- custodial parent can afford .
if your gonna lock them up then make the time count each week is a week owed in child support.
Disgruntled Dad

Latonia, KY

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Yeah I agree, child support is a complete scam. If you get raped and they catch the person, they get in trouble, but If the government rape us or our exes rape us, then they get a pat on the back and good job, enjoy screwing that person for the next 18 years or so.

I hate how child support is handled. They say it's all about the children, but if they throw the dad in jail for non payment, how is that helping the children? The ex says, one of 2 things.

If she is vindictive like mine, Oh daddy doesn't want to see you this week. Or, Your dads in jail for not paying for you. Either way, the kids lose out, it doesn't help them in any way, it just lines the pockets of the Government so they can spend more money on stupid pointless worthless shit.

I agree, pay for your child, but don't make the child support so high that the other person could go to jail if he don't pay. And I say he, because if women owe child support, the punishment is less severe, they get treated as if, Oh, you can't pay it, well that's okay you tried, just try and keep up. Oh you want us to lower it for you? Sure, let's go ahead and lower it.

Women want equality, so let's give it to them. If they can't pay child support either, let them go to jail. I would love to see my ex TRY and get a job, and out of that job pay the same as I make $300 a month.

My last years wages were just under $2400, no no no that's not a Mis-spell, that is Two Thousand, Four Hundred dollars for the whole year. I had a problem where I couldn't work because of immigration, but my child support stayed the same as if I was making $22,000

It was worked out that my child support should be $3900. Oh that's okay, that's only over 100% of my pay. Forget about that I have my DD 40% of the time, and that she also needs to eat when she comes over. So I get behind buy about $400, and they hold me in contempt of court. The judge is a complete waste of inbred sperm, and so is my ex, maybe they are related, I dunno.

But this whole Child Support thing is complete BS. If you were to lose your job, and you were still married, then you're not going to give your children $300 worth of shit per month. How can this be fair??

Well it's not. Like I said, it's just lining the pockets of those involved and raping the Non Custodial Parent.

Nice going so called Justice System
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My fiance lost his license in another state for being behind in support. He was set up to start a job this sunday but cant now cause the state he owes in suspended his licence and I am sure it will happen with his license here soon. Then he will end up being arrested which is in time. I dont understand this being how can he pay if he cant get a job without his license. Sitting in jail is not gonna get it paid either. The laws need to change and wish there was something we can do to do that.

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what a hypocritical state we are all in.
Bull Dozier

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I know a very responsible man in Louisisana that was paying above the state requirements for child support. That greedy cheating witch of an ex-wife of his wanted to take him to court for more. The result was he was only obligated to pay what the court would have required him to pay anyway. Even after all of that, he insisted on paying more than what the court ordered him to pay.
Bull Dozier

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WARLOCK wrote:
I know. What can be done to change these laws is the real question.
While they are looking to change the laws, they need to monitor the distribution of funds for the child to make sure the children are benefiting and not some loser boyfriend of the mother.

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Bull Dozier wrote:
<quoted text>While they are looking to change the laws, they need to monitor the distribution of funds for the child to make sure the children are benefiting and not some loser boyfriend of the mother.
I know what ya mean...
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Bull Dozier wrote:
<quoted text>While they are looking to change the laws, they need to monitor the distribution of funds for the child to make sure the children are benefiting and not some loser boyfriend of the mother.
I have an acquaintance from the local area that supports his daughter and his ex womens new boyfriend. I guess if you have a child with that kind of women you should expect to be treated like a moron.

I got one child and he started living with me when he was about 10 . You get what you go for. If you have a child with a pig your going to get dragged through the mud. No matter how hard it gets a child is worth every second of the pain you go through from the ex and the courts.

Good luck all you single fathers.

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Man who have sex with peanut butter jar is effing nuts.
Bull Dozier

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God of the Hells angels wrote:
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I have an acquaintance from the local area that supports his daughter and his ex womens new boyfriend. I guess if you have a child with that kind of women you should expect to be treated like a moron.
I got one child and he started living with me when he was about 10 . You get what you go for. If you have a child with a pig your going to get dragged through the mud. No matter how hard it gets a child is worth every second of the pain you go through from the ex and the courts.
Good luck all you single fathers.
I know what you mean. God help those single fathers that are feeling the pain and God especially help the many children that are in the middle of this crap that is going on. God will deal with those losers that are taking what belongs to the children.
Sheri

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My husband owes so much child support we can't afford to make the whole payment. We send in money but it's not enough. He keeps going to jail 9 months at a time. I'm disabled and we have 3 kids ages 10, 6, & 3. What about them? I'm in and out of the hospital alot because of my medical problems. Do you think the courts care about my kids!? HELL NO!!! I have an ex who hardly ever pays support, but I would never put him in jail for it. I believe a man should help pay for his kids, but putting them in jail is ridiculious! They are using these men in jail to work for them but yet they get no credit towards the support. He has a case in sanilac county, michigan. I'm in Florida. There's got to be a better way to handle this. If the man goes to jail then they get NOTHING! At least if he's out they get a little. I think putting a man in jail for this is just revenge for the ex. i hope and pray that something will soon be done about this non sense. The highest rate of death among pregnant women is murder by the father of the child. this is very sad and these men do it because of the child support system. We as women have a choice when we become pregnant. We can keep it , adopt it , or abort it. What choice does the man have? NONE!!! Wake up ladies and stop doing this to these men. If you choose to have a baby don't think "oh, I can just get child support." If you are a woman out there doing this I think you are a disgusting, rotten bitch!!!
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Get a job losers, and take care of ur kids.
jen

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Aug 30, 2010
 
Well I feel like this the laws set in place for child support is ridiculous what good will it do to send the man to jail my fiancée went to court today an they say sir you have absolutely no rights but you will still have to pay 66. 00 per week out of your 100 dollar check so how will he then support himself on 44.00 per week Wich it totals work your ass off for 176.00 per month how do you survive off that with rent food etc when i myself have 3 amazing little boys an feel like if i have to force you to help me with ur child then what's the point? An i have so emerged to be Superwoman an my boys will no that with age
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So to none of your buisness losers get a job an take care your kids not all men out here are losers that don't want to take care of they kids but if the dirty scandelous bitch would get a job herself an quit tryna live for free off welfare which all us hardworking ppl pay for anyways you might could call yoself independent oh an grow up because only sleezy greasy grimey bitches put they babydaddys in jail cause ya can't go get ya hair an nails did quit looking at ya baby as a check an go work for a check my personal opinion is you a loser if ya can't go get a j.o.b quit asking for free rides some bitches just want handout a some babydaddys are peices of shit I know got at least one myself but not all men are deadbeats
Chuchris

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Sep 13, 2010
 
Ok I completely agree with these BS laws. I admit I am 2 or 3k behind. I finally started a great job a few months ago. My job required an F endorsment. I was having my wages garnished and evrything was going great under the circumstances. When I go to apply for my F endorsement I find out my drivers license had been suspended. I just lost my job cause of it and I go to court tomorrow. Im praying they dont throw me in jail. Im trying the best I can and my work said I can get my job back when I obtain a valid TN drivers license. Any advice?

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Do your best to talk to the judge and explain what has happened and see if they will remove the suspension on your DL Hope you got a lawyer Good luck to ya brother .

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Get a job losers, and take care of ur kids.
FOAD Arsshole!
stacey

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im only ordered to get $190.00 a month and my loser ex wont even get a job and pay it. He owes me $17,000 in back support right now. I say throw his ass in jail and let him think about it for awhile.
Ann

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Stacey ~ You should have thought of that before you laid down with him! I had my child when I was 19 and married. We divorced when my child was 1.5 years. He split and left town about 6 months later and I have never tried to track him down for child support. My daughter is now 23 and although she has not seen her father since she was 1.5 years old, she has nothing bad to say about him, because I never downed him. I have never collected CS, nor have I ever collected government assistance. I have however, held down two jobs. It was hard, but she was worth it. And her attitude toward her father is wonderful. My only regret was not staying with this man, but I was young and stupid.

Weman now a days are disgusting. They use their children as a source of income and blame the father for everything, when in fact, they should be blaming themselves for not choosing better men, or if they did choose a good man, work with him to resolve their family matters outside of a corrupt court of law. Any mother who loved their child would do everything in their power to keep their family business out of the courts. Instead, they use it for revenge. How a woman can call herself a decent mother and put their childs father behind bars is beyond me. I guess the word decent is like the word love. It means nothing anymore!

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