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good parent

Camden, AR

#1 Nov 27, 2012
Can't stand it when one parent blames the other for not being a part of thier kids' life, and doesn't pay child support, because they're too busy drinking on thier dime.
No name

United States

#2 Nov 28, 2012
It's not just the dads that are deadbeats look at some of the moms. It's bad when they got kids and just keep some of them and don't have there other one.
single mom

Hamburg, AR

#3 Nov 28, 2012
No name wrote:
It's not just the dads that are deadbeats look at some of the moms. It's bad when they got kids and just keep some of them and don't have there other one.
So true. But they are the first ones to holler on facebook they are a proud momma etc. Sad sad world.
MamaAndDaddy

Camden, AR

#4 Nov 28, 2012
YES! there are more and more deadbeat moms these days! i know a few...Personally I play both roles in my childs life...her dad pops up every blue moon but I know its his loss, my daughter is crazy about him and he dont even know...U get used to it and realize that you are the one with the prize...the child
Hank Jr Jr

Lockhart, TX

#5 Nov 28, 2012
I love when the woman cheats on the man then leaves him. She gets the house, car, kids and child support while the guy has to move in with his parents because he can't afford child support and 2 house payments
single mom

Hamburg, AR

#6 Nov 29, 2012
Hank Jr Jr wrote:
I love when the woman cheats on the man then leaves him. She gets the house, car, kids and child support while the guy has to move in with his parents because he can't afford child support and 2 house payments
That can go both ways to
knave scott

Camden, AR

#7 Nov 29, 2012
Why don't you complaint about "deadbeat" government? Stupid ass people.
No name

United States

#8 Nov 29, 2012
knave scott wrote:
Why don't you complaint about "deadbeat" government? Stupid ass people.
Who you calling stupid?
good parent

Camden, AR

#9 Dec 1, 2012
That's true & all, and it could go both ways, how about a parent that never visits thier kid(s)? And when the kid asks why they blame the other parent, though they are able to take 500 mile trips every few months; one that won't even exercise thier own visitation rights..one that has evaded child support for over a year, how long does it take to catch up on bills, and pay for children you helped make? Or even tell them Happy Birthday? Merry Christmas, Or I Love You..the whole time the kid(s) are blaming themselves thinking its thier fault that thier parent is a pos.
really

Grapevine, TX

#11 Dec 1, 2012
What about the mommas that never give their kids a bath....they have cloths on that look and smell like they never do laundry or bath....they always have rashes cause their not clean and smell luke poop
a single mother

United States

#12 Dec 1, 2012
Some people just don't have the ability to be good parents for one reason or another. It is sad when a child wants both parents involved in their lives and they end up being disappointed by one and sometimes both parents. As the parent who is there, it is your job to be both the mother and father to the best of your ability, and show the child unconditional love and teach them right from wrong.
good parent

United States

#13 Dec 3, 2012
So according to dead beat baby daddy, no dead beat parent is capable of decieving you into believing that they're a good parent and/or person before they have kids with them. Like they dont lie about everything else
good parent

United States

#14 Dec 3, 2012
And just to be specific, I never said father or mother, I said parent, his is not gender specific.
true

United States

#15 Dec 12, 2012
I completely agree with the deadbeat dad comments.. they say they're a good dad but never ask about they're kid nor ask to see their kid. But then want to blame it on you for not letting them see it. I'm sorry but I myself have offered almost everyday for my child's father to see him but he always has something better to do or better yet "someone" better. I'm hurt more at the fact that he refuses to be a part of his child's life. It's okay though, I've raised 2 other children basically on my own and I'm
not afraid to do it again. It's the fathers that are missinh out on all those firsts. I'm happy I get to be there for everything :)
dont lie

United States

#16 Dec 12, 2012
true wrote:
I completely agree with the deadbeat dad comments.. they say they're a good dad but never ask about they're kid nor ask to see their kid. But then want to blame it on you for not letting them see it. I'm sorry but I myself have offered almost everyday for my child's father to see him but he always has something better to do or better yet "someone" better. I'm hurt more at the fact that he refuses to be a part of his child's life. It's okay though, I've raised 2 other children basically on my own and I'm
not afraid to do it again. It's the fathers that are missinh out on all those firsts. I'm happy I get to be there for everything :)
You are white and father is black? Based on deadbeat father statistics majority are black.
single momma

Paradise Valley, AZ

#17 Dec 13, 2012
dont lie wrote:
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You are white and father is black? Based on deadbeat father statistics majority are black.
They might very well be true but I know quite a few white men that are deadbeat dads. Its just funny to me that they are all excited to have a child but once it happens they disappear and only come around to spend time with the babymomma. But they tell all their friends they spend a lot of time with their child. It doesn't take much of seeing them out partying everyday to realize they are lying about spending time with their child/children. They don't have any sense at all to me. But there are quite a few deadbeat moms in this town also. They are to busy out whoring around and doing drugs to worry about their kids. Its really a shame because No child at all asked to be born so the people making them need to take care of them or give them to a family that will care support and show them the attention they deserve.
true

United States

#18 Dec 15, 2012
dont lie wrote:
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You are white and father is black? Based on deadbeat father statistics majority are black.
No.. we are both white..he has two kids, one he would do anything for and the other he would rather shit on. Mine not being the one he would do anything for, obviously.
good parent

Camden, AR

#19 Dec 16, 2012
Its not always about race, there are parents out there that love thier children from every race. As well as parents from every race that don't give a crap about thier offspring.
CPD Insider

United States

#20 Dec 16, 2012
true wrote:
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No.. we are both white..he has two kids, one he would do anything for and the other he would rather shit on. Mine not being the one he would do anything for, obviously.
You don't suck his dong well enough.
left field

Indianapolis, IN

#21 Dec 16, 2012
dont lie wrote:
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You are white and father is black? Based on deadbeat father statistics majority are black.
From where have you gathered these "statistics"? My child's father is a white deadbeat dad. Statistically speaking, you just might be wrong.(Oh heaven forbid a 'white male from the south' should ever be wrong!)

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