Unwed Mothers and Illigitiment Children

[Molly]

Look at the threads "Drug Arrest" and "Single girls wanting to be daddys babys mommies"This happens more than people realize.

[Empty Pockets]

Molly wrote:

Also let me add, i think the fathers should pay for the kids.If the girls will not name the father then they should be willing to work and pay for the kids.

Sorry Molly. I misunderstood what you were saying. I agree with you. These people should be taking care of themselves. The fathers should stand up and take responsibility for their actions. I don't understand how some men who have children can dismiss them and feel nothing. For someone to be able to do that is frightening. To have to hunt a man down to make him take care of a child he made is disgraceful. The majority of men are loving fathers and some of them are being drug through court by stupid women who are trying to get every dime they have by threatening them with not seeing their children. Both men and women should be prepared to take responsibility for their actions or stop having sex.

[Sandy]

Molly wrote:

Look at the threads "Drug Arrest" and "Single girls wanting to be daddys babys mommies"This happens more than people realize.

If you read these you can see why working peoples tax and insurance premiums are so high.Also read"so tired". I agree with this post completley.

[Sandy]

That post was How to get freebies.

[Melanie]

They usually start having the bundles of Joy when they should be in high school so they quit school. .Then the state will take our money and PAY them to go back to school.And the state will pay for the rug rats to go to a nice day care.Working people have to pay over 100.00 a week for their children.I guess it pays to be slutty.

[Robert]

It's time for the white trash, hispanics, and negroes to get off of the taxpayer gravy train.
Of course the illegals flooding this country with anchor babies that we the taxpayers pay for.
I am just a lower middle class provider and therefore we just have 1 child, but I don't rely on the government to pay for my child.

[Molly]

They will never get off the gravy train, as long as the government pays them to have illigitiment kids.Married working people provide for their children but these people that have no pride. Read the other post on here Drug Arrest and Single girls wanting to be Daddys babys mommies.They have nothing to worry about. Insurance,food, housing,utilitis.They are awarded for being sorry.Sandy wrote on one of these about the cost of these kids from the start.Im sure we all would be surprised at how much it is.

[Honey Bee]

Robert wrote:

It's time for the white trash, hispanics, and negroes to get off of the taxpayer gravy train.
Of course the illegals flooding this country with anchor babies that we the taxpayers pay for.
I am just a lower middle class provider and therefore we just have 1 child, but I don't rely on the government to pay for my child.

Robert I agree with you.With all the free health care,food stamps,checks and everything else they get,they will continue to live this way.Then they are so proud to go back to school, because they get paid to go and the tax payers pay for child care for the illigitiment kids.Decent young students struggle to pay to futher their education.But these girls were to busy partying and getting pregnant and did not go to high school.Then their sorry ass gets rewarded.The system is backwards.

[Lee]

No matter how bad things get, they have nothing to worry about.

[luvle]

This is a sensative subject I have 2 friends both on goverment plans but different situations 1 friend of mine is on all the asistants u can think of and she does not have a job nor does she look like she is trying to get 1 she just sits on her behind all day and no I don't think its fair but then I have a friend and she got raped and she didn't want to abort the baby cause it wasn't her fault she hardly made enough to survive by herself so she had to go on all kind of asistants to live. But she does work and she is in school for nursing. So she plans on getting off. I see no problem with the goverment helping people when they r trying to help themselves but when they r not doing anything I say forget them

[luvle]

The thing is they help people that just want to live off the system why not help the people that r trying to better them selves give them a time limit to get there things in order

[Care Bear]

The system does not care about working people.One women told me as soon as one of her daughters had a baby"not married", the people came in to start signing her up for every free assistance there were.So far she has about 10 grandkids that working people paid for and continue to support.When I go to the doctor I have to show insurance card and pay the co-pay befor I see the doctor.

[luvle]

Care Bear wrote:

The system does not care about working people.One women told me as soon as one of her daughters had a baby"not married", the people came in to start signing her up for every free assistance there were.So far she has about 10 grandkids that working people paid for and continue to support.When I go to the doctor I have to show insurance card and pay the co-pay befor I see the doctor.

I pay as well and I also get upset. But not every 1 that is on assistance want to be sometimes they have to be to survive like my parent when I was young all they where on was food stamps but as they got them selves together we soon was off of it like I said the goverment should give people that need the money not the ones that r sitting around waiting for a check like 1 of my ex friends sorry to put her on blast but she get almost 500 dollars in food stamps she lives in a 2 bedroom apartment for free because of housing she gets about 300 dollar cash assistance she has to pay utilitys but then she goes out to these different places and they pay either the whole amount of it or all. She has 2 small kids and don't work. I tell all the time but she doesn't care
Those r the people that we should complain about not the working mother that is widowed with 3 or 4 kids she use to be married and not the girl that once thought she was in love and fell out and concieved a baby and is try to make it by herself going to work and school and trying to take care of her baby

[Molly]

Molly wrote:

Look at the threads "Drug Arrest" and "Single girls wanting to be daddys babys mommies"This happens more than people realize.

These are the kind of people that get all the free things and abuse the system.

[Angela]

When the honest, working people"if you still have a job" are trying to put a good meal on the table for Thanksgiving and Christmas. Or wondering how to buy your children something for Christmas, think about these girls.Not a worry in the world.

[William]

I have a son in college.We pay for his education,but he works part time to help with the cost.After these girls have children the state will pay them to go to college, plus pay for child care and all the other assistance they can get.The system is broken when they reward such behavior.

[Working Mom]

William wrote:

I have a son in college.We pay for his education,but he works part time to help with the cost.After these girls have children the state will pay them to go to college, plus pay for child care and all the other assistance they can get.The system is broken when they reward such behavior.

I agree with you William.Things need to change.

[Sandy]

I went to the doctor today.After I gave them my insurance card and paid my co-pay, I noticed a big sign on the wall.IT IS THE LAW. If you are having an emergency you will not be turned away even if you have no insurance, medicare, medicaid or money.They just make it too easy for those sorry ass people.

[Elephant Man]

and another damn thing is earned income credit i gross 40 k a year and pay in 6k fed tax witheld maybe get a refund 2 or 3 hundred and these welfare moms get a job earn just enough to file and get 4k back! This is bullshit. not to mention how confusing it is on fathers day at thier house.

[Elephant Man]

also people on welfare should be drug screened nad if test positive lose benefits