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life is amazing

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#21 Sep 14, 2012
sammie jo wrote:
I feel the same pparent 101....sounds like they are trying to convincr themselves of something...since this is s public thread and we have no clue??4
There's no need for convincing when there's obvious proof seen openly! But apparently from how these post from this thread reads from each of you was in on the affair(s)! If mistaken .......my apologies.
A wife or living partner/girlfriend as does husband/boyfriend expect and want fidelity in their relationship. Am I wrong? Don't believe I am. Diseases and inflections are everywhere and irresponsible partners who are unfaithful care little for protection. So why would a loving and caring woman step back from a passionate nature .. when doctor confirms the obvious?
sammie jo

United States

#22 Sep 14, 2012
Actually its adultery to live together.sleep togeth unmarried...its also adultery look on someone with lust in ur heart...
sammie jo

United States

#23 Sep 14, 2012
Ok then wrote:
<quoted text>My comment wasn't to you. Sorry, i myself was wondering what a public thread like this was.
.......y air ur dirty laundry i say
life is amazing

United States

#24 Sep 14, 2012
sammie jo wrote:
Actually its adultery to live together.sleep togeth unmarried...its also adultery look on someone with lust in ur heart...
Then practice what you preach not WHAT you teach.
When rings are exchanged and promise of marriage made....with "fiancee" being used to introduce.... states a life long mate in the eyes of God....acts of deliberate betrayal.....leads to breech of promise.
life is amazing

United States

#25 Sep 14, 2012
sammie jo wrote:
<quoted text>.......y air ur dirty laundry i say
Well, not my laundry that needs the washing.
sammie jo

United States

#26 Sep 14, 2012
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life is amazing wrote:
<quoted text>
Then practice what you preach not WHAT you teach.
When rings are exchanged and promise of marriage made....with "fiancee" being used to introduce.... states a life long mate in the eyes of God....acts of deliberate betrayal.....leads to breech of promise.
......u were already committing adultery in the eyed of god so the straying was no more sin than what already committed..just stating a fact if we r speaking of in the eyes of god....ad yes maam u first aired ur laundry by starting this post regarding ur stds....then accused of us of knowin of an affair when im sure i speak for everyone whose posted...we have no clue who u r or who ur speaking of....but like said y air out on the net.if ur so much better?
life is amazing

United States

#27 Sep 14, 2012
sammie jo wrote:
Actually its adultery to live together.sleep togeth unmarried...its also adultery look on someone with lust in ur heart...
Wrong! It's FORTIFICATION not adultery!
It's adultery when a husband or wife or two people promised to the other and one steps out on the other ...sleeps with one who is not their marital or betrothed partner. Know the true difference!!
Guess ...pammie Jo oh sorry sammie jo..that last comment of yours must fit you as being the one taking part! Hmmm

Because a real Lady and a Gentleman will remain loyal and true to their partner for they have integrity and dignity and LOVE for their mate. Where as a mere man and or woman will behave like a dog and seek gratification wherever it's offered up!
life is amazing

United States

#28 Sep 14, 2012
sammie jo wrote:
..<quoted text>......u were already committing adultery in the eyed of god so the straying was no more sin than what already committed..just stating a fact if we r speaking of in the eyes of god....ad yes maam u first aired ur laundry by starting this post regarding ur stds....then accused of us of knowin of an affair when im sure i speak for everyone whose posted...we have no clue who u r or who ur speaking of....but like said y air out on the net.if ur so much better?
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Std...no hun...yeast / bladder INFECTIONS....read posts. They did do wrong for as long as we were together common law marriages is more practiced than marriages due to a high divorce rate. So in the eyes of God...WE WERE BOUND AS ONE! And they indeed committed a sin by their very actions. My sin was believing and trusting they were a good man and loving him as such.
And actually...I didn't state any such thing NOT until asked. You know those inquiring minds and where it leads!!
Parent101

United States

#29 Sep 14, 2012
sammie jo wrote:
<quoted text>........u were already committing adultery in the eyed of god so the straying was no more sin than what already committed..just stating a fact if we r speaking of in the eyes of god....ad yes maam u first aired ur laundry by starting this post regarding ur stds....then accused of us of knowin of an affair when im sure i speak for everyone whose posted...we have no clue who u r or who ur speaking of....but like said y air out on the net.if ur so much better?
I strongly agree with you!!
Parent101

United States

#30 Sep 14, 2012
life is amazing wrote:
<quoted text>.
Std...no hun...yeast / bladder INFECTIONS....read posts. They did do wrong for as long as we were together common law marriages is more practiced than marriages due to a high divorce rate. So in the eyes of God...WE WERE BOUND AS ONE! And they indeed committed a sin by their very actions. My sin was believing and trusting they were a good man and loving him as such.
And actually...I didn't state any such thing NOT until asked. You know those inquiring minds and where it leads!!
in the same perspective , you obviously just want attention.
life is amazing

United States

#31 Sep 14, 2012
Parent101 wrote:
<quoted text>
in the same perspective , you obviously just want attention.
Ah...TENT...SHUN! last I looked I wasn't in the Army! So WRONG to disappoint ya!
Who is being really OFFENDED here? It sure wasn't ever me! Let's clarify that now!
Just a little FYI......if you don't want to know the answers/replies....don't bother inquiring. Because inquiring minds NEVER like to really know the truth of the matter!
As for posting " dirty laundry"....EXACTLY where in the first 2 posts...was that stated to get this thread where it is now? ONLY THOSE POSTS! show where?
Ummmm

United States

#32 Sep 14, 2012
If your man gave you an STI from cheating, then you should have dumped his ass the first time. If he loved you as much as you love him (god knows I would not have stayed with a man like that), then he woukd respect you and your body. You can keep blaming him and the other woman, but the truth is, you're setting yourself up. Not only for mental anguish, but in the long run repeated STIs can start to cause some serious damage.
life is amazing

United States

#33 Sep 15, 2012
THANKS.
sammie jo

United States

#34 Sep 15, 2012
life is amazing wrote:
<quoted text>
Wrong! It's FORTIFICATION not adultery!
It's adultery when a husband or wife or two people promised to the other and one steps out on the other ...sleeps with one who is not their marital or betrothed partner. Know the true difference!!
Guess ...pammie Jo oh sorry sammie jo..that last comment of yours must fit you as being the one taking part! Hmmm
Because a real Lady and a Gentleman will remain loyal and true to their partner for they have integrity and dignity and LOVE for their mate. Where as a mere man and or woman will behave like a dog and seek gratification wherever it's offered up!
..........no where in the bible does it say its ok to shack up...and where does it say in gods eyes u are married?....it does however say in matthew 5 vs 28........"but i tell you anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart"....please dont change the bible to fit what u want....
sammie jo

United States

#35 Sep 15, 2012
life is amazing wrote:
I have not ever had such a good hard laugh as I did the other day! What was suspected ALL ALONG which made me ACT and BEHAVE as I did towards them; for after all my body ALWAYS shows the signs no matter their denial. I trust my body and my Dr any day over a philanderer!
But at least, I feel better knowing I'm much better than the mid 50 something that looks like they slept in a gutter. I definitely looked more of a WOMAN and LADY that's for damn sure! Boy, talk about wanting someone like themselves....they SUNK LOW! PITY... actually! BTW...take a picture....it lasts a lifetime!
Never believed those lies, but they sure thought I did. I'm no fool!
ROTFLMAO!
LIFE IS INDEED AMAZING!
I HAVE ONE AND IT'S DECENT AND I AM ENJOYING EVERY DAY OF IT! THANKS FOR PROVING I WAS RIGHT EVERYTIME I SAID IT WAS YOU IN THE WRONG NOT ME!
.........and if not wanting attention OR TO AIR ur dirty laundry.....y post this to the public and not in a private letter?....that doesnt say much for ur character"hun"...... sorry u were hurt like the oither pooster said he must not of cared enuf to betray u...and y not leave...ur body....u control what u let happens .and ur place to take care of ut
!
life is amazing

United States

#36 Sep 15, 2012
sammie jo wrote:
<quoted text>..........no where in the bible does it say its ok to shack up...and where does it say in gods eyes u are married?....it does however say in matthew 5 vs 28........"but i tell you anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart"....please dont change the bible to fit what u want....
Wasn't changing bible. It's odd how OTHERS can "air their dirty laundry" all over this website. Yet, you who have commented on this one to say I shouldn't have done it....sounds double standard and are trying to turn the tables on me.That don't work here for apparently this has not ever happened to you! Or you think how I was done was perfectly alright and possibly I was deserving of such a heartless display?!
This is placed here for a reason! You wish to judge me for stating facts and my way of living! Whether wrong in yours or Gods, then know I am not now, but he has sunk so low and still living in SIN with something just that now fits the person he's become! Yet, he attends church "acting like" he's a good Christian. Is this not hypocrisy? None of you understand the real reason behind any threads posted here from me! You aren't meant to but some of you find it cool for my gender (female) to be treated like a toy or worse by a man with no care of how it does those involved!!
sammie jo

United States

#37 Sep 15, 2012
Nobody said it was ok...we are only stating facts this is a forum...public whats said is said...merely pointing out facts and letting u know if u dont want it discussed ..dont post...i dont know u....dont know bout the rest...u accused us of knowing about an affair...honey u got issue....again sorry u were hurt....but if u dont want opinions or remarks dont put it public.if u want sympathy talk to ur friends.
life is amazing

United States

#38 Sep 15, 2012
sammie jo wrote:
Nobody said it was ok...we are only stating facts this is a forum...public whats said is said...merely pointing out facts and letting u know if u dont want it discussed ..dont post...i dont know u....dont know bout the rest...u accused us of knowing about an affair...honey u got issue....again sorry u were hurt....but if u dont want opinions or remarks dont put it public.if u want sympathy talk to ur friends.
Thanks. Understood. Many would have an issue, but no one deserves to be treated in such a way. My apologies to any I may have offended on "knowing about affair". But those who have approached me concerning this feel its appropriate and ok. I don't and family and friends find it disgusting and totally wrong. While thus far on here, many of you don't. Maybe it was approach here wrong. I was trying to see how other decent and well mannered individuals with views on fidelity, love, commitment, lies, deception, etc, felt toward such a dishonorable and disgraceful behavior would have effected them had it been them done like this especially when the woman have been good to the man in all ways she felt mannered. Something that is a rarity in today's world.
one

Morriston, FL

#39 Sep 15, 2012
life is amazing wrote:
<quoted text>
The reason is this...when a man and woman make a COMMITMENT to be in a relationship and to be FAITHFUL to each other, that is sacred promises that are made between them and God. Whether married or living as married minus the paper. So if one "steps out on the other" that's adultery. Then they bring home like nothing has happened and have relations with their wife or girlfriend and causes things to be painful for her to where she must see a doctor! Wouldn't you be JUSY a little perturbed as well as suspicious as to why each time you were with him ...ya got ill there? Yet they convince you they love and are true to only you?
without the paper then he or she is not really into it.thats way they want marrie you. i was told nobodys going to buy a cow, when the milk is free.stop being so free.just saying
John Deer Green

United States

#40 Sep 15, 2012
one wrote:
<quoted text>
without the paper then he or she is not really into it.thats way they want marrie you. i was told nobodys going to buy a cow, when the milk is free.stop being so free.just saying
there are many in this town who live without a "paper" and remain true to the other then there are those who put out to exchange for their addictive needs ...that might change how you'd view it? or do it? just a sayin... so does that make them a bigger cow? or just a swinger hanging it anywhere to get the next fix when the one at home is clean?

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