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Herewego

Whitwell, TN

#26 Jan 29, 2012
I can understand her feeling that way. And when we are resting, we get PLENTY of time to rest. Women do work at our dorm. So when we go to the diner, or even to the other fine eating facilities, we find people to chat with. The only social time we get is when we are away because it seems like we are away from home longer then we are AT home. The people i work with are my best friends, so we hang out alot. As with my wife, what else can a man expect, i guess, while i am gone so long. And ok.. maybe a few more stray from the flock then i previously said, but you gotta know in your heart what you should do, and i know my family comes first.
hey husband

Georgetown, TN

#27 Jan 31, 2012
Herewego wrote:
I can understand her feeling that way. And when we are resting, we get PLENTY of time to rest. Women do work at our dorm. So when we go to the diner, or even to the other fine eating facilities, we find people to chat with. The only social time we get is when we are away because it seems like we are away from home longer then we are AT home. The people i work with are my best friends, so we hang out alot. As with my wife, what else can a man expect, i guess, while i am gone so long. And ok.. maybe a few more stray from the flock then i previously said, but you gotta know in your heart what you should do, and i know my family comes first.
were you resting when you wrote this?laptops are convenient arent they? set up an account on dating sites check out whats available in the area you are working.eventually set up an encounter with a local. tell us more about the women that work at the dorm. clean rooms? are they women that a wife needs to worry about? wait. men dont care if a woman is attractive if she is ready willing and able he will do her. do these women give it for free or will they accept a tip for "cleaning"? do you listen to their problems and feel sorry for them? these are valid questions. a man alone in a room away from home on a regular basis. connections will be made. sounds like men who work for the rr have it made. a nice little trip away from wife and kids and when you are home a wife that will spoil you and makes sure you are rested for your next trip. and of course when confronted by wife about issues such as faithfulness or needing a little help at home you men can use the excuse im working providing for the family. he knows he has a woman at home who is probably dependent on him and it would be hard for her to leave him so she puts up with his lies. he will make her feel guilty for asking questions and wanting to make sure she has a secure marriage. men like to avoid the tough questions. sounds like you men could easily lead 2 lives. for men that have a shady reputation to begin with its a great job for being able to screw around with as many women as possible...love em and leave em.
The Wife

Van Wert, OH

#28 Feb 13, 2012
I am married to a railroader(well not for long lol)We had been together 15yrs. I have a very good job myself, raised our kids, done all the home improvements blahblahblah...Never questioned him cause hey I thought he was workin lol Then I find out that he was on all those dating sites, I even found out that while in Georgia for engineer training he cheated with another railroader! and yep she is married too! After some diggin around this seems to be the way most(not all)those railroaders do ther wives!
The Wife

Van Wert, OH

#30 Feb 14, 2012
Wish I could help but if you suspect simply just start by asking him some questions.
Herewego

United States

#31 Feb 15, 2012
My frustration comes from this type of talk. Yes i was on rest when i wrote it. I work very hard to show my wife i love her and i dont get on those sites. Honestly because im a gaming nerd and play xbox most of the time im in burnside. Of course i get tired of it and look for something else to do..like topix or facebook. To be honest im very proud of my job. I enjoy it and very good money.
The Wife

Van Wert, OH

#33 Feb 15, 2012
I dont mean to frustrate you or anyone.Infact I am glad you are true to your wife! Lord knows I wouldnt want any other woman to feel the hurt I have had over this craziness. The men who do these things are idiots!They think that they can screw around while out of town and no one will ever find out. Well I did find out at least some of it and it killed me to know my partner in life was so disrespectful,unfaithful and a liar! Hell maybe the RR should be sending out letters to the wives letting us know we should be taking shifts in the lobby of these so called dorms!lol
wife

Georgetown, TN

#34 Feb 17, 2012
Herewego wrote:
My frustration comes from this type of talk. Yes i was on rest when i wrote it. I work very hard to show my wife i love her and i dont get on those sites. Honestly because im a gaming nerd and play xbox most of the time im in burnside. Of course i get tired of it and look for something else to do..like topix or facebook. To be honest im very proud of my job. I enjoy it and very good money.
frustrated? why? because you realize now that you or maybe some of your coworkers are finally being uncovered for the cheats that you are? you should be proud of your job but making "good money" and having a caring and sometimes gullible wife at home does not afford you a permit to stray and act like dogs. a man with any job that takes him out of town on a regular basis will eventually discover that he has the perfect opportunity to entertain and be entertained ;) we women get it and realize this is a very realistic scenerio. so we have to trust you that you dont cheat until we find pcs of evidence that proves to us you are. i would be frustrated to to realize im about to be discovered. maybe you are an honest faithful man but because you have coworkers and such that do stray you have to watch your step twice as much. thank your fellow coworkers who do cheat for making your job harder as a husband. valentines day just passed. i hope you treated your wife well.
Herewego

Finley, TN

#35 Feb 25, 2012
Actually i did..lol i bought her an ipad so we can finally video chat! ;-) The frustration actually comes from knowing the reputation. I know of some people who do take advantage of the time away, but to be honest i dont hang with them outside of work. The friends i do hang out with are the ones that i know dont have shenanigans..lol but anyway thank you guys that treat us well while we are out of town. Dont take that the wrong way..lol it feels good that if i gotta be away from home at least im partially comfortable while away. Yall take care!
Im the wife at home

Greer, SC

#50 Dec 23, 2012
I believed everything was fine when he left out on the train. I work my butt off and take care of our two little ones. I found out one night out of the blue a female texted him and that's when I was told they were "just friends"
Yeah, Ok...
She knows of my existence and our children. She was cutting my husband's hair and it became a friendship on the phone... His hotel room isalways near the exit.
Geee...
If I was cheating it would make it easier to be sneaky.
The thing here is... Once he stepped over the line one too many times
It just made himself look bad. Now the day will come and maybe I will find a friend. Big dummy. Keep playing me. I will have the kids, the house the dog and your truck!!!!
Railroader

Jasper, TN

#51 Mar 16, 2016
How many marriages have been broken up bc of cheating spouses? Is this still going on in 2016 at the dorms? Are women allowed in their rooms?

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