Family Celebrates Missing Teen's Birthday

[aLifeUncommon]

Desert Rat wrote:

A life uncommon appears to be a member of a duet moron common law partnership - First she must have low seft esteem to have quit high school and the Buford college of beauty all in the same week. Both with her attitude and with her choice of partner (a law enforcement official) shows she does not espire to be anything other than a wal-mart greeter. A teenage boy is missing!! It's not his parents fault that he had two fake id's. By the way if life uncommon had any sense she would know that at 18, the kid could have gone into Wild Bills legally!! To the parents, you are in my prayers. To life uncommon, please step out of the box, get your GED, because your job at wal-mart is in jeopardy.

Aren't you just the sweetest little troll.
If you know so much about my partner, then you also know damn good and well I am a nurse.

BTW, I hate walmart! Target is much better!

TaTa

[Jimmy]

Desert Rat wrote:

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You have to be a total idiot - You have teenage girls? If they haven't, they will soon learn what a backseat of a car is for. What are you going to do then, take binoculars on a double date?
Get a life, and leave these parents alone or you may one day eat of the dish these parents have been served!!!
Be not deceived, God is not mocked, what so ever a man (or woman) seweth, that shall he also reap!! If a man sows the wind, he shall reap a whrilwind.
Life Uncommon, are you ready for the big blow cause it's coming!!
I am praying for the parents of this boy.

You live in Arizona and perhaps all children go down the tubes there but here in Georgia, some of us know how to raise children. It does not always work out for the best but at least we give it a shot instead of just letting anything happen.

The next time you call someone a total idiot, you ought to look in the mirror.

[same ol same ol]

aLifeUncommon wrote:

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No shit sherlock. You are deliberately missing the point.
Typical.

no from what I read you people are saying if you raise your children right then you want have to deal with problems of them doing wrong and getting in trouble so you are missing the point.

[aLifeUncommon]

same ol same ol wrote:

<quoted text>no from what I read you people are saying if you raise your children right then you want have to deal with problems of them doing wrong and getting in trouble so you are missing the point.

Ok sugar.
I'm talking to a wall. I give up.

[henhouse]

I see that these morons aren't giving up after all they are the perfect poeple

[Stepmom]

THIS is the only thing I will reply to:

"I would give up to. There are so many more important things to attend to. Whey waste time looking for a loser?"

My stepson is NOT a loser! He's a very well-liked, much loved -by many- young man. Everyone makes mistakes in life, and no matter what mistakes he has made it does not provoke this outcome. NO ONE should have to endure this pain, and I only pray that no one else would ever have to go through this.

[Kelli McGill]

Jimmy wrote:

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Today, a man was shot in a bank parking lot. He was probably going to make a deposit or just made a withdrawal. He was just living his life.
I have tremendous sympathy for this man and his family. It is tragic that a person cannot go to a bank in peace.
Compare this with Justin Gaines. He was breaking the law and it appears no one cared about it. If I knew one of my children were going to bars under age, I would inform the police where they were and request that they be arrested.
No one wants to hold people responsible for their actions and that is why we have the Justin Gaines of the world.
If you cannot see the relationship, you really are pretty blind.

You are a real asshole let me tell you you are speaking of things you do not know. I am Justin's Aunt and have help raise him practically and let me tell you his parents nor any of us close to him knew he had a fake ID nor did we know he had been drinking as much as he was until after he disaappeared then friends of his came out of the woodworks telling us how bad it was but never did anyone tell us before hand. DO NOT JUDGE PEOPLE YOU DO NOT KNOW MY FAMILY IS GOING THROUGH HELL RIGHT NOW AND COMMENTS LIKE YOURS DON"T HELP. You made a real ass out of yourself.

[Jimmy]

Kelli McGill wrote:

<quoted text> You are a real asshole let me tell you you are speaking of things you do not know. I am Justin's Aunt and have help raise him practically and let me tell you his parents nor any of us close to him knew he had a fake ID nor did we know he had been drinking as much as he was until after he disaappeared then friends of his came out of the woodworks telling us how bad it was but never did anyone tell us before hand. DO NOT JUDGE PEOPLE YOU DO NOT KNOW MY FAMILY IS GOING THROUGH HELL RIGHT NOW AND COMMENTS LIKE YOURS DON"T HELP. You made a real ass out of yourself.

I understand your frustration but why did Justin have to disapear before the family had a clue about what he was doing?

Keeping up with what your kids are doing takes effort and time. You need to think about that.

[carly]

Jimmy wrote:

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I understand your frustration but why did Justin have to disapear before the family had a clue about what he was doing?
Keeping up with what your kids are doing takes effort and time. You need to think about that.

get a life Jimmy you are a moron this family is suffering they don't need you or anyone else putting them through any more hell than they are already going through no matter what Justin deserves to either be found alive or justice served if God forbid the worse may come out. I pray for the family and for Justin and if you have any kind of heart MR Jimmy you would do the same instead of making it worse by your comments putting them down and for JUSTIN'S FAMILY MY HEART GOES OUT FOR YOU AND MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO ALL OF YOU AND TO JUSTIN FOR A SAFE RETURN.

[JustinGainesStep mom]

Jimmy wrote:

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I understand your frustration but why did Justin have to disapear before the family had a clue about what he was doing?
Keeping up with what your kids are doing takes effort and time. You need to think about that.

Justin was 18!! He was IN college and had an apartment-what would you like us to do, install a camera on him?!?!?! Not everyone is perfect and EVERYONE makes mistakes!

[JustinGainesStep mom]

Carly thank you for your kind words.

[aLifeUncommon]

You ladies have proven our points. The "aunt" says she practically raised the kid and they "didn't know about the drinking" then the step mom is in the picture.

Sounds quite dysfunctional, no wonder he drank.

Where were/are the MOTHER and FATHER?!?!?

And with you two hens being so pissy, how do you expect anyone to take you seriously.

Lastly, if it were MY family, the LAST thing I'd be doing is getting online defending to strangers.

Trolls!

[carly]

aLifeUncommon wrote:

You ladies have proven our points. The "aunt" says she practically raised the kid and they "didn't know about the drinking" then the step mom is in the picture.
Sounds quite dysfunctional, no wonder he drank.
Where were/are the MOTHER and FATHER?!?!?
And with you two hens being so pissy, how do you expect anyone to take you seriously.
Lastly, if it were MY family, the LAST thing I'd be doing is getting online defending to strangers.
Trolls!

maybe you need to to pay closer attention to your family after all it is about as dysfunctional as anyones probably more so If the truth was known so go back to your make believe family life that is so perfect at let everyone else enjoy what they know is not a perfect family because lady no one has the perfect life.

[aLifeUncommon]

carly wrote:

<quoted text>maybe you need to to pay closer attention to your family after all it is about as dysfunctional as anyones probably more so If the truth was known so go back to your make believe family life that is so perfect at let everyone else enjoy what they know is not a perfect family because lady no one has the perfect life.

I certainly don't recall ever using the term perfect. But I can clearly see how you people like to embellish to make yourselves look good.

[Jimmy]

carly wrote:

<quoted text>maybe you need to to pay closer attention to your family after all it is about as dysfunctional as anyones probably more so If the truth was known so go back to your make believe family life that is so perfect at let everyone else enjoy what they know is not a perfect family because lady no one has the perfect life.

I believe that dysfunctional is probably the norm for most families. But, there are degrees of dysfunctional.

Few families, perhaps none, live up to what they trully want their families to be but some families put little effort into it. The kids drift away and the family does not even know it is happening.

My parents kept up with me until I joined the Marines and I kept up with my children until they were married.

I did not know everything they were doing but I was aware of their life style. I tried to keep informed.

Now they keep me informed and are happy to share what is happening in their lives.

Were we the perfect family? No, not by a long shot but my kids turned out well and I am proud of them.

I only know what I know about Justin by what I have read in articles and on posts here. It is all second hand information but from that information, it appears he was adrift, doing what he wanted to, and no one tried to pull him back.

Now he is gone. Being gone, may mean that he decided to run away and he is still out there somewhere. There is a chance he is still alive but if he is, why would an 18 year old college student decide to bolt?

Be angry with me if you want but my intentions have nothing to do with Justin, I want parents to understand that they need to be aware of what their children are doing. I want teens to understand that what they do, can impact them.

If anyone chances behaviors now, and that saves one life, then being blunt served its purpose.

[Carly]

Jimmy wrote:

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I believe that dysfunctional is probably the norm for most families. But, there are degrees of dysfunctional.
Few families, perhaps none, live up to what they trully want their families to be but some families put little effort into it. The kids drift away and the family does not even know it is happening.
My parents kept up with me until I joined the Marines and I kept up with my children until they were married.
I did not know everything they were doing but I was aware of their life style. I tried to keep informed.
Now they keep me informed and are happy to share what is happening in their lives.
Were we the perfect family? No, not by a long shot but my kids turned out well and I am proud of them.
I only know what I know about Justin by what I have read in articles and on posts here. It is all second hand information but from that information, it appears he was adrift, doing what he wanted to, and no one tried to pull him back.
Now he is gone. Being gone, may mean that he decided to run away and he is still out there somewhere. There is a chance he is still alive but if he is, why would an 18 year old college student decide to bolt?
Be angry with me if you want but my intentions have nothing to do with Justin, I want parents to understand that they need to be aware of what their children are doing. I want teens to understand that what they do, can impact them.
If anyone chances behaviors now, and that saves one life, then being blunt served its purpose.

My question to you is how do you know that this family didn't every child has done something stupid some get by others don't but its not the parents fault I love my children more than myself I watched every move I knew where they were but when they went to college they changed they knew they could get away with more than they could at home so they took chances. Chances now they talk about and they get scared thinking about what they did. They turned out to be great kids with kids of their own all kids stray but if raised right they will come back home but it is the in between times we have to worry about.

[Jimmy]

Carly wrote:

<quoted text>My question to you is how do you know that this family didn't every child has done something stupid some get by others don't but its not the parents fault I love my children more than myself I watched every move I knew where they were but when they went to college they changed they knew they could get away with more than they could at home so they took chances. Chances now they talk about and they get scared thinking about what they did. They turned out to be great kids with kids of their own all kids stray but if raised right they will come back home but it is the in between times we have to worry about.

As I stated before, what I know about Justin, I learned by reading articles about him and reading posts on this board.

From that information, I formed an opinion and have expressed it on this board.

Blogs are for expressing opinions. That is what I have done.