It was not my intention to anger you to the point that you threaten me with a face to face confrontation. It is not my intention to degrade you, or "judge you".<quoted text>In this unfortunate and tragic event i believe adoption probably would have been the better choice for that girl. But from what I heard the dude who killed that little boy was not the father, he was a boyfriend to the mother! Yes in situations like that horrible acts are usually performed by an outside member, aka.. step parents, boyfriends, girlfriends! Not normally biological parents, though it does happen. You keep saying i am having children outside of wedlock! Sry but this is not an art of having bastard children that im doing. I dont have an exhibit..lol..so when you say that you are also referring to my family. That my children should be taken from me to a "real family". That pisses me off more than anything! This family is as real as yours! Me and my fiance have been together for 6 god damn years! And we have been together solidly this whole time. Not that on and off bullshit you see with every other young couple! Marriage will come when it can be afforded! So dont you dare try putting me in the same category as that other girl! You best remember nothing is secure over the internet it wouldnt be hard for me to find you, and I WILL if you keep that bullshit up, ill pay you a visit so you can meet me and my family and you tell me then what you think! I know you will be singing a different tune when you see we are nothing like what you think we are!
I harbor no animosity toward you. I don't even know you, but I do know your type.
Your claim that you are unmarried and in a defacto "Common Law Marriage" (not valid in NYS by the way), does not fly because there are too many inconsistencies in your story:
1. You don't need to get married because it is "just a piece of paper"
2. You are waiting to get married because you can't afford the ceremony/reception.
These two excuses/reasons contradict each other. That is not your fault because they don't teach logic at BOCES.
A marriage is not "just a piece of paper".Ideally, it is a three-way covenant between a husband, a wife, and God.
This is not important to you (or so you say), so you choose to breed within a relationship that is tantamount to those practiced by lesser species within the animal kingdom (dogs, monkeys, etc).
I think you are lying. You are lying to me, Buffalo Topix, your children, and YOURSELF.
You want nothing more than to be a REAL wife and a REAL mother, and have a REAL family.
You want to have that "big wedding" with a big white dress and be walked down the aisle by your "father" whom you probably never met, and pretend you are a princess.
That won't happen. Accept it.
I don't know your religious affiliation, but you should head on down to that church and tell the priest, minister, rabbi, or whatever your situation. They will (or they should) understand. You could even be married in the church office on a Tuesday afternoon with a couple of witnesses (friends, relatives,etc) just to make it legal. It might cost you $50 bucks to cover the filing fees.
Then you and your now REAL family can go to Chuck E. Cheese to celebrate.
But, what I really suspect is that the "father" of your children is playing you. He will NEVER marry you. He will move on within the next couple years and leave you alone with those poor children. He is happy now because he has a not fat woman to bang and he can bask in the glory of your government entitlements
I might be a genius. I might say things that upset people. It would make me happy to you do the things that are necessary to legitimize those four people you falsely claim is a "family", so that your children are no longer illegitimate and you are a REAL family