Bauerle Writes Dear Abby.

Bauerle Writes Dear Abby.

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Alana Mackie

United States

#1 Jul 22, 2010
FEELINGS FOR BEST FRIEND ARE BURDEN FOR BISEXUAL MALE

DEAR ABBY: I am a 47-year-old male who has recently come to terms with the fact that I am bisexual. My problem lies in the fact that I am strongly attracted to one of my best friends. I have liked him for several years, and he is a large part of the reason I discovered I was bisexual. I know he is straight and won't ever feel the same about me, but every time I'm around him, my romantic feelings for him start up again.

It has reached the point where I'm considering avoiding him to stop these feelings. None of my close friends are gay, and I don't feel comfortable discussing this with them. Is there any way I can still be friends with him without being so intensely attracted to him?--
TOM BAUERLE
WNYResident

Seattle, WA

#2 Jul 22, 2010
This may be wonderful news! I wonder if I'm the "friend"? Oh, if only...
M Jackson

Buffalo, NY

#3 Jul 22, 2010
You're looking at the man in the mirro, you queer socialist liberal homo.
Pvt- Daniel J-Holley

Greene, ME

#4 Jul 22, 2010
M Jackson wrote:
You're looking at the man in the mirro, you queer socialist liberal homo.
Here's the funny thing about your post: You actually THINK you know who you're talking/writing to and you're WRONG. As usual.

Guess you think that Bauerle's a great American, informative and entertaining to defend him or you're just talking tough.
As usual.
Tom Bowelry

Tonawanda, NY

#5 Jul 22, 2010
M Jackson wrote:
You're looking at the man in the mirro, you queer socialist liberal homo.
Just because I've separated from the Republican party, doesn't mean I'm a "Liberal." Everything else you said is true, but I think you should take back the "Liberal" comment.

But I digress.

Who's with me?

Stay alert, stay alive, God bless you and GO [email protected] YOURSELF, JIMMY.
Salvation army

Buffalo, NY

#6 Jul 22, 2010
Private my ass. You wouldn't even be able to achieve that low rank, you lowlife scumbag.

Get a job. Do something with your pitiful life.

You Stolen valor punk ass liberal Dumb ass
TBs Neighbor

Niagara Falls, NY

#7 Sep 18, 2010
Is this a joke? Bauerle has more smoking hot chicks at his place in a week than I've had in a lifetime. His new "steady" is a total babe. And he is also a real person. During the October storm he helped the seniors with their repairs, and he has turned a bad house into a showpiece. Talk to his neighbors. He is a riot. Ask the people he has helped. We love Tom. And we actually know him.
And he thinks the talk of his being "gay" or "bi" is a riot. If he liked guys that way, he would say so. Everybody knows everybody else's business here. We have "gays" in the hood, and TB is SO not that way.
Sounds like some troll is jealous of his looks, talent and money. Maybe you should ask him for his secret, since the dude is a chick magnet. I am jealous too (3 hours work a day and a new Porsche every year?), but he is one of the finest men I've ever met.
TBs Real Neighbor

Tonawanda, NY

#8 Sep 18, 2010
TBs Neighbor wrote:
Is this a joke? Bauerle has more smoking hot chicks at his place in a week than I've had in a lifetime. His new "steady" is a total babe. And he is also a real person. During the October storm he helped the seniors with their repairs, and he has turned a bad house into a showpiece. Talk to his neighbors. He is a riot. Ask the people he has helped. We love Tom. And we actually know him.
And he thinks the talk of his being "gay" or "bi" is a riot. If he liked guys that way, he would say so. Everybody knows everybody else's business here. We have "gays" in the hood, and TB is SO not that way.
Sounds like some troll is jealous of his looks, talent and money. Maybe you should ask him for his secret, since the dude is a chick magnet. I am jealous too (3 hours work a day and a new Porsche every year?), but he is one of the finest men I've ever met.
If you were truly one of Tom's neighbors, you'd know just about everything you just said is not true.
TBs Neighbor

Niagara Falls, NY

#9 Sep 18, 2010
I live on the same block ON c.. You are obviously J-E-A-L-O-U-S.
TBs Real Neighbor

Tonawanda, NY

#10 Sep 18, 2010
TBs Neighbor wrote:
I live on the same block ON c.. You are obviously J-E-A-L-O-U-S.
I also live on Columbia, and you're a liar and/or Tom Bauerle, himself. Either way, you're a liar.

The new Porsche every year was funny, helping seniors with repairs was even funnier, but the smoking hot chicks had me, literally, rolling on the floor.

Sorry, Tom, but not too many people in this world will ever be jealous of you.
Jar Binga

Lockport, NY

#11 Sep 18, 2010
M Jackson wrote:
You're looking at the man in the mirro, you queer socialist liberal homo.
Hey Jimmy, remember way back in the 70's when that Irish fellow gave you a thumping?

I laughed so hard at you getting whooped that I dropped my quart of Genny Cream Ale. That Mick rolled you around in the grass and your mullet got full of dog shit.

Perhaps that was the beginning of your shoulder problems and getting porked from behind in the shower aboard ship had nothing to do with your Navy disability.
You always were a big faker and a crybaby.
I'm sure nothing has changed.

Your old chum,
J Binga
Irish Hooligan

Buffalo, NY

#12 Sep 18, 2010
Jar Binga wrote:
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Hey Jimmy, remember way back in the 70's when that Irish fellow gave you a thumping?
I laughed so hard at you getting whooped that I dropped my quart of Genny Cream Ale. That Mick rolled you around in the grass and your mullet got full of dog shit.
Perhaps that was the beginning of your shoulder problems and getting porked from behind in the shower aboard ship had nothing to do with your Navy disability.
You always were a big faker and a crybaby.
I'm sure nothing has changed.
Your old chum,
J Binga
That was me. One time at Caz park I beat him from black bridge, all the way to the golf course, and back again, just for the exercise. Afterwards me and the boys ran a train on Christine, as Jimmy looked around for his broken yellow tooth. He hasnt been right since.
TBs Neighbor

Niagara Falls, NY

#13 Sep 18, 2010
OK. There is one black lab on the street. Name him.
Scott_S

Greene, ME

#14 Sep 19, 2010
Salvation army wrote:
Private my ass. You wouldn't even be able to achieve that low rank, you lowlife scumbag.
Get a job. Do something with your pitiful life.
You Stolen valor punk ass liberal Dumb ass
"Pitiful?" I was not pretending to be a solider, loser.
Just using Daniel Holly's name as a point.

I would NEVER want to be a private or any other kind of HIRED KILLER, assh-le.

You know where I live.
Stop on over.
Throw the first punch in front of witnesses.
No weapons.
No retaliation no matter who wins.
And I get to play dentist.
TBs Real Neighbor

Tonawanda, NY

#15 Sep 19, 2010
TBs Neighbor wrote:
OK. There is one black lab on the street. Name him.
Tucker.
Teabaggers are Cowards

Hollis Center, ME

#16 Sep 19, 2010
Bauerle is a legend in his own mind, nothing more!
TBs Real Neighbor

Tonawanda, NY

#17 Sep 20, 2010
I said, "TUCKER," Tommy.

Where did you go?

What are you? A scaredy cat? LMFAO!!!
TBs Neighbor

Niagara Falls, NY

#18 Sep 20, 2010
If you really lived here, you'd know the name of the dog. Not even a good guess. Here's a hint: it has TWO names, which you'd know.

We've lived within view of TB for quite some time, and we couldn't ask for a better neighbor.

Have fun with your life.
EZZZZZ

Hamburg, NY

#19 Sep 20, 2010
I believe the bisexual thing. I always thought swingers were supposed to be "discreet?" Guess not if you and your spouse are switchin it up with Bauerle and his "steady." Guess you can't trust anyone these days!!!
TBs Real Neighbor

Tonawanda, NY

#20 Sep 20, 2010
TBs Neighbor wrote:
If you really lived here, you'd know the name of the dog. Not even a good guess. Here's a hint: it has TWO names, which you'd know.
We've lived within view of TB for quite some time, and we couldn't ask for a better neighbor.
Have fun with your life.
You're such a loser Tom.

If you're talking about the black lab at 26, his name IS Tucker.

PS - We appreciate that you fixed up your dumpy house, but most of us don't really care for you.

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