Larry Reasons

[Not for sure]

I think his stepdad is the ex-mayor of Munford

[Not for sure]

I think he is the ex-mayor's stepson.

[Single Man]

I heard he divorced 6 years ago.

[Southern Republican]

He is stupid

[not for sure]

why do you say he is stupid heard he was a gold digger he loves them and leaves them

[not for sure]

Southern Republican wrote:

He is stupid

heard he is a gold digger thinks he is a real ladies man do you know him

[Concerned friend]

How and what do you know of this guy? He is involved with a recent widow friend of mine who is getting a lot in life insurance.

[Concerned friend]

Southern Republican wrote:

He is stupid

May I ask why he is stupid? I am very concerned!

[not for sure]

to concerned friend.. i understand that they have gotten married!! i am looking for more info as well im very concerned about "the recent window" they are now living in Dyersburg.. he wont work.. support his family and is very unsupportave of her kids.. it's as though he has her right where he wants her. do you know anymore info on him?

[Concerned friend]

actually I know about as much as you do. Sadly, he has married my friend and is VERY VERY unsupportive of the children who are pretty close to me. If you get any information please send it my way. I want to help, but I cannot due to the circumstances of the widow.

[Cougar]

I know Larry. He is a fine man, and a hard worker. I am not sure where you got your information.

[Happy]

Let's set the record straight. I am his wife and we are happily married. He works hard every day. My two oldest girls have put tremendous stress on me and tried to ruin my life and new marriage.I am a grown woman, capable of running my life and affairs, me and Larry are very happy together and I trust him fully....so everybody mind your own business!!!!

[Concerned friend]

I would other than I know how your daughters feel! I was just curious because of the things I have heard about him. I could careless about how happy you think you are. I was more concerned about how your daughters feel. They have not tried to ruin your life. They really love you. They are just really lost without thier father and now without a real mother! I hope you realize that they love and need you! As for Larry, what ever, your children should come first..they are a part of you!! If this guy is the reason you have pushed your children away, you need to rethink your mothering. I like you, I care about you, I just wish you knew what you were really doing. I will be praying for you as I have since January 2005!

[Concerned friend]

**January 2006 not 05

[another concerned friend]

I know this family and I think it's awful how that mother has treated her children. How can a mother give birth to her kids then choose a man over them? Something is seriously wrong in this situation. I know all about everything that has gone on between the girls and their mother and I've stood back and watched it all. Those girls are just looking out for their mother's interest as their father wished them to do. Whether the mother chooses to accept that or not is up to her but if she doesnt she may regret it one day if she already doesnt. As for larry reasons i personally think nothing of him except that he's a bum who doesnt work and tries to cause problems while manipulating people to his side.

[been there]

another concerned friend wrote:

I know this family and I think it's awful how that mother has treated her children. How can a mother give birth to her kids then choose a man over them? Something is seriously wrong in this situation. I know all about everything that has gone on between the girls and their mother and I've stood back and watched it all. Those girls are just looking out for their mother's interest as their father wished them to do. Whether the mother chooses to accept that or not is up to her but if she doesnt she may regret it one day if she already doesnt. As for larry reasons i personally think nothing of him except that he's a bum who doesnt work and tries to cause problems while manipulating people to his side.

I can tell you from personal experience that your children should ALWAYS come FIRST over any man especially if it's not their real father. I know this first hand. I put my children through the same thing several years ago. I met & married someone I thought was the greatest thing there ever was. I moved my children away from their home and friends. They had no choice in the matter. I was very selfish and thought only of my happiness. Then one day the "greatest thing ever" looked to greenier pastures and left. There I was alone with a strained relationship between myself and my children. We are still very slowly mending our relationship to this very day and one is now almost grown. I lost so much time with them. Time I can NEVER get back. Your children are a part of you and look to you for guidance and support and most important love and respect. My oldest child was a young teenager at the time I married so all was blamed on that. The truth is my child could see a lot more clearly about the situation than I could. Too bad I couldn't. I would have saved myself and my children a lot of hurt feelings and pain. I put them through so much and I will spend the rest of my life regretting that, but most important making it up to them. NO man is ever worth losing the love and respect you get from your children. Children learn from watching their parents so when your children turn their backs on you for the "love" of a man then you too will know how it feels and let me tell you----it WILL feel pretty sh*tty!! There is NO man worth that---EVER!!!!!!

[SPIRIT]

If you are so happy, why do you blame the two oldest girls for ruining your life? Sounds to me like you runined your own life. You wantedt to take Brother Lynsol's money left for his kids and support your new husband, Larry. Where is he working now. Is he still telling everyone how he married someone that will do whatever he wants. There are two witnesses to this as I understand. Also, are you still living on the girls social security checks now? Well, I mean Grace's, you finished Sarah's for her in May and June, while she lived in another home. Do you know it is a Federal Offense to spend these girls checks and it not be on them? Wonder what social security would say to that? Think hard, Think long before you keep talking to the girls like you do. You are not disabled, you and Larry need a job. Brother Lynsol left you set and all you have started doing is talking about how he made you live Godly. If he was so bad, you do not need his money to make you happy. So let this new wonderful husband support you and quit using your kids and then treating them like you did your mother and family for years.

[Misunderstanding]

I have read all these comments, and I must say that I do not understand what is wrong with all of you. You know family is family, bottom line. It does not matter what your family does, you still love them and accept them just the way they are. I think that it is sad that what is mentioned above just comes back to money. Even you, spirit, are threatening because of money. I feel sorry for all you that you cannot even comprehend how lucky you are to still even have each other, even though you have lost someone. Maybe if you all tried speaking to each other in love instead of threats, you might get a little further in the conversation. Also, you might try praying together and for each other with open hearts.

[Concerned friend]

That is part of the issue. These girls have each other and that is all they have. It is like they have lost both thier father and now thier mother. The mother has pushed them from her life! I do pray for this family as do many others. I know the girls pray for each other. All the girls have is each other. As for the money, well, the point behind that is that the mother is using what is suppose to be used for the girls on her and her new husband since they do not work. Money has only become an issue because Larry has made it that way. He went around saying how he married someone who had money so he didnt have to work and when that is threatened he is ready to fight. Another things is the mother no longer attends church and if she still believes she is not showing it. I would just like to say that all we can do is pray because as bad as this has gotten and with the things said only God can heal these wounds!

[SPIRIT]

Misunderstanding wrote:

I have read all these comments, and I must say that I do not understand what is wrong with all of you. You know family is family, bottom line. It does not matter what your family does, you still love them and accept them just the way they are. I think that it is sad that what is mentioned above just comes back to money. Even you, spirit, are threatening because of money. I feel sorry for all you that you cannot even comprehend how lucky you are to still even have each other, even though you have lost someone. Maybe if you all tried speaking to each other in love instead of threats, you might get a little further in the conversation. Also, you might try praying together and for each other with open hearts.

You are correct, and I was wrong in saying the things above whether true or not. And yes, family is family. Pray for my anger in seeing this family ripped apart and how these young girls are hurting. Pray that the Lord gives me more understanding and kindness during such trying times to all involved. I will not make any more comments and please forgive me. I was wrong.