Since: Mar 12

Bronx, NY

#1 Mar 6, 2012
I've just recently started dating a very handsome 23 year old Albanian man. I like him a lot but I don't know anything about their culture. I've heard some pretty nasty things about them that scares me but I don't know what to think of it. Can I trust an Albanian man???

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Sabrina

Largo, FL

#2 Apr 18, 2012
I met an Albanian Man while back. Dated for awhile. It was my first experience. I traveled there to meet him last August. He was such a gentleman and his family were all so nice. I never for a second felt threatened by the country. I went back for new year 2012. Was there a month. we married end of January. He even accepts my two children who are girls and they love him so much. It has been a very different experience,and made many ppl angry with me but I am following my heart,and my heart trust him 100%. He takes good care of me. They were raised to take care of women. If something shall ever happen I wouldn't regret any of my decisions,Just a great chapter of my life. I am 31 and the happiest I have ever been.Humans are humans no matter where they are from.Good and bad everywhere. Americans are no better than anyone else. I am American. Hope this helps.
Whites on DA RUN

Wellsboro, PA

#3 Apr 24, 2012
This sounds like Hostel 4's script.
pshaa

New York, NY

#4 Apr 27, 2012
Whites on DA RUN wrote:
This sounds like Hostel 4's script.
hahaha
Tipi_

New York, NY

#5 Apr 27, 2012
Scorpio21 wrote:
I've just recently started dating a very handsome 23 year old Albanian man. I like him a lot but I don't know anything about their culture. I've heard some pretty nasty things about them that scares me but I don't know what to think of it. Can I trust an Albanian man???
First of all I would start by apologizing you because of my English. I'll try my best anyway.

Can you trust an Albanian man?! Or can you trust a man you know better than we (including all posters here) do?!!!
If you do not know him enough, so how can you expect from us to say or gossip anything about him and his nationality?
Are Albanians different species or just humans like every other nationality? I'm an Albanian born and I do not see any difference between me/us and the other humans on terms of human nature, neither did others.
When it comes to traditions, mentalities all I can say is that we live in a world of DIVERSITIES.
Leave these diversities on basis of traditions and mentalities aside.

Everyone, no matter what nationality s/he belongs to, s/he does live based on principles or no principles at all, based on moral codes or no moral codes at all, may or may not have good personality, character etc virtues.
You're going for what, in this relationship? You should know better what you're looking for. You know the person at least better than the virtual "friends" or real friends here, so personally I would ask you what specific concerns or anything else are you interested about your Albanian partner?
IMPORTANT: Anything we say it'll be can be a simple guess. Also, right conclusions on two parts ideas would be expected only when both parts stories were heard!
Linda

Saint Petersburg, FL

#6 Mar 22, 2013
I'm Albanian my self and Albaian men are the best! I will say that sometimes they can be a litte bit of jerks, but they do fight for what they have and what they want.
What's amazing about Albanian men is that, they will take care of you no matter what and be by ur side. Albanian men don't let there women go easly..lol
Just so you know> Albanian coulture is awesome. We do have a lot of respect for our familys and the people we care for. Make sure you respact his parents the most and everyone that's close to him. If you show him how much you love him be faithful, and respcet him, you will be fine. The key is to trust someone and it dosen't matter who you are or where you come from...
Albanian men are worth being married too..
also dating an albanian

Miami, FL

#7 Mar 30, 2013
Hi Sabrina

I wanted to know how long did it take for the immigation process to occur. I am also dating a great guy from albania. I am also from Florida.

Sincerely

Alexa
Sabrina wrote:
I met an Albanian Man while back. Dated for awhile. It was my first experience. I traveled there to meet him last August. He was such a gentleman and his family were all so nice. I never for a second felt threatened by the country. I went back for new year 2012. Was there a month. we married end of January. He even accepts my two children who are girls and they love him so much. It has been a very different experience,and made many ppl angry with me but I am following my heart,and my heart trust him 100%. He takes good care of me. They were raised to take care of women. If something shall ever happen I wouldn't regret any of my decisions,Just a great chapter of my life. I am 31 and the happiest I have ever been.Humans are humans no matter where they are from.Good and bad everywhere. Americans are no better than anyone else. I am American. Hope this helps.
Thr1201

Chicago, IL

#8 May 28, 2016
I have been with my Albanian guy for 12 yrs. His family knows about me but do not approve. He and I are both in our early 30's and love each other very much, or so I thought. I found out recently that I am pregnant and he freaked out. He begged me to get an abortion and when I refused he said I have ruined his life and his family. I'm so shocked by his anger and hatred towards me. I'm so hurt and feel so sad. I don't want to cause him to be disowned or cause his family pain but I can't kill our baby.
DIJI51

Dekalb, IL

#11 Aug 7, 2016
Lmao been married to an albanian for almost 3 years been together for 5 have 3 beautiful children and live with his family ♡ it wasn't great when we were just dating they hated me for being an American but after marrying and birthing their grand. Children they have welcomed me!!!
anonymous78

Lubbock, TX

#12 Nov 30, 2016
Linda wrote:
I'm Albanian my self and Albaian men are the best! I will say that sometimes they can be a litte bit of jerks, but they do fight for what they have and what they want.
What's amazing about Albanian men is that, they will take care of you no matter what and be by ur side. Albanian men don't let there women go easly..lol
Just so you know> Albanian coulture is awesome. We do have a lot of respect for our familys and the people we care for. Make sure you respact his parents the most and everyone that's close to him. If you show him how much you love him be faithful, and respcet him, you will be fine. The key is to trust someone and it dosen't matter who you are or where you come from...
Albanian men are worth being married too..
Would there be any reason why an Albanian man would finally give up on a woman he loves?
Anonymous 1786

Monmouth Junction, NJ

#14 Mar 6, 2017
Linda wrote:
I'm Albanian my self and Albaian men are the best! I will say that sometimes they can be a litte bit of jerks, but they do fight for what they have and what they want.
What's amazing about Albanian men is that, they will take care of you no matter what and be by ur side. Albanian men don't let there women go easly..lol
Just so you know> Albanian coulture is awesome. We do have a lot of respect for our familys and the people we care for. Make sure you respact his parents the most and everyone that's close to him. If you show him how much you love him be faithful, and respcet him, you will be fine. The key is to trust someone and it dosen't matter who you are or where you come from...
Albanian men are worth being married too..
You're biased based off your own experience. I personally can't date someone I am in love with due to the fact that she has to marry an Albanian man! And we are in love yet we're stuck having to deal with this shitty ass situation. Hell, she even hates your culture because of the way women are expected to be perfect, virgins etc... It is an impractical world you all live in. You and your insane traditions and customs. And Albanian men are the worst kind...
Anonymous 1786

Monmouth Junction, NJ

#15 Mar 6, 2017
also dating an albanian wrote:
Hi Sabrina

I wanted to know how long did it take for the immigation process to occur. I am also dating a great guy from albania. I am also from Florida.

Sincerely

Alexa

<quoted text>
You don't know that guy, and tbh it's probably a ploy to sell your daughters and use them as sex trafficking slaves!!! Heed everyone's warning of this being a hostel 4 plot!!!
5312abcd

United States

#16 Jun 23, 2017
...if someone says "I would never lie to you" ...on a consistent basis...voluntarily...
Then can you rest assured he's A liar.

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