Is there any good men out there?

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BrokenHearted

Tazewell, VA

#1 Sep 2, 2012
I have been married over 15 years and thought I had a good marriage...then he cheated!! Now my marriage is HELL!!!! Everytime I try to leave he beats me, rips my clothes off and threatens to kill me! I'm at the point I wish he would! I feel so trapped!! He has never let me work and now getting a job is like hitting the lottery! He constantly puts me down, I used to be the happiest most fun girl to be around, now I don't even smile or look at people! I want my life back, I want security! Can you ever get it back after such a betrail????? And before you suggest counseling, he won't go, he just want me to forget the affair!
hippie

United States

#2 Sep 3, 2012
Buy a gun.. or run away there called safe houses. But chances are ur not going to leave ur broken and bitter..
response

Bristol, TN

#3 Sep 3, 2012
No there are no good men out there. 12 years here, I cheated a lot. Never thought I would get caught. He knew for years. Then I caught him doing the same thing. Thought he was an angel. Makes for one hell of a life. Zero trust zero tolerance and zero love remain but in today's world who can afford to live separate!
Hawg Wild

Northfork, WV

#4 Sep 8, 2012
BrokenHearted wrote:
I have been married over 15 years and thought I had a good marriage...then he cheated!! Now my marriage is HELL!!!! Everytime I try to leave he beats me, rips my clothes off and threatens to kill me! I'm at the point I wish he would! I feel so trapped!! He has never let me work and now getting a job is like hitting the lottery! He constantly puts me down, I used to be the happiest most fun girl to be around, now I don't even smile or look at people! I want my life back, I want security! Can you ever get it back after such a betrail????? And before you suggest counseling, he won't go, he just want me to forget the affair!
Start looking around for a good man. Theres a few of us out here looking for a good woman.Dont let one selfish,no good B@$turd make you think that you cant find someone that would love you and take good care of you. Thats what he wants. He wants total control of you, But you can do better. Theres a good man out here looking for a good woman. remember that!
On The Prowl

Northfork, WV

#5 Sep 8, 2012
response wrote:
No there are no good men out there. 12 years here, I cheated a lot. Never thought I would get caught. He knew for years. Then I caught him doing the same thing. Thought he was an angel. Makes for one hell of a life. Zero trust zero tolerance and zero love remain but in today's world who can afford to live separate!
Yore wrong, You admitted to cheating on your husband for several years. He catches you and he does the same thing and you dont like it. You should have thought about what you were doing to him all these years.I am a good clean man looking for a good woman,and I know in time,I will find one.Theres a lot of good women out there that is in a bad relationship,that will someday get sick and tired of being abused abd leave the deadbeat. Who knows,I may run into a good one soon,Im on the prowl.
Aged

Johnson City, TN

#6 Sep 8, 2012
What age group are you? You can't allow yourself to be beaten after having your clothes ripped off of you. Gotta get away
BrokenHearted

New York, NY

#7 Sep 13, 2012
I found a job and I'm going to leave! I deserve better! In a year I will be single and looking for a GOOD man!! Aged, I am mid 30!
Sad 4 you both

Abingdon, VA

#8 Sep 14, 2012
response wrote:
No there are no good men out there. 12 years here, I cheated a lot. Never thought I would get caught. He knew for years. Then I caught him doing the same thing. Thought he was an angel. Makes for one hell of a life. Zero trust zero tolerance and zero love remain but in today's world who can afford to live separate!
You were being a ho so he did the same thing. He was probably an angel until he got with you. You can tae a person out of the ghetto but you can't take the ghetto out of a person!!

There are plenty of good men and women. A onestly good man is going to be able to spot a ho that why you think there aen't any they just won't get around you.

To the original poster:
There are plenty of good men out here. Can't say I know how to help your situatin but I truly wish you the best.
Hey

Abingdon, VA

#9 Sep 17, 2012
BrokenHearted wrote:
I have been married over 15 years and thought I had a good marriage...then he cheated!! Now my marriage is HELL!!!! Everytime I try to leave he beats me, rips my clothes off and threatens to kill me! I'm at the point I wish he would! I feel so trapped!! He has never let me work and now getting a job is like hitting the lottery! He constantly puts me down, I used to be the happiest most fun girl to be around, now I don't even smile or look at people! I want my life back, I want security! Can you ever get it back after such a betrail????? And before you suggest counseling, he won't go, he just want me to forget the affair!
Have you ever heard of a "Cast Iron Skillet"?
man lover

Kingsport, TN

#10 Sep 17, 2012
response wrote:
No there are no good men out there. 12 years here, I cheated a lot. Never thought I would get caught. He knew for years. Then I caught him doing the same thing. Thought he was an angel. Makes for one hell of a life. Zero trust zero tolerance and zero love remain but in today's world who can afford to live separate!
first of all if this aint throwing rocks at a glass house !!!!! I dont what is!!!!!! cause you cheated frist so whats the deal. Is it ok for you to cheat and not him I say whats fair for the goose is fair for the gander THATS LIFE and YOU WONT FIND A GOOD MAN DOING THIS S**T !!!!!
man lover

Kingsport, TN

#11 Sep 17, 2012
first you cheated on him if this aint throwing a rock at a glass house i dont know what is !!!!! maybe if you DIDNT cheat he WOULDNT !!!!! have you thought of that!!!! A ho is a ho in my book !!!! Im looking for a GOOD man but hos like you make GOOD women look bad !!!! Thats thanks to hos like you !!!!!
Guys eyes

Abingdon, VA

#12 Sep 18, 2012
man lover wrote:
first you cheated on him if this aint throwing a rock at a glass house i dont know what is !!!!! maybe if you DIDNT cheat he WOULDNT !!!!! have you thought of that!!!! A ho is a ho in my book !!!! Im looking for a GOOD man but hos like you make GOOD women look bad !!!! Thats thanks to hos like you !!!!!
Honey you don't need to worry about a tramp like that. Men that are serious and focused on finding a WOMAN will pass something like that and never give it a second thought. There are good men out there that will and do treat a woman the way they need and should be treated.

The best way to tell is how he treats and speaks about his Mother or Sisters. If he doesn't respect them he won't respect you in the long run. I didn't say agree with everything they do and kiss their butts and all that kind of stuff I said respect.

You ladies have a nice day. I don't really care what the rest of you wanna be women do.
man lover

Kingsport, TN

#13 Sep 19, 2012
Guys eyes wrote:
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Honey you don't need to worry about a tramp like that. Men that are serious and focused on finding a WOMAN will pass something like that and never give it a second thought. There are good men out there that will and do treat a woman the way they need and should be treated.
The best way to tell is how he treats and speaks about his Mother or Sisters. If he doesn't respect them he won't respect you in the long run. I didn't say agree with everything they do and kiss their butts and all that kind of stuff I said respect.
You ladies have a nice day. I don't really care what the rest of you wanna be women do.
thank you :) yes you are right about how a guy treats his mom and sister that will tell the truth i treat a person the way i want to be treated that was the way i was bring up :)
man lover

Kingsport, TN

#14 Sep 19, 2012
ok
BrokenHearted

New York, NY

#15 Sep 19, 2012
"Response" its trash like you that give women bad names!! Which makes me realize that I can't judge ALL men from my husband!
man lover

Kingsport, TN

#16 Sep 20, 2012
ive always heard that there is a good man for every woman and a good woman for ever man it takes time :) Im still waitting but its cool im having fun after being married at a young age now im living my life for me
very right says

Toms River, NJ

#17 Oct 11, 2012
if only us straight good men can connect with the right good straight woman. where i am, women are just more into other women. very sad.
say what

Lebanon, TN

#18 Oct 13, 2012
very right says wrote:
if only us straight good men can connect with the right good straight woman. where i am, women are just more into other women. very sad.
That is idk Im a all the way straight i like the pole not the hole lol !!!! But there is a lot of men out there that like men !!!:(

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