Teacher held in alleged kidnap of sis...

Teacher held in alleged kidnap of sister-in-law

There are 11 comments on the Lowell Sun story from Jan 31, 2010, titled Teacher held in alleged kidnap of sister-in-law. In it, Lowell Sun reports that:

A 40-year-old Bridgewater man is being held without bail because police say he continued to pursue his former sister-in-law -- allegedly kidnapping her in Ayer -- after she broke off their sporadic affair.

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Shirley Ujest

North Easton, MA

#1 Jan 31, 2010
They both should be ashamed of themselves. Neither one sounds normal. Oh, and there will be an opening soon in the Brockton Public Schools - anyone need a job?
grow up

Gardner, MA

#2 Jan 31, 2010
This guy sounds sick to me. He is working in the public school system. Chasing a 16 year old child which he should be tried for statutory rape. He sounds like a child predator. I hope she can move on with her life and leave the drama behind. She is only 21 years old. It sounds like she has some more growing up to do. He on the other hand should concentrate on making a better future for his kids.
emo011

Brockton, MA

#3 Jan 31, 2010
thats cool a opening in brockton for a job that seems like theres alot of those seeing how theres no other jobs in brockton...and shes lieing about everything.And hes a predator, wow? you cant say anything becuz you only no HER side of the story...not really since she saying that he was following her and everything but yet she willingly got into his car?? thats not kid napping!!!
emo011

Brockton, MA

#4 Jan 31, 2010
To anyone who has any sense at all. Could you imagine yourself getting into a vehicle with someone you thought was going to hurt or harm you? Let alone the fact that her friend allowed her to do so! I wouldn't let my friend put herself in a dangerous situation like that to begin with. And neither would hers! And what happened to her friends cell phone? Are they trying to say that neither one of these girls had a cell phone? Please give me a Break! Common sense should tell everyone that when a person is lying, there lying! I know that if someone I was afraid of was 'hunting me down' like she claims, the last thing in the world I would do is voluntarily get into a vehicle with him. And If he was trying to kidnap anyone, do you think he would be stupid enough to do it in front of her friend? And stop for a stop sign. If any of this is real, her friend is an idiot!!! And if you really believe that it happened like this..... Please use your head people! The man is obviously an educated man who has strong ties to the community. Why on earth would anyone believe the story told? If it did happen like this, I can fly!!!!!
LTh

Walpole, MA

#5 Jan 31, 2010
Are you kidding me?! Are we still in that much denial about domestic violence????
Huh

United States

#6 Feb 1, 2010
SO much wrong with this story.

But, a good reminder that there ARE stupid women out there.
Doreen

AOL

#7 Feb 1, 2010
He is not a teacher. He is a teaching assistant. Big difference.
hope

Marlborough, MA

#9 Feb 1, 2010
All of these comments could make someone sick to their stomach about the stupidity in the world! Maybe someday when you know someone personally who is affected by domestic violence you will begin to understand just a glimpse of the truth. A comment for emo011..please open your eyes to the world and realize that people are put into very difficult and life-threatening situations when you are dealing with such a psycho as this man. He clearly needs a great deal of help. It amazes me that this man is not already in jail...which is where he deserves to stay. And just to clarify....yes she got into his truck but it automatically becomes kidnapping when you ask to get out and are not allowed... just like rape....its not rape when you are on the date its when you say "no" and they proceed. Let's not sit and waste time writing comments about a man who is truly a bad person and who needs help..instead we should see this as a discussion for people that have been affected by domestic violence and the people that need to live these nightmares everyday.
sick of it

Brockton, MA

#10 Feb 2, 2010
dont they do back ground checks....two drunken-driving convictions and a disorderly conduct charge from the early 1990s.
and he's working with children?????
who is doing the job they get hired to do?? cops with dui's getting hired too??
these bosses should be fired for hiring them
Mamerica

Norwood, MA

#11 Feb 3, 2010
emo011 wrote:
To anyone who has any sense at all. Could you imagine yourself getting into a vehicle with someone you thought was going to hurt or harm you? Let alone the fact that her friend allowed her to do so! I wouldn't let my friend put herself in a dangerous situation like that to begin with. And neither would hers! And what happened to her friends cell phone? Are they trying to say that neither one of these girls had a cell phone? Please give me a Break! Common sense should tell everyone that when a person is lying, there lying! I know that if someone I was afraid of was 'hunting me down' like she claims, the last thing in the world I would do is voluntarily get into a vehicle with him. And If he was trying to kidnap anyone, do you think he would be stupid enough to do it in front of her friend? And stop for a stop sign. If any of this is real, her friend is an idiot!!! And if you really believe that it happened like this..... Please use your head people! The man is obviously an educated man who has strong ties to the community. Why on earth would anyone believe the story told? If it did happen like this, I can fly!!!!!
Let say he didn't kidnap her. The most disgusting he did was pursue his sister-in-law. If he want to fxxxx a woman, he should go for someone outside of the family. I couldn't tolerate his behavior. I hope he go to hell.
gale

Billerica, MA

#12 Mar 8, 2010
emo11, or whoever wrote that nieve post...realize that the real idiot in this situation is the 40 year old who took advantage of a young girl. "Educated man" you have got to be kidding me. I never ever write on these things but I just read what you wrote and got extremely disgusted by what was written. Get a life.

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