Mother of 5

United States

#50 Apr 8, 2013
Your story is very sad and should not happen to anyone. However, at the same time, in this day and age would you teach your kids that it is safe to leave 400$ cash in their shoe under a table and walk away? How is an iPhone any different? My teens and 5 & 6 year olds know enough to secure their valuables... There are dozens of lockers everywhere inside the building that only cost two quarters. Hello!!! Have you ever heard of crimes of opportunity-- your kids gave someone the easiest opportunity to nab a new phone. We should be preparing our children to navigate through life successfully without us. I'm sure the women who attacked you were heavily insulted when an angry,(obviously racist based on your post) raging white women, who thinks they don't belong there, started accusing them of stealing-- they probably all had their own iPhones. If your story is accurate the police would probably act accordingly.
Mother of three

San Francisco, CA

#51 May 28, 2013
First off my earnest apologies for your pain and suffering as well as your children. No one should be treated this way especially not children. This is why you should have waited for the police instead of taking matters into your own hands. Learn how to assess cituations and know what's approachable. There's no way I'm going to approach a group of people asking anything, and when you saw their body language change then you had the CHOICE to stay or leave. YOU put your children in danger. So you can't be mad at the staff for not intervening in something you instigated. Second your husband stayed back why didn't you?

Since: Oct 10

Location hidden

#52 Jun 2, 2013
If you're white, and a large group of black people suddenly shows up at your location, leave immediately.

That's just common sense. You don't even have to do ten minutes of research to understand the reality that blacks are super-violent - the criminality index for blacks is off the charts. Part of it is thug culture, part of it is family-of-origin effects (poverty, abuse, low IQ, drugs, what have you) and part is racism.

Since: Mar 11

Livermore 94551

#53 Jun 2, 2013
The Real Anon wrote:
If you're white, and a large group of black people suddenly shows up at your location, leave immediately.

That's just common sense. You don't even have to do ten minutes of research to understand the reality that blacks are super-violent - the criminality index for blacks is off the charts. Part of it is thug culture, part of it is family-of-origin effects (poverty, abuse, low IQ, drugs, what have you) and part is racism.
I can tell you, as a white, 24-year-old woman, I have been around groups of black people plenty of times and have never experienced a problem. One of my best friends in high school was black. I went to her grandma's house for Christmas Eve Dinner two years in a row, where probably 20 of her, black, extended family members were gathered. They weren't violent, criminals, stupid, drug users, or thugs. Even outside of my friend's family, I've encountered groups of black people. And I have to say I've experienced the opposite of what your statistics say.

Since: Oct 10

Location hidden

#54 Jun 2, 2013
Ssophiiee wrote:
<quoted text>
I can tell you, as a white, 24-year-old woman, I have been around groups of black people plenty of times and have never experienced a problem. One of my best friends in high school was black. I went to her grandma's house for Christmas Eve Dinner two years in a row, where probably 20 of her, black, extended family members were gathered. They weren't violent, criminals, stupid, drug users, or thugs. Even outside of my friend's family, I've encountered groups of black people. And I have to say I've experienced the opposite of what your statistics say.
That's because it was a social gathering of people in the same associated group (her family, plus guests). I'm just talking about random public places.

Since: Mar 11

Livermore 94551

#55 Jun 4, 2013
The Real Anon wrote:
<quoted text>That's because it was a social gathering of people in the same associated group (her family, plus guests). I'm just talking about random public places.
After I brought up the gathering of her family, I said how I've been in public places where a group of black people have showed up and never experienced anything negative. Whether it be me on a bart train and a group of 5-10 black teenagers get on or when I worked at the mall and a group of black people would come in. I'm not saying it doesn't happen. But people do bad stuff all the time, not just black people all the time.

Since: Oct 10

Location hidden

#56 Jun 27, 2013
Ssophiiee wrote:
<quoted text>
After I brought up the gathering of her family, I said how I've been in public places where a group of black people have showed up and never experienced anything negative. Whether it be me on a bart train and a group of 5-10 black teenagers get on or when I worked at the mall and a group of black people would come in. I'm not saying it doesn't happen. But people do bad stuff all the time, not just black people all the time.
Don't be naive. Nobody said its black people all the time. Just pointing out there is far more likely to be an issue when there are blacks around. Why do you think nobody wants to live around them? They're trouble.

If you're smart, you will understand and deploy the information about the criminality of blacks in order to enhance your personal safety.
Young Black Girl

Hayward, CA

#58 Aug 15, 2013
It's really sad to read all this.. sorry anout what happen to those young girls, what ever color you are I'm sorry yo u had to experience that. I guess I'm one of those few lucky people who have experienced the world and the people in it based on character not skin color.

Since: Mar 11

Livermore 94551

#59 Aug 15, 2013
Young Black Girl wrote:
It's really sad to read all this.. sorry anout what happen to those young girls, what ever color you are I'm sorry yo u had to experience that. I guess I'm one of those few lucky people who have experienced the world and the people in it based on character not skin color.
You shouldn't apologize. You weren't there. You may be black, but you aren't responsible for their actions. I'm white, but I'm not going to apologize for other's actions. You shouldn't either.
Oakland black girl

Los Angeles, CA

#60 Aug 28, 2013
I hate Racist white people all blacks are Not the same and everybody in Oakland Aren't Either see take the racist s%%% somewhere else sorry what happen but thats why they have lockers at the rink

Since: Sep 12

Dublin, CA

#61 Sep 18, 2013
Oakland black girl wrote:
I hate Racist white people all blacks are Not the same and everybody in Oakland Aren't Either see take the racist s%%% somewhere else sorry what happen but thats why they have lockers at the rink
Honestly, white people aren't the only racists, so that comment was a little biased. Pay no attention to the small minded unless you want to help them.
Hu Man

Oakland, CA

#62 Oct 26, 2013
BigBlackBitch wrote:
i was there at the golden skate that night and saw everything even got my hands on the white bitch. fuck all the whiteys in the san ramon valley were coming to use your shit and the cops won't bother us because there scared of a riot! we frequent the golden skate and we will be coming back with more and more friends until whiteys move away! OBAMAS LIBERALS WILL PAVE THE WAY FOR US BLACK PEOPLE. we are not animals you white people are.
you are such an actor!
Hu Man

Oakland, CA

#63 Oct 26, 2013
well aren't you something of a ghost writer. and anyone who cant see through your smug sarcasm is an uneducated idiot
Miraza

San Ramon, CA

#64 Dec 30, 2013
Why does the race of the assailants even matter. Why does the race of the robber in the office matter? Why a reference to how "ghetto" the place is after 9pm - Id honestly take this post more seriously but it's hard to when you just sound just whiny and racist. If there is a incident of safety, then just say so. Calling out race the manner you do removed credibility from your post.
A black skater

United States

#65 Mar 5, 2014
I'm a 45yr old black man that has been skating for yrs.its really ashame that this negative element is present in san ramon.that's the reason oakland doesn't have anymore skating rinks and we had 3 but do to violence we can't have 1 there anymore.
I used to leave my stuff out instead of getting a locker back in the 80s, times changed for the worst.its a shame you can't send your children to a childen place that now has become tarnished.sorry to say but I'm so tired of my black ppl being savages.unfortunately its us that's bringing negativity to a skating rink.we will fight this element.
Sorry you and your family had to go thru that senseless act of violence, sounds like a lawsuit.I feel your pain and you and your girls did nothing wrong at all, absolutely nothin.it is a black plague that is destroying what's good.let's fight this together and tonite,3/5/14,I will be adressing management about the violence
A black skater

United States

#67 Mar 5, 2014
Riverbank resident wrote:
Can't those animals just stay on their turf in filthy Oakland and not pollute the good ppl of SR. Wtf? Just keep out of SR. Do us all a favor, go to international blvd and get shot. That's all you animals are good for, bullets. All u do is cause trouble as u can see
.
Wow! I'm a non violent blackman from oakland, I have no felonies on my record.I was raised with morals and values but when u are systematically attacked for us to be this way, its hard to rise above.the white corporation promotes gangster rap, instead of many positive black rappers that have good messages, then the black exploitation movies in the 70s,along with liquor stores on every corner, taking away from public education, and all these movies depicting black violence as the norm.in the 60s,70s & early 80s, we were rising to the top quickly untill "THEY" put scarface on the movie screen then flooded black america with cocaine.and made all the pimp and gangster movies. We are systematically being attacked and its time to be conscience of it.
A black skater

United States

#68 Mar 5, 2014
The Real Anon wrote:
If you're white, and a large group of black people suddenly shows up at your location, leave immediately.
That's just common sense. You don't even have to do ten minutes of research to understand the reality that blacks are super-violent - the criminality index for blacks is off the charts. Part of it is thug culture, part of it is family-of-origin effects (poverty, abuse, low IQ, drugs, what have you) and part is racism.
. Where do you think that stems from? White america set up black eploitation movies such as superfly, willie dynamite, to name a couple, along with scarface and puting cocaine and liqour stores on every corner and nancy reagan sayin guns go with drugs, and the record label promotes negative and gangster rap instead of positive rap.we our study victims to keep us from taking over righteously as a whole.its time to be conscience of the governments devises to keep us down.now we have senseless crackhead babies that is ran not by morales but by this delusion the WHITE man set up.we've been hoodwinked and bamboozled, time to wake up black ppl

Since: Mar 11

Livermore 94551

#69 Mar 5, 2014
A black skater wrote:
<quoted text>.
Wow! I'm a non violent blackman from oakland, I have no felonies on my record.I was raised with morals and values but when u are systematically attacked for us to be this way, its hard to rise above.the white corporation promotes gangster rap, instead of many positive black rappers that have good messages, then the black exploitation movies in the 70s,along with liquor stores on every corner, taking away from public education, and all these movies depicting black violence as the norm.in the 60s,70s & early 80s, we were rising to the top quickly untill "THEY" put scarface on the movie screen then flooded black america with cocaine.and made all the pimp and gangster movies. We are systematically being attacked and its time to be conscience of it.
I hope you know not all white people are as judgmental and bigoted as some of the people on here. I'm a white woman and don't have an innate fear of black people. My best friend in HS was black, and she was truly one of the kindest people I've ever known.

Since: Oct 10

Location hidden

#70 Apr 7, 2014
Ssophiiee wrote:
<quoted text>
I hope you know not all white people are as judgmental and bigoted as some of the people on here. I'm a white woman and don't have an innate fear of black people. My best friend in HS was black, and she was truly one of the kindest people I've ever known.
While some people may actually be bigoted...I think it is more a case of imply observing and acknowledging reality and the behaviors we're discussing. Has nothing to do with bigotry unless the person is motivated only by irrational hatred or intolerance.

Constructing a world view on the basis of a single or a few interactions with a few individuals , as you have indicated you do, is going to lead you to make a lot of errors, and some of them could have extremely negative consequences for you. The proper way to establish a realistic outlook is to expand beyond your own experience and have the ability and mental flexibility to make a generalization that can be effectively deployed and have predictive value. The stereotype might not always be accurate, but when it is often accurate and the results are extremely significant, then its a very useful stereotype.

Since: Oct 10

Location hidden

#71 Apr 7, 2014
A black skater wrote:
<quoted text>.
Wow! I'm a non violent blackman from oakland, I have no felonies on my record.I was raised with morals and values but when u are systematically attacked for us to be this way, its hard to rise above.the white corporation promotes gangster rap, instead of many positive black rappers that have good messages, then the black exploitation movies in the 70s,along with liquor stores on every corner, taking away from public education, and all these movies depicting black violence as the norm.in the 60s,70s & early 80s, we were rising to the top quickly untill "THEY" put scarface on the movie screen then flooded black america with cocaine.and made all the pimp and gangster movies. We are systematically being attacked and its time to be conscience of it.
Aren't most of the hip hop/rap labels owned by blacks themselves? I disagree that there is any kind of "white conspiracy" in the corporate manifestations of "thug life". Go talk to Russell Simmons.

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