I have a girlfriend but I think I'm g...

I have a girlfriend but I think I'm gay? please help!'

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Since: Jun 13

Lafayette, LA

#1 Jun 17, 2013
I'm 17 years old.. I have been knowing my girlfriend for 4 years (she's 16) and we've been dating for 6 months.. I know I really love her and she does turn me on. I am very attracted to her.

But since we met 4 years ago I started watching gay and transexual porn and I have developed feelings for a two guys before and I still watch gay porn while I'm at home every other day almost.. I was very convinced that I was gay before. And I still feel gay now, but I do love her, and she still turns me on. It's a little confusing, I don't know what to think about all of this and is rather not let her know about all of this right now.

She even says I'm a bit feminine. Which kind of bugs me. I am still in the closet by the way. I think I told her once I was bi in middle school years ago but I doubt she remembers that.

So yeah, please help!!
true

Lafayette, LA

#2 Jun 19, 2013
Be true to yourself but don't hurt someone else in the process. Don't don't cheat on her with a guy or a girl.
Terry

Lafayette, LA

#3 Jun 20, 2013
true wrote:
Be true to yourself but don't hurt someone else in the process. Don't don't cheat on her with a guy or a girl.
Is the girlfriend starting to get big? That's what happened to a friend of mine. His girlfriend starting plumping up and getting the round face and he lost interest in her. Hoped the fence and now he hangs out at Bolt.
Jkwon

Ville Platte, LA

#4 Jul 6, 2013
Shid homie ain't no doubt. If you questioning it you gay!
Paul Muffoletto

Oklahoma City, OK

#5 Jul 8, 2013
I've been married years and am very Christian but I've often found my eyes wondering over to a rear end or a well hung package in the shower or dressing room at Reds. The other day in the sauna there was a young guy with a really thick piece just hanging on his thigh and I couldn't help but admire it. Doesn't make me gay though.
True Reping Donald T

Lafayette, LA

#6 Jul 8, 2013
Paul do not lie. We have played together several times. It is time for you to come out of the closet.......
Jkwon

United States

#7 Jul 8, 2013
Yea son I mean I almost feel gay after reading that. You need help!
heyhey

Crowley, LA

#8 Jul 21, 2013
READ TEH BIBLE
Gmcman36

Saint Martinville, LA

#9 Oct 5, 2013
towhoeverexists wrote:
I'm 17 years old.. I have been knowing my girlfriend for 4 years (she's 16) and we've been dating for 6 months.. I know I really love her and she does turn me on. I am very attracted to her.
But since we met 4 years ago I started watching gay and transexual porn and I have developed feelings for a two guys before and I still watch gay porn while I'm at home every other day almost.. I was very convinced that I was gay before. And I still feel gay now, but I do love her, and she still turns me on. It's a little confusing, I don't know what to think about all of this and is rather not let her know about all of this right now.
She even says I'm a bit feminine. Which kind of bugs me. I am still in the closet by the way. I think I told her once I was bi in middle school years ago but I doubt she remembers that.
So yeah, please help!!
text me we in same boat
Jimmy

UK

#11 Oct 24, 2013
I am the same, I have a girlfriend and love her very much, but she doesn't turn me on, Men do just like u. You are gay and you have to face that
nobody

Mount Kisco, NY

#12 Dec 30, 2013
I'm just like you... ive been dating my girlfriend for a year now and i truly love her but as soon as im not with her im thinking about guys and i fucking hate the fact that i can't help my feelings. i've been depressed for months now because i find no happiness in coming to terms with my feelings... I've always pictured myself living a normal life with a wife and kids and it really upsets me knowing that it's an impossibility with the things that I think about men
Haha

Opelousas, LA

#13 Jan 3, 2014
Both of you questioning yourselves I can help. It's simple. See if you can convince your girls for a threesome and if you enjoy being with me more than with them, then you are gay. Myself I am bi because I can't stop messing with girls
Paul

Ireland

#14 Jan 10, 2014
I'm exactly the same as you! I have a girlfriend that I love to bits but gay porn just gets me hornier and I wank to it alot but still feel like I'm straight. Don't worry,
Your not alone :)
Josh

London, UK

#15 Jan 22, 2014
Ive been with my girlfriend for two years and ive messed about with boys but now i have feelings for a boy and im a little stuck for what to do. I really love her, she makes me feel happy, but so does this guy...
Big brother

Southington, CT

#18 Feb 8, 2014
If you told her your bi then trust me she remembers that. It sounds like your bi if both sexes turns you on as long as your honest with her. Live your life but if you want to be with guys and her at the same time you have to have safe sex you don't want to catch anything or pass it to another person. Personally I feel everyone is bi and sex is just sex but love makes it even better. Fallow your heart. Do what feels best for you just be honest. Good luck.
Bigal

United States

#19 Feb 17, 2014
towhoeverexists wrote:
I'm 17 years old.. I have been knowing my girlfriend for 4 years (she's 16) and we've been dating for 6 months.. I know I really love her and she does turn me on. I am very attracted to her.
But since we met 4 years ago I started watching gay and transexual porn and I have developed feelings for a two guys before and I still watch gay porn while I'm at home every other day almost.. I was very convinced that I was gay before. And I still feel gay now, but I do love her, and she still turns me on. It's a little confusing, I don't know what to think about all of this and is rather not let her know about all of this right now.
She even says I'm a bit feminine. Which kind of bugs me. I am still in the closet by the way. I think I told her once I was bi in middle school years ago but I doubt she remembers that.
So yeah, please help!!
It is very possible that you are bisexual like so many others in the American population. It seems that many people want to catagorize others as either gay or straight but the truth is that most people are not completely one or the other but rather somewhat of a mix between the two. I think the question for you is what percentage of gay/straight are you? Are you more gay than straight? Or are you more straight than gay? Either way it probably doesn't matter. Your girlfriend is obviously so compatible with you that you should just enjoy her. You're young. Enjoy life. However, you might be happiest with a female who wouldnt mind you having sex with men too. My boyfriend and I enjoy sex with other people, female and male for the both of us. Makes us the happiest. Don't sweat it. Enjoy what you are.
Callum

Woking, UK

#21 Apr 30, 2014
Okay, so I'm a 16 yo guy and there's this guy I really like at school, we sometimes hang out at each others houses, basically I really wanna get him naked and experiment ;) what's the best way to do it cos I'm pretty sure he's not gay, please help me cos I wanna try things ;)
dicker

Roanoke, VA

#22 May 23, 2014
U gay
Msmith

Deerfield Beach, FL

#25 Jun 20, 2014
Nah, but you're probably just got bored with "vanilla" porn. That shit's bound to happen. Porn and sex become very ingrained into the brain and your mind needs different things to get turned on if you keep going down the same "receptor" paths in your brain, so you start to look for something different. If it really worries you that much, stop watching porn/having sex for a while so that the receptors have time to rebuild and you'll get turned on by girls again real quick. You won't die of blue balls kid. If you want to be straight or gay, pick a side and stick with it, however if your aim is to be straight, stop the porn/self gratification, try a hobby and give yourself about a month to recover, meditate and reflect... We are who we choose to be, and it's all in your mind! Hope this helps dude.
Msmith

Deerfield Beach, FL

#26 Jun 20, 2014
Callum wrote:
Okay, so I'm a 16 yo guy and there's this guy I really like at school, we sometimes hang out at each others houses, basically I really wanna get him naked and experiment ;) what's the best way to do it cos I'm pretty sure he's not gay, please help me cos I wanna try things ;)
If you're pretty sure he's not gay, then it's wrong to try to put moves on somebody who isn't receptive, and I guaren-damn-tee you that not only will it back fire in your face, but probably cause him to have a severe hatred of the gay community. If they aren't openly gay, there's a reason for it, how would you like it if a girl did this to you bro?

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