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helporhurt

Somerset, KY

#1 Oct 24, 2011
if you have proof that a married man is cheating do you tell his wife? she seems real nice and sweet. he does not want her to work so she stays home with four little kids. he will do any body any where and brags about it. he has two so called girlfriends and still cheats on them. does she need to know?
WOuld

Bowling Green, KY

#2 Oct 24, 2011
Wouldnt you wanna know? Tell her! Thats pathetic! What a scum bag!
Diva delight

Chesterfield, MO

#3 Oct 24, 2011
Well it's not right for him to cheat but she has the kids to think about.wouldn't it be better for them to have 2 parents. besides she may know and not care.
Diva delight

Chesterfield, MO

#4 Oct 24, 2011
Maybe he's so bad in bed she's glad he cheats:)
lonewolf

Auburn, KY

#5 Oct 24, 2011
That's so funny Diva, but regretfully it could be true. nothing about him, it could happen from either side. But if she's not aware i think she should know. But it is difficult. take it slow because you could just as easily become the bad person as easily as you could the friend for telling. ME? I'd want my friend to tell me, and even if the one i was with convinced me to stay, I wouldn't hold it against the friend. cause I figure something was going on to get this started. Jus my input. Check me l8r Diva, left yall a message b4 I leave. u kn whr.
yeah right

Somerset, KY

#6 Oct 24, 2011
helporhurt wrote:
if you have proof that a married man is cheating do you tell his wife? she seems real nice and sweet. he does not want her to work so she stays home with four little kids. he will do any body any where and brags about it. he has two so called girlfriends and still cheats on them. does she need to know?
R u referring to josh and natasha cantrell?
lsr

United States

#7 Oct 24, 2011
helporhurt wrote:
if you have proof that a married man is cheating do you tell his wife? she seems real nice and sweet. he does not want her to work so she stays home with four little kids. he will do any body any where and brags about it. he has two so called girlfriends and still cheats on them. does she need to know?
Just send an anonymous letter or something
justsaying

Adairville, KY

#8 Oct 24, 2011
helporhurt wrote:
if you have proof that a married man is cheating do you tell his wife? she seems real nice and sweet. he does not want her to work so she stays home with four little kids. he will do any body any where and brags about it. he has two so called girlfriends and still cheats on them. does she need to know?
Would you want to know? Would you want to risk your friend's (I'm guessing she is) health? What if he packed home an STD during his cheating and gave it to her? Cause she is probably not worried about protection because hell they're married ya know? Just put yourself in her shoes. You've got to be willing to be called everything under the sun though... Liar, jealous bitch, but then after she realizes it she will call you a true friend. Its really one of those situations where you are damned if you do damned if you don't... Just gotta make a choice. best of luck!!!
Been there

Clarkson, KY

#9 Oct 25, 2011
First of all..I have been there..tell her somehow..if you are her friend and she finds out you knew..you will no longer be her friend. I also find it irritating when I see the comment "he doesn't want her to work". What does she want to do? A sign of what the marriage is like right there.
Done that

Bowling Green, KY

#10 Oct 25, 2011
As someone who was involved with a married person, I'm telling you. Don't tell her. Her husband will eventually slip up. Plus she may already know and would not want to embarrassed that everyone knew. Maybe he is lousy in bed. That he keeps having to get new girl friends suggests that.
oOo

Frankfort, KY

#11 Oct 25, 2011
I would want to know but many women do not! But if & when you decide to tell be prepared b/c very good chance YOU will end up looking like the bad person.
KuntrySweety

United States

#12 Oct 25, 2011
Touchy ground... Yes she needs to know, but be careful of how you do it. Let here know that if she decides to stay and work thru it, you will be there for her. Don't trash her hubby, and when she does just listen. They have kids so if they can work it out that would be great. But if she can forgive him, so should you!
anonymous

Elizabethtown, KY

#13 Oct 25, 2011
Done that wrote:
As someone who was involved with a married person, I'm telling you. Don't tell her. Her husband will eventually slip up. Plus she may already know and would not want to embarrassed that everyone knew. Maybe he is lousy in bed. That he keeps having to get new girl friends suggests that.
He has lots of girlfriends because he's lousy in bed?? Wtf kind of logic is that?? You've concocted some kind of BS in your mind to make yourself feel better about being a home wrecker. Let me drop some 411 on ya.. He's married & he's a piece of shit. He's trying to hit & quit every gash he gets a whiff of.(just like you got it) This wife needs to know. Why sugar coat it? It's not gonna be pretty anyways & I doubt she'll care "how" the message is delivered. She will thank you later.
Done that

Bowling Green, KY

#14 Oct 25, 2011
You speaking from experience? Your wife running around so now you want to wreck some one else's home.
anonymous

Elizabethtown, KY

#15 Oct 25, 2011
B!tch, you're the self admitted home wrecker.. I don't mess around with cheaters like you. Must have hit a nerve on this one!
frriieeennnddd

Herndon, VA

#17 Oct 25, 2011
helporhurt wrote:
if you have proof that a married man is cheating do you tell his wife? she seems real nice and sweet. he does not want her to work so she stays home with four little kids. he will do any body any where and brags about it. he has two so called girlfriends and still cheats on them. does she need to know?


I would definitely tell her. But be careful how you go about. Let her know you support her decision to stay or leave. Even if she doesn't want to know she needs to. She needs to know he could be exposing her to diseases.
Been there as well

Somerset, KY

#18 Oct 25, 2011
Everybody knew....except me. It really hurts when your friends won't even let you know. But I think I would talk to the husband first and give him a chance to come clean with his wife. If he still won't do it I will let her know myself.
Done that

Bowling Green, KY

#19 Oct 26, 2011
anonymous wrote:
B!tch, you're the self admitted home wrecker.. I don't mess around with cheaters like you. Must have hit a nerve on this one!
What do you mess around with? Farm animals?
anonymous

Elizabethtown, KY

#20 Oct 26, 2011
Oh yeah, farm animals.. Good one, you got me there... I'm sure that would be better than messing around with your nasty ass. Just go away homewrecker, you annoy everyone.
Done That

Bowling Green, KY

#21 Oct 26, 2011
Gee, you hurt my feelings. I guess I'll just take it out on your boyfriend.

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