How far behind on child support can s...
need help

Elizabethtown, KY

#63 May 13, 2011
My ex is a dead beat mom who hasn't paid child support on any of her five children. have had court ordered child support for our two from over a year now since she doesn't bother to even call the kids, see them or help support them in any way. she now owes well over a grand in support and all the child support office has done is send her letters. she doesn't have any minor children in the house or any reason that would prevent her from paying. she is simply not interested in her children and has no desire to help support them.
how can I get the child support office to bring her to court? I would like to see a judge order her to get a job and begin paying. advice and info is appreciated!
GapingHatchetWou nd

Floyds Knobs, IN

#64 May 13, 2011
BS BS BS BS BS BS.
I only read page one and don't need anymore. I know a guy who got cancer and had treatments lost his business and while he was in the chemo program his wife left him for another guy. He gets out and has no job he almost died went from 210 to 119 lbs. He tries to find a job and while he is trying to recover the bwitch has him arrested and yes they arrest people depending on what freaking policy they are trying to enforce to get thier raises.
Guy goes to jail looses all his teeth and cant even talk but he dies during this period. This was at 40 years old.
Point being this country puts men in jail for any reason esp if its a woman judge who has DUI's.
dang

Floyds Knobs, IN

#65 May 14, 2011
I feel your pain. My ex wife got away with for over a year. Amy M finely nailed her when she got over 4 k behind. Little jail time woke her up. Hang in there time will catch her.
need help wrote:
My ex is a dead beat mom who hasn't paid child support on any of her five children. have had court ordered child support for our two from over a year now since she doesn't bother to even call the kids, see them or help support them in any way. she now owes well over a grand in support and all the child support office has done is send her letters. she doesn't have any minor children in the house or any reason that would prevent her from paying. she is simply not interested in her children and has no desire to help support them.
how can I get the child support office to bring her to court? I would like to see a judge order her to get a job and begin paying. advice and info is appreciated!
xyz

United States

#66 May 14, 2011
need help wrote:
My ex is a dead beat mom who hasn't paid child support on any of her five children. have had court ordered child support for our two from over a year now since she doesn't bother to even call the kids, see them or help support them in any way. she now owes well over a grand in support and all the child support office has done is send her letters. she doesn't have any minor children in the house or any reason that would prevent her from paying. she is simply not interested in her children and has no desire to help support them.
how can I get the child support office to bring her to court? I would like to see a judge order her to get a job and begin paying. advice and info is appreciated!
If shes court ordered to pay then she should already be going to court if shes not payin. If not I would suggest to get a lawyer and take her to court. I recommend using Casey Hixson if you do decide to use a lawyer.
Juan

Pearland, TX

#67 May 14, 2011
Hey guys !

If you can't pay child support keep it in your pants.
your a retard

United States

#68 May 14, 2011
Juan wrote:
Hey guys !
If you can't pay child support keep it in your pants.
Go back to where you came from amigo. You dont know what your talking about. We are talking about people paying us child support, kind of like people like you
Juan

Pearland, TX

#69 May 15, 2011
My girlfriend has two kids and doesn't receive child support.......you've just to to "man up".

They are citizens and she gets help with food stamps, WIC, section 8 housing, and sometimes help with utilites......ain't america great !

I try to help her when I can find work.
suggestion

Elizabethtown, KY

#70 May 16, 2011
Email the county attorney. they typically oversee child support and could certainly influence the situation.
TiredOfIt

Canton, GA

#71 May 21, 2011
GreenMan39 wrote:
<quoted text>Still you don,t see a little equality being stomped on in the law? I stated the point in fact because several years ago my girlfriend at the time got pregnant by me. She wanted a abortion and I didn,t. She was 27 at the time with no kids and her reason for not wanting a kid was stretch marks of all things. I offered to raise the kid on my own but no she wasn,t having it. Now against my moral beliefs she goes and has this abortion. Im told there was nothing I could do to stop it because it was her right. Now if she had the kid and I didn,t want it I,m going to pay child support for 18 years. All I,m saying is the parents should have been allowed to help raise their kids on their own without the goverment having to tell them they have too. Their moral responsability should be enough without a law. Sometimes being told you,ve got to do something will keep you from doing something. The whole child support system is a serious mess.
But the problem is that if the goverment didn't tell people that they have to pay their child support then the custodial parent would never get a dime from the other parent. I know this from first hand. My fiance was fighting for custody of his children because their mother had gone to jail, she only stayed in jail a short time. The process took over three years and just recently got finalized. Do you think their mother payed any kind of support or offered to help during that time? NO! She didn't start paying it until it was order by the court and sometimes she doesn't even do that. This is why I think the goverment has to step in and make the non-custodial parent pay.
You Should Tell

Canton, OH

#72 May 23, 2011
3 months.
Adam in WV

Martinsburg, WV

#73 Jun 13, 2011
Greg Turner wrote:
I've had full custody of my son since 2001. I filed for child support in 2007. Since then I have received very little(less than $800)in support. She was put in jail once for 30 days but that was it. Deadbeat mom owes me over $3,500!! It's her loss tho because her son has grown up & she's nowhere around to see it. Sad when people choose friends over family. I will pursue to get our money till the end! If someone is a DEADBEAT doesn't always mean it's a guy...DEADBEAT WOMEN out there too!!
24yo single dad here. Our son has Cerebral Palsy and take care of him almost entirely by myself. His mom may do about 1% of it all, and that's generous. As far as child support...the divorce was final a month ago. I could've backdated it a year, but didn't, just let it begin in May 2011.$259/month...wow. When she found out (because she never showed up to court once), she had nothing to say about me getting full custody, but I was the world's biggest SOB for the child support, as if $3,100/year is outrageous to care for a human being, even one with a disability!! So yes...deadbeat moms exist. Although rare, the extent of their low-lifeliness is often near record lows (or highs...whatever, you see where I'm going with it). Long live real men who are real dads!(a dying breed)
parent

United States

#74 Jun 14, 2011
ha $259 a month thats twice mine. I only get $150 a month and thats when he can afford to pay mine over his other 7 children.
Adam in WV

Martinsburg, WV

#75 Jun 14, 2011
parent wrote:
ha $259 a month thats twice mine. I only get $150 a month and thats when he can afford to pay mine over his other 7 children.
150...259...either way it's insulting to suggest that a meager amount like that could possibly make things right. The court system and absent parent should both be ashamed. But, not that I am defending the man at all because having 7 children when you're a deadbeat is criminal, it's one thing to struggle to make CS payments for 7 kids, but it's an entirely level of low to refuse to make them for your only child. That kid's CP makes him suffer daily and his mom feels nothing. How?? It just blows me away. Oh well, her loss....and one that beautiful boy WILL die young and she's going to miss his extraordinary life. I told her that God forbid when that day comes, she better not even show her face at the funeral because she will be told to leave.
parent

United States

#76 Jun 14, 2011
Adam in WV wrote:
<quoted text>
150...259...either way it's insulting to suggest that a meager amount like that could possibly make things right. The court system and absent parent should both be ashamed. But, not that I am defending the man at all because having 7 children when you're a deadbeat is criminal, it's one thing to struggle to make CS payments for 7 kids, but it's an entirely level of low to refuse to make them for your only child. That kid's CP makes him suffer daily and his mom feels nothing. How?? It just blows me away. Oh well, her loss....and one that beautiful boy WILL die young and she's going to miss his extraordinary life. I told her that God forbid when that day comes, she better not even show her face at the funeral because she will be told to leave.
He doesn't pay support for all 7. He has 3 with the woman he is with now and pays support for 4 children, but when he can't afford support for 1 child wy have 6 more? Thats my point. And when I met him I knew he had 2. Then when I got pregnant another woman took him to court for support. And I was already pregnant so that would make 4. And then 3 with the girl hes with now. My point is that I work my a$$ every week to take care of my child and $150 or $250 a month is a slap in the face. And if you have a child with alot of medical issues then how are you supposed to care for that child. And the statre doesn't really help alot unless you don't work. I started my job at $7 an hour 5 years ago and the state told me I made to much money for any kind of assistance. I got medical card on my daughter only because I wasn't eligable for it yet at work and I had to pay for that.$7...Thats crazy.. And people want to know why so many single parents sit at home nd draw money off the state instead of working. Nobody can afford to live off $7 and support a child and her father gets by with $159 a month and refuses to get a job. It makes me sick to my stomach.
J_gump76

Virginia Beach, VA

#77 Oct 4, 2011
We call them Egg-Donars! My hubby was a single father of 3 when we met 4 years ago. He is basically in the same shoes as you. His ex-wife left him for someone else and was pregnant within a few weeks after leaving. She left him and the kids behind to go live in a homeless shelter. Then she met up with someone else there and left that guy. She has gone on and had 2 other children by 2 different men, collects welfare and food stamps (even for our three that have not even spent more than 14 hours with in the past 5 months), and refuses to work. I finally talked my husband into going for child support a year ago. He hasn't seen a dime from her. In VA, they report you to 3 debt collectors and it goes against your credit report. She only has a few hundred dollars left til her license is suspended. What a winner!
jack

Land O Lakes, FL

#78 Oct 21, 2011
iam sopose to pay 243 a mouth and i pay 20 a week is that ok i just need to know
FamilyOfSix

Clover, SC

#79 Oct 24, 2011
Greg Turner wrote:
I've had full custody of my son since 2001. I filed for child support in 2007. Since then I have received very little(less than $800)in support. She was put in jail once for 30 days but that was it. Deadbeat mom owes me over $3,500!! It's her loss tho because her son has grown up & she's nowhere around to see it. Sad when people choose friends over family. I will pursue to get our money till the end! If someone is a DEADBEAT doesn't always mean it's a guy...DEADBEAT WOMEN out there too!!
What you said!!!!
just sayn

Lewisburg, KY

#80 Oct 24, 2011
My daughter's ex STAYS behind. Each time they have to go to court his a&& is lucky enough to have a family member be there with what is due her...So he has never been in jail once for it. He cant keep a job at one place long enough to keep up with his work status. No more than she gets from the sorry a&& anyway she says it isnt worth all the head aches she has to go through to keep him up in court all the time. The way i look at situations like this. If you have a child whether you spend time when them or not, this is still a child you helped bring into the world. So your meesly little 40 or 50 dollars a week is just a little drop in the bucket of what it takes to raise that child. So to all the dead beat parents (whether you are a man or a woman who is ordered to pay child support) get your sorry azz up and pay your share for YOUR child!!!
Erica Z

Basehor, KS

#81 Nov 16, 2011
My sons dad is $18,333.00 and Oregon has done nothing they have tried to suspend a license he does not even have. But because I live in Missouri and have to work through both states I have been screwed because once in awhile he will make a $50.00 payment. Keep in mind he is on federal parole he has to carry a job, so hello whats the problem with this situation and my son is only 3, how much worse is it gonna get before the state of Oregon takes some damn action.
jen in arkansas

Cabot, AR

#82 Dec 9, 2011
My husbands ex is a deadbeat mom and refuses to pay. This girl has found every loop hole imaginable to get out of paying. But the key to getting child support enforcment off their butts to do something is to harrass harrass harrass. and when that fails contact the central office and complain. and from past experience the local offices dont like u to contact the central office it seems to get them in alot of trouble. A lady that works there actually was the one that told me to get anything done u have to stay on top of them. My husband will have a screaming fit with them on the phone and magically things that they couldnt do before they can suddenly do. so research and find out what consequences r in ur state for failure to pay and call child support and ask y they arent doing there job.

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