i need some advice on a problem

i need some advice on a problem

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confused

Canton, OH

#1 Nov 26, 2012
I have a problem... Im pregnant by a guy we got pregnant in aug. 2012 he went to jail and 3-4 weeks later i slept with his brother after he had told me he didnt have feelings for me anymore. Now that i fould out im pregnant and i told him he wants to try to work things out after he gets out of jail in december. But his brother is also telling me he hopes its his baby and wants to be with me but he played me cuz after being with the brother for a month he took his ex back and has her living with him. This is one messed up situation i never thought i would be i learned my lesson but idk what to do cuz if you didnt have feelings then why do you got them now and if your with her how are you gonna be with me

Since: Jan 11

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#2 Nov 26, 2012
Sounds like you either need to raise the baby yourself and forget those two losers all together or go on Jerry Springer.
sad

New Albany, IN

#3 Nov 26, 2012
abortion u r a hole
Hope
#4 Nov 26, 2012
I think she should try growing up, and going to church. Try to find some morals before that baby is born.
Really

Bowling Green, KY

#5 Nov 26, 2012
Get rid of them both! You have a new challenge ahead of you raising this baby & neither of these men sound responsible. Try to better yourself for your baby.
hmmm

Canton, OH

#6 Nov 26, 2012
Adoption is an alternative.

“Is who I am”

Since: Aug 08

Scottsville

#7 Nov 26, 2012
Since you were having sex with more than one guy, you will have to do DNA testing when the baby is born. You got used for sex. I hope in the future you will learn that sex does NOT equal love.
advice

Tucker, GA

#8 Nov 26, 2012
Raise this baby on your own honey! Neither one sounds good enough for you and your baby! And don't let these haters on her get to you. You made a mistake you will learn from it. You will be fine I'm a single mom of two my daughter is twelve and my son is 10 I have been doing it alone since I divorced my sons dad in 09 its hard but there are lots of good times. Don't settle for somebody you really don't love just cause you have a baby with them like I did it just made it horrible.
well

Fayetteville, AR

#9 Nov 26, 2012
stop letting your p***y be everyones dumping ground and you wont have this problem. Try having a little respect for yourself.
confused

United States

#10 Nov 26, 2012
For one i have respect for my self and im not a H O E considerin im 19 and just lost my virginity when this happened abortion is not a opition for me cuz why should i take a innocent life when the baby did nothing to me ! I learned my lesson and it wont happen agin i just needed advice not people who is gonna tell me i fucked up when duh i already know that captin obvious
usedtolivethere

Bowling Green, KY

#11 Nov 26, 2012
So you lost you virginity to a pair of jail bird brother losers ? Yeap, if Jerry Springer denies your shit for his show, i would love to see what beat you out. get paid girl, do the DNA test on air, let the world see it. Screw one brother, he goes to jail, well hell i need some kack, i will get with his brother. And you are not a Hoe ??? Who was next in line if he went to jail ? Dad, sister maybe ???
GoodGrief

Bowling Green, KY

#12 Nov 26, 2012
usedtolivethere wrote:
So you lost you virginity to a pair of jail bird brother losers ? Yeap, if Jerry Springer denies your shit for his show, i would love to see what beat you out. get paid girl, do the DNA test on air, let the world see it. Screw one brother, he goes to jail, well hell i need some kack, i will get with his brother. And you are not a Hoe ??? Who was next in line if he went to jail ? Dad, sister maybe ???
I would get Maury to do the baby daddy show over Springer. Just sayin.
confused

La Grange, KY

#13 Nov 26, 2012
Hahahaha glad yall think you know the whole story i guess im not the bad person yall are for bein judgemental people
real help

Portland, TN

#14 Nov 26, 2012
Yes, that is pretty screwed up situation but dont let those who judge you act innocent. People have skeletons in their closet some worse than others but you're not the first one that has screwed up and its part of growing up. You are 19 most people party in their early 20's and are expected by 25 to have a good job and be out of that stage. Basically, its a tough time for you and tough sitution to get through. Dont let most of these comments get to you because most who are mean on here are sad with their life and want to make othes miserable. Those who are happy, with good man or women and job dont go on to sites ranting to bring others down. Like bullies in high school, they are need a big reallity stick in their face. I have no real advice to tell you what to do, but honesty is may not fix all problems but it clears your heart. So tell both guys up front, so they will be prepared and I suggest if you have family ask them to support you because no matter how mad you think your parents may get (if have them in your life) they will love your child. Also dont let these guys wessel their way out of it. Have them ready for DNA in 9 months and honestly if you stay with one of them, the sistuation isnt going to get better. Make sure the daddy is prepared to help support the child, so that means for him to get a real job ( not saying I know what he does now).
FappyTheClown

Georgetown, IN

#15 Nov 26, 2012
Find some worthless POS black guy....from the sound of it, you'd fit in real good with his bro's in the 'hood!!!
young

North Ridgeville, OH

#16 Nov 26, 2012
confused wrote:
I have a problem... Im pregnant by a guy we got pregnant in aug. 2012 he went to jail and 3-4 weeks later i slept with his brother after he had told me he didnt have feelings for me anymore. Now that i fould out im pregnant and i told him he wants to try to work things out after he gets out of jail in december. But his brother is also telling me he hopes its his baby and wants to be with me but he played me cuz after being with the brother for a month he took his ex back and has her living with him. This is one messed up situation i never thought i would be i learned my lesson but idk what to do cuz if you didnt have feelings then why do you got them now and if your with her how are you gonna be with me
why would you sleep with a brother that is horrible.no respect for yourself or husband.
antiamerican

La Grange, KY

#17 Nov 26, 2012
advice wrote:
Raise this baby on your own honey! Neither one sounds good enough for you and your baby! And don't let these haters on her get to you. You made a mistake you will learn from it. You will be fine I'm a single mom of two my daughter is twelve and my son is 10 I have been doing it alone since I divorced my sons dad in 09 its hard but there are lots of good times. Don't settle for somebody you really don't love just cause you have a baby with them like I did it just made it horrible.
advice is right, stay away from both of them and ask your family for help, there is always light at the end of the tunnel. it will be hard, but think about your child if you really care!
confused

United States

#18 Nov 26, 2012
Hes not my husban n there was more to the story atleast im NOT 14 and pregnant atleast i can take care of my kid and i got a job my own house not many 19 year olds do
antiamerican

La Grange, KY

#19 Nov 26, 2012
confused wrote:
Hes not my husban n there was more to the story atleast im NOT 14 and pregnant atleast i can take care of my kid and i got a job my own house not many 19 year olds do
what are you wanting to do!
not a rocket scientist

La Grange, KY

#20 Nov 26, 2012
I agree, be up front with both guys. Get the DNA test just so everyone in the situation has peace of mind. Be mindful that whoever the father is, the other one will be an uncle and will still be a family member. Cause the least amount of heartache and drama as possible. Consider holding off on any relationship until you know what is what. Pray and seek God's will. He has a plan for this baby.

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