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hopeless for sure

Bowling Green, KY

#1 Jan 14, 2013
I have prayed for 8 months solid, every morning & everynight. For the pain, the hurt, the anger to go away. To forget the one person who put me thru a living helll. I have tried & tried to move on, to be happy. To find someone else to help me forget. Nothing has worked, nothing I have tried has worked, not amount of praying, not a person, not a counselor, not a therapist has been able to help me with this. I just want some happiness in my life.
Maybe

United States

#2 Jan 14, 2013
You need to see about talking to the person for closure...?
this may help

Bowling Green, KY

#3 Jan 14, 2013
please watch this.

http://www.youtube.com/watch...

(about 38 minutes)
hopeless for sure

Bowling Green, KY

#4 Jan 14, 2013
Maybe wrote:
You need to see about talking to the person for closure...?
Done tried, many times. Can't make someone talk to you.
correct

Morgantown, KY

#5 Jan 14, 2013
Been trying this for almost a year now. I must be doing it wrong as well. Going down a road I know I dont need to go , but it takes that sometimes to get over something.
el diablo

Elizabethtown, KY

#6 Jan 14, 2013
Let's see here... You want to forget someone, so you make yourself think about them every day and night??
Yeah, sounds like a great plan to me. Get a job, a hobby and a life. Then you'll be too busy to worry about the stupid shit you're obsessed with!
kuntrygirl

Elizabethtown, KY

#7 Jan 14, 2013
hopeless for sure wrote:
I have prayed for 8 months solid, every morning & everynight. For the pain, the hurt, the anger to go away. To forget the one person who put me thru a living helll. I have tried & tried to move on, to be happy. To find someone else to help me forget. Nothing has worked, nothing I have tried has worked, not amount of praying, not a person, not a counselor, not a therapist has been able to help me with this. I just want some happiness in my life.
Trust me girl/guy I have been there, nothing will work until you accept the fact that they are gone and have moved on such as you need to do, but the real kicker is forgiving them and getting over the anger, be the bigger person in the situation, if you don't forgive them, you will never find true happiness again in your life. I know that for a fact. I am friends with my ex husband and until i forgave him for cheating more than once I couldnt find happiness either, i was bitter towards all men and it showed! We are now friends his new wife even calls me and asks if i need anything and babysits the grandkids. We all get along good and I have long since moved on so has he. Life goes on! you have to help yourself before your prayers can work, god can do a lot of things but you have to be willing to help yourself first and somtimes that requires you to be the bigger person and let them know that your no longer angry at them for whatever it is they did. Then you will see a change in your happiness, guarantee you. Good luck!! and god does answer prayers! Not in your time, but his.
personally

Bowling Green, KY

#8 Jan 14, 2013
hopeless for sure wrote:
I have prayed for 8 months solid, every morning & everynight. For the pain, the hurt, the anger to go away. To forget the one person who put me thru a living helll. I have tried & tried to move on, to be happy. To find someone else to help me forget. Nothing has worked, nothing I have tried has worked, not amount of praying, not a person, not a counselor, not a therapist has been able to help me with this. I just want some happiness in my life.
What I have found to be true is you can't pray expecting anything but you can pray in FaiTH, meaning you must believe, for Gods will in your life & in prayer you give him what's hurting you or holding you back, once given to him whole heartedly, then you will begin to find PeaCe! And everything happens in Gods time not ours... When you think negative (ie prayer doesn't work) how can you honestly expect it to?!?! I recommend possibly speaking to a preacher. Do you attend church? If not, Crossland Community Church may be a great place to start & the preacher Gregg is amazing & I am sure he would be willing to take time to talk to you about this spiritually since I am only answering from my personal experience... Prayer does work, my life was HELL before I had FAITH & HOPE! I couldn't make it a moment without prayer & I hope you are able to find that security as well! God Bless...
ant

Bowling Green, KY

#9 Jan 14, 2013
Because prayer is pointless, there is no judeo christian god. Stop living in the time where we believed the earth was flat. You need to fix the problem yourself or get over it. Fear assuming in the holy = faith. Do not just believe what people tell you to including me look up how what everyone scoffs at as pagan or mythology was believed by much more of the world at once in its time than all the current belief systems combined. We are a energy accident of vibrations forming solids. A god did not create us.
prayin

Morgantown, KY

#10 Jan 14, 2013
prayer does work at times, but its on his time not always ours. i have lived many times, when prayer must have been that was all that kept me alive.
hopeless for sure

Bowling Green, KY

#11 Jan 14, 2013
Well i don't think i will ever get the answer's i need. I don't know why someone had to play games with my heart & my head. I seriously don't know where to go from here. I don't know what else to do.
Faith

La Center, KY

#12 Jan 14, 2013
Are you a Chritian?
hopeless for sure

Bowling Green, KY

#13 Jan 14, 2013
Look i've been saved, been baptized, been to church. I believe, but lately i'm just not sure anymore. I didn't deserve all the wrong that's went on in my life. This is just a bit much for me. No matter how hard i try nothing is working. So i give up. I don't know why i even posted this.

Since: Feb 11

Canton, OH

#14 Jan 14, 2013
Listen... Prayer isn't some voodoo trick.

Only the prayers of the members of the Body of Christ (the Apostle Paul speaks about) are even heard today in this Dispensation of Grace! You have to believe that Christ died on a cross for all your sins and that he arose the third day.

“Love thy enemy as thyself”

Since: Jan 13

Location hidden

#15 Jan 14, 2013
Sometimes we pray for the wrong things. Sometimes unanswered prayers can be a blessing.

“ROCK ON ROCKERS!!”

Since: Mar 11

Rockin' USA ;)

#16 Jan 14, 2013
hopeless for sure wrote:
I have prayed for 8 months solid, every morning & everynight. For the pain, the hurt, the anger to go away. To forget the one person who put me thru a living helll. I have tried & tried to move on, to be happy. To find someone else to help me forget. Nothing has worked, nothing I have tried has worked, not amount of praying, not a person, not a counselor, not a therapist has been able to help me with this. I just want some happiness in my life.
Prayers are just WHAT they are.. you pray to GOD for spiritual guidance in helping you cope with your problems. There isn't a Time Limit on erasing the pain of a heartache
YOU have to help yourself "get over" your problems that are stressing you out. Ya know the Prayer Hotline does have operators standing by...But they are NOT charging ya delivery fee.. Look within yourself to FIND a solution to your heart's pain. It is hard, BELIEVE me to try and forget the One Who caused ya pain..But nice to know, We all have the back up of GOD's advice column for your answered prayers.NEVER stop asking for help from the Heavens..they are at your beckon call 24/7.
Lone Ranger

United States

#17 Jan 15, 2013
ant wrote:
Because prayer is pointless, there is no judeo christian god. Stop living in the time where we believed the earth was flat. You need to fix the problem yourself or get over it. Fear assuming in the holy = faith. Do not just believe what people tell you to including me look up how what everyone scoffs at as pagan or mythology was believed by much more of the world at once in its time than all the current belief systems combined. We are a energy accident of vibrations forming solids. A god did not create us.
A god did create us. A god did create you. You will face his judgement one day. I pray he has mercy on you for denying him. A god created this planet and gave us all we need to survive. Best of luck to you.
bridgette

Elizabethtown, KY

#18 Jan 15, 2013
hopeless for sure wrote:
Look i've been saved, been baptized, been to church. I believe, but lately i'm just not sure anymore. I didn't deserve all the wrong that's went on in my life. This is just a bit much for me. No matter how hard i try nothing is working. So i give up. I don't know why i even posted this.
God gives us trials in our lives to see how we handle them, we can either blame him or pass his test and remain faithful and look to him for the answers!! trust me go back to church and remain faithful he will give you the answers your looking for, but you have to open up to receive the answers.
well

Fayetteville, AR

#19 Jan 15, 2013
Wasting your time begging some make believe character doesnt get you anywhere in life.The only way to get ahead in life is to take control of your life and make things happen. You didn't get that new job by prayer..you got it by applying for it, and doing well at the interview. You didn't win the lottery by grace of god, you won by sheer luck. Your friend didn't die in a car crash because it was "his time", it was because he was drunk and texting. Everything has a reason, stopping to give credit to some false being is idiocy. Things happen because we make them happen. Sitting around waiting for things to happen, or waiting for someone to do something for you, will never get anything done.
Lone Ranger

United States

#20 Jan 15, 2013
well wrote:
Wasting your time begging some make believe character doesnt get you anywhere in life.The only way to get ahead in life is to take control of your life and make things happen. You didn't get that new job by prayer..you got it by applying for it, and doing well at the interview. You didn't win the lottery by grace of god, you won by sheer luck. Your friend didn't die in a car crash because it was "his time", it was because he was drunk and texting. Everything has a reason, stopping to give credit to some false being is idiocy. Things happen because we make them happen. Sitting around waiting for things to happen, or waiting for someone to do something for you, will never get anything done.
I hope you take your blinders off before its too late. Idiocy is not trusting and going at life alone. We don't understand everything that happens, but come our last day we will, at least the ones that make it. Find a good bible based church and turn your life around.

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