Women who won't have sex with there husbands

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Thatsmessedup

Wichita Falls, TX

#1 Jun 26, 2011
Why would they even marry them on the first place
Sorry

Wichita Falls, TX

#2 Jun 26, 2011
My wife refuses to have sex with me also... I love her but I still have needs to. So I'll get it somewhere else.does that make me a piece?
Dumbbitches

Wichita Falls, TX

#3 Jun 26, 2011
Women who do that r sorry. It's not cheating if the wife won't even play
Thatsmywife

Wichita Falls, TX

#4 Jun 26, 2011
She knows who she is! I hate her for it. Think I'll file for divorce at the end of the week. Just becauSe of sex.
love is complicated

Hemphill, TX

#5 Jun 27, 2011
Look people, it is not always as simple as someone being mean are hard to get along with. Women can have hormone problems and men can have prostate problems. Sometimes, cancer even plays a part in not feeling the urge to have sex. Women can have an early menopause that makes sex drive take a nose dive and it causes dryness that can cause pain, etc. There are so many problems that can be causing difficulties; so, how about trying to figure out what the problems are and get help with them instead of getting angry with one another.

I have got a spouse with several problems, but we just celebrated our 33rd anniversary. If your spouse was worth marrying in the first place, then, he/she is worth keeping. Just figure it out and be kind and patient.
pathetic

Troy, MI

#6 Jun 27, 2011
It is cheating. If your married and sleep with someone else it's CHEATING! there's a reason why she won't sleep with you either figure it out and fix it or get a divorce. But you finding it somewhere else while still married makes you just as sorry as her!
Thatsmywife

Dallas, TX

#7 Jun 27, 2011
pathetic wrote:
It is cheating. If your married and sleep with someone else it's CHEATING! there's a reason why she won't sleep with you either figure it out and fix it or get a divorce. But you finding it somewhere else while still married makes you just as sorry as her!


Ur absolutely right... So since it been five years and I still am yet to figuer it out nor can she give me any reason at all I guess it is time for a devorce. Thanks for advise
Happy

Bowie, TX

#8 Jun 27, 2011
Sometimes it may be more than hormonal it might be a mental thing. I am not saying being nuts. I am saying after several years they sometimes loose intrest because they do not feel the same way they did when you first got married. They get hang ups about there body too. There sex drive drops just like it does in men. Reading the post from "pathetic" is kinda of misleading, because just saying figure it out and fix it says it is up to the the man to fix. If it is a medical problem as stated above then that would have to be a doctor to figure it out and try and fix it. Now if it is a mental issue then both of you need to set down and try and reslove it. Maybe counsling or something along that line. Just my thoughts... One more thing it could be that she has found some one else, and that could be another reason. Again just my thoughts...
Hmmm

Wichita Falls, TX

#9 Jun 27, 2011
Or... It could be that her husband has let himself go, or is a major jerk, or both. There are many factors that could be at the heart if the issue.
Sexaholic

United States

#10 Jun 27, 2011
I agree why would u marry someone and not have sex with them. and yes it is totally cheating if you find it else where even if the wife dont play. my husband and i have been married for five years and we still have sex once or twice a day. I love my sex life. and it is wrong for women to do that your wife should atleast give an explanation. Maybe shes getting it some were else?
hahaha

United States

#11 Jun 27, 2011
This .conversation is gross
Happy

Bowie, TX

#12 Jun 27, 2011
Hmmm wrote:
Or... It could be that her husband has let himself go, or is a major jerk, or both. There are many factors that could be at the heart if the issue.
True, it could be that he has let himself go or is a complete a$$, if that is the case then it would fall back on him to get his sh!# together. Sometimes though people just fall out of love. For what ever reason. There are way to many to count. Also some people just dont like sex. Again way too many reasons to count. If it was me I would ask her why she didnt then go from there... Also and you can check the facts on this one when surveyed men said they only got sex a few times a months and wives would say a few times a week. I forget the source, but know I have read it or seen it somewhere. There seems to be a difference in opinion in the amount of sex in a marriage. The case was a controled study and in fact the men always under estmated and the women over estmated the number of times they had sex. I will try and find a link to the study. One more thing when children come into the picture sex will change for sure...
Alex

United States

#13 Jun 27, 2011
it could be something like the fact that he doesn't know the difference between THEIR and THERE..just saying..
yep

United States

#14 Jun 27, 2011
When a women's basic needs are NOT full-filed like being PROVIDED FOR (husband has a job that pays the bills), PROTECTED ( feels safe in her own home and relationship- free from physical and mental abuse) LOVED and RESPECTED (treated with the highest regards by her husband, complimented, encouraged and touched and loved not only when sex is wanted) then WHY in the world would she feel safe and free enough to have sex with her husband??? For women it is not just about the physical act of sex but about having every need in her life fulfilled so that she can fulfill her husband's needs!! My guess is you are a Redneck jerk who could careless about doing anything for you wife except making her have sex with your nasty worthless self!!! Before you start coming on here and bashing maybe you need to take a look in the mirror and ask why is wrong with me and what do I do for my wife!!
hahaha

United States

#15 Jun 28, 2011
Amen.
Happy

Bowie, TX

#16 Jun 28, 2011
yep wrote:
When a women's basic needs are NOT full-filed like being PROVIDED FOR (husband has a job that pays the bills), PROTECTED ( feels safe in her own home and relationship- free from physical and mental abuse) LOVED and RESPECTED (treated with the highest regards by her husband, complimented, encouraged and touched and loved not only when sex is wanted) then WHY in the world would she feel safe and free enough to have sex with her husband??? For women it is not just about the physical act of sex but about having every need in her life fulfilled so that she can fulfill her husband's needs!! My guess is you are a Redneck jerk who could careless about doing anything for you wife except making her have sex with your nasty worthless self!!! Before you start coming on here and bashing maybe you need to take a look in the mirror and ask why is wrong with me and what do I do for my wife!!
By no means am I taking up for this man, but it seems that alot or most of the finger pointing is going towards his direction. All of what is being said is possible. Untill we know all the facts (which I doubt we ever will) We should try and keep an open mind. It is not always the fault of the man. Even when the needs that you talk about are met, and that does not happen very often becuause you are talking about the perfect world in your statement. Sometimes it still does not work. In the start of a marriage people tend to do the things that you talk about or at least they try. But as time goes by people get complacint and that works both ways. This is when you start hearing of problems like this. As you stated a man should treat you with respect and love. A woman should do the same and treat the man with the same respect and love that they themselves want. In this day and age where it takes two people working and trying to make ends meet. That sometimes gets put on the back burner. Again I am not taking up for him in no way, I am just looking at it with an open mind. Also I do not think it is possible to fulfill all of anybodys needs... Woman or Man.
Hmmm

Wichita Falls, TX

#17 Jun 28, 2011
But happy, you have to admit that the fact the guy posted this about his wife says a lot about his character.
hate to say it

Hemphill, TX

#19 Jun 28, 2011
More people are on medication these days than ever before. Doctors prescribe a lot of medicine that inhibits the sex drive regardless of the gender or age of the person taking the meds. My spouse has illnesses that require such medicine. Needless to say, our lives are nothing like they were prior to the need for such meds. You can't just kick someone to the curb because they no longer satisfy you in quality and quantity. You simply have to learn to cherish people in other ways and be glad for the few times that you do still enjoy.

Since: May 11

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#20 Jun 28, 2011
It all boils down to..."MEN ARE PHYSICAL"..."WOMEN ARE EMOTIONAL"...but we are supposed to learn about one another, women should not just cut off their husbands as a form of punishment cuz he didnt mow the lawn or whatever silly reason. For most women, sex begins waking up in the morning and he gives her a kiss and tells her he loves her before leaving to work, then when he comes home and she aint been laying around all day and has him something for dinner, and isnt nagging him, and he comes over and gives her a hug and asks about her day and her do same, then maybe they mess around with the kids before bedtime, and if some issue arises that needs to be discussed can be done without screaming and yelling, then when it comes to bedtime, even if the woman is not in the "mood", she realizes that her husband is, and does it out of love. She thinks how he provides for her, and keeps her safe, and what a great dad he is, and so forth...and for him...he doesnt really have to have all that, she can just flash him and he's ready, but seriously, when it comes to sex, women need emotional stimulation, not just physical...Us women are crazy creatures, we have hormones that go bezerk and we cry for no reason and have no idea what is wrong with us. Try having a marriage where "divorce" isnt the first word out of ur mouth when yall argue, ya know words are the most powerful thing u can use to hurt someone. I dont agree that women should cut off hubby for punishment, but i do think that "some" men could take a little more time in thinkin of their wives and our emotional needs, and realize that its not just "good looks or our duty" that makes us want to have sex, women, if ur having trouble, make sure its not a problem a doctor can fix, if its hangups such as emotionally hurt from words or something, try discussing with hubby what he's doing and how it effects you...and men...realize that we need those hugs and kisses and "i love you's" to make us feel wanted and in return want to fulfill ur needs as much as we want u to fulfill ours...No one ever said marriage is easy for sure..I know my marriage has had big ups and downs...and almost divorced...but 19yrs later, we're still together, still have troubles sometimes, but at least we know eachother well enough now that we are committed to staying together...past is past, cant be changed...but ur future can be...and to top that all off...Divorce is such a chicken way out, bar any physical, mental abuse...everything else can be worked on...anything we do in life is all based on CHOICE...of course people that have been married for a long time grow different ways, but that doesnt mean u have to divorce, its give and take, do what he wants to do sometimes, just because u love him and want to make him happy...and he should do the same for you.
lala

Wichita Falls, TX

#21 Jun 28, 2011
Sorry wrote:
My wife refuses to have sex with me also... I love her but I still have needs to. So I'll get it somewhere else.does that make me a piece?
Yep!

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