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Anonymous

Bellevue, TX

#21 Jul 30, 2011
Girls crying about there man is because they don't want to work as hard as me and take care of themselves..they want a nice car,matching bed sheets and Christmas presents..so they sell there soul and jack around with boys on the internet until pay day rolls around...because again, if you don't love yourself knowing what I just said..nobody else will either. Its EASY to be the "helpless lost girl" its NOT easy to be the pay your own bills, sleep alone girl. but she is happier in the long run because she knows her soul is not sold out. My daughter has to be without one of us at all times..but she knows who her Momma is and never hears me say anything other then what a lucky girl she is to have her Daddy..and he doesn't mess with me because from the word DONE..I said..Ok this is this and do what you want..but Im not fighting anymore..we have a life to tend to..thats enough to be thankful for..

Since: Jul 11

United States

#22 Aug 1, 2011
I would listen to super fox she sounds really smart.
ela

Mclean, VA

#23 Aug 28, 2013
Hi
nomary

Graham, TX

#24 Aug 28, 2013
Never marry girls - don't ever do it.
Life time Jackrabbit

United States

#25 Sep 2, 2013
Anonymous wrote:
and Im not cracking on church..but the " church lady"types..were your supposed to be a " lady" and not make a scene..ect, you were born with a soul and to denie a person..takes away that light in the eyes...so sorry for church reference.
Don't apologize about the church reference....churches are one of the biggest problems in society today. They are nothing more than social clubs where the poor and socially unacceptable people get treated like dirt by those that think just because there in church every Sunday they can get away with it. I think preacher and deacons wives are the worst....always walking around with their noses in the air, acting better than everyone else. At some point people will realize that God is everywhere, not just at First Baptist Church or First Christian Church or wherever. YOu don't need to go to church to be saved or be considered religious....and as far as the Bible commanding that you gather with fellow believers and like minded people, do you think the leaders within a church are really like minded? Most pastors suck the blood, and money, out of their congregation and then move on to another church and play the same game. Read your Bible, pray, love your spouse and children and tell the Sunday morning country club meeting at the local church good bye! You will feel much better about yourself. Remember Jesus never went to church.
Grinch

Bowie, TX

#26 Sep 14, 2013
lostlove wrote:
Should people stay with Controlling spouses?
When in your eyes is a divorce okay?
Are reasons other than death/affairs and abuse good enough reasons to leave?
What if you don't know what you want?
Or if you never really loved them and are tired of forcing it because you cant make yourself love them the right way.
how do you know you deserve better?
Sounds like you're going through some rough times. I would never presume to tell you how to live. So just for consideration here is what I believe. 1 Corinthians 7:12 To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her.1 Corinthians 7:15 But if the unbeliever leaves, let it be so. The brother or the sister is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace.
Love/Marriage is as much a matter of will as it is emotion. My wife does things daily that make me so mad but I do things that make her mad too so its safe to say we have to recommit each day to one another. Always be ready to forgive and make your heart soft to your wife try to understand her point of view even if she doesn't return the favor. Always do right by he even if she doesn't do right by you. Learn to love and let God teach you love. I hope this helps you.
just sayin

United States

#27 Sep 14, 2013
Grinch wrote:
<quoted text>Sounds like you're going through some rough times. I would never presume to tell you how to live. So just for consideration here is what I believe. 1 Corinthians 7:12 To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her.1 Corinthians 7:15 But if the unbeliever leaves, let it be so. The brother or the sister is not bound in such circumstances; God has called us to live in peace.
Love/Marriage is as much a matter of will as it is emotion. My wife does things daily that make me so mad but I do things that make her mad too so its safe to say we have to recommit each day to one another. Always be ready to forgive and make your heart soft to your wife try to understand her point of view even if she doesn't return the favor. Always do right by he even if she doesn't do right by you. Learn to love and let God teach you love. I hope this helps you.
Hell that's pretty good way to look at mr grinch

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