What is wrong with men these days ?

[sassygirl]

What is the deal , men do not take relationships serious anymore? Why do men think marriage is the end of the world. One day when all of the old single men are sitting together , wishing they had a good woman they will realize all the good women were taken by all of the real men . The ones who weren't afraid to be inlove and make a commitment to the woman of their dreams

[guest]

aww bullsh!t. all men are not like that.

[sassygirl]

whatever , I don't know any guy's these days , Who want to be in a commited relationship .
None of my guy friends, none of my friend's boyfriends say they ever want to get married.
What is the deal ? Why is commitment so scary ? When you fall in love why do u think there is still something better out there ?

[Dee Dee]

Most of the younger men who act like that ( say about age 30 and younger ) didn't have a good Mother or Father to teach them how to be a good man in the first place. That's why they don't know how to treat a woman.
I see these little punks running around my neighborhood, about the age of 15 or so and I can just tell that no one is at home teaching them a damn thing. These will be the same kind of guy you are talking about. The girls will be trashy little things too. All because Momma and Daddy didn't give a damn about them.

[sassygirl]

Dee Dee wrote:

Most of the younger men who act like that ( say about age 30 and younger ) didn't have a good Mother or Father to teach them how to be a good man in the first place. That's why they don't know how to treat a woman.
I see these little punks running around my neighborhood, about the age of 15 or so and I can just tell that no one is at home teaching them a damn thing. These will be the same kind of guy you are talking about. The girls will be trashy little things too. All because Momma and Daddy didn't give a damn about them.

i agree

[men]

sassygirl wrote:

What is the deal , men do not take relationships serious anymore? Why do men think marriage is the end of the world. One day when all of the old single men are sitting together , wishing they had a good woman they will realize all the good women were taken by all of the real men . The ones who weren't afraid to be inlove and make a commitment to the woman of their dreams

Same thing thats been wrong with them since the beginning of time

[sassygirl]

men wrote:

<quoted text>Same thing thats been wrong with them since the beginning of time

But what is wrong with them ? That is what I am trying to figure out ?

[Call411]

He's really waiting for a nice, respectable, honest virgin. Once he sleeps with a girl/woman, then he knows that she's not a respectable, honest virgin. If girls/woman would put a stop to sleeping with these guys, then maybe the committment to marriage will mean something to them. JMO

[Mans man]

I have been in a committed relationship for seven years and I have been as committed to my wife to the the fullest extent and I now have a son that isn't mine other than that I have been cheated on on more than one occasion. I did nothing to bring this on myself' I am a good husband and father to my children and wife. So I think that the real question is what is wrong with the women these days. I am a real good man.

[guest]

Dee Dee wrote:

Most of the younger men who act like that ( say about age 30 and younger ) didn't have a good Mother or Father to teach them how to be a good man in the first place.

Maybe most women aren't raised to be good trustworthy people these days?

[honesty]

that is a good question.

[nobodyknows]

lol

[I know]

nobodyknows wrote:

lol

I know what is wrong with your man.lol

[yeah well]

sassygirl wrote:

What is the deal , men do not take relationships serious anymore? Why do men think marriage is the end of the world. One day when all of the old single men are sitting together , wishing they had a good woman they will realize all the good women were taken by all of the real men . The ones who weren't afraid to be inlove and make a commitment to the woman of their dreams

Sometimes the reason why guys are afraid of relationships, marriages, or even just going down that road and just dating is that there are some gals out there who are loaded down with the excess baggage of a lot of kids and that can be a scary situation to become involved in. The more different baby daddies they have just makes it worse too.
Also, I know looks aren't everything but they are part of it, so if she's hangin in all the wrong places from it all then that doesn't help either.