how much money do welfare mothers get...
Confuse Jenn

Killeen, TX

#1096 Sep 24, 2012
Women, we always complain about the amount of money is giving from welfare for each kid but when you made the first mistake, it was just that. The second one and there after is a choice to conceive without having a income to support. Everyday is a new chance to make a better choice to better your life, no one owe you anything or your children, you owe them the best possible life. Dont teach me to make excuses,complain when you getting when no one has to give you anything, and depending on others. Growing up and taking responsibility for your actions.
Saddened

Happy Camp, CA

#1097 Sep 24, 2012
Confuse Jenn wrote:
Women, we always complain about the amount of money is giving from welfare for each kid but when you made the first mistake, it was just that. The second one and there after is a choice to conceive without having a income to support. Everyday is a new chance to make a better choice to better your life, no one owe you anything or your children, you owe them the best possible life. Dont teach me to make excuses,complain when you getting when no one has to give you anything, and depending on others. Growing up and taking responsibility for your actions.
Did you really just say conceive with out support? Do you want all of those unborn babies aborted? Or would you rather that they live from birth until 18 in an orphanage unloved and unwanted. You would still be paying for those kids then, and you would be paying the person taking care of the kids. I was on welfare for a year and a half after I had my son. I was married to a man who quit his job after I became pregnant. Started talking about how only whites should live in this country and how we should live off of the government until the child was 18. He told me I was no longer allowed to leave the house, use the phone. He wanted a baby girl, so when I had my first ultrasound and the baby was a boy, he beat the daylights out of me. So I left during the middle of the night and went to a woman's shelter. They granted me aid immediately, but there is no place that will rent even a room for $60 a month. That was how much I received until my son was born. I got $60 a month to live off of. Since they waited several months to give me medical aid, I had to pay for that, and bus fare and Since I no longer had any shoes and the shelter had none in my size, I bought a pair of shoes with some of it. I used another $20 of it to pay for a background check for a low income housing place, but since I couldn't pay for the down payment on the apartment, I had to move on. I spent two months living on the floor of a nice woman's hallway and cleaning her house to pay for my use of the bathroom and phone. Then I moved in with my aunt, started taking college courses, and my son was born. I continued my classes up to the day before his birth, and picked up again the next week. When he was three months old, I started walking ten miles to a gravel business everyday for my job. Since then I have found someone to drive me there, and in the evenings, I work at a motel cleaning rooms. On the weekends, I bust tables at Denny's, and I am still taking college classes online. My aunt watches my son everyday while I am at work. She is disabled and has cancer, so she lives off of her survivors benefit from her husband who served in Vietnam. She also took in my sister after my father started beating her. You would have kept me from receiving any benefits? You would have left me pregnant and on the street? Or you would have took my son and left me on the street? I think the laws for welfare should included only allowing Americans to receive aid, and that there should be drug screening, but to eliminate it, you would be nicer to just kill them off. If I wasn't given aid, I would have been forced to go back to my husband.
Guest

Blytheville, AR

#1098 Sep 25, 2012
Dont try to justify the rampant abuse of hard working taxpayers by welfare leeches by throwing some sob stories.

Did you get that f**ker in Jail if he did not pay for the child support. If so, ok. Also stress the fact, that woman should be careful in choosing who they sleep with and you learnt a lesson by sleeping with someone who was a street dog..
meee

Pleasant Ridge, MI

#1099 Sep 27, 2012
Smarter Than Me wrote:
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So you are disabled. Do you draw a disability check? Have you been turned down? If you do, then your children should also draw from you. And you have the nerve to say because you only get $202 a month government aid, that by the way, my tax dollars covers, and that because I make thousands of dollars a year that I shouldn't bitch. I don't get it. I don't want other people's tax dollar supporting me or my kids. Don't get me wrong, I have no problem helping a truly needy person, but to act like it is owed to you because I actually work and make money, and you don't. This my friend, is what is wrong with the world. I don't owe you anything and neither does anyone else. By the way, if the whopping $202 a month of free money is not appreciated I'll gladly send you my address and you can mail it to me. It belongs to me anyway
you know 202 isn't enough for food and even if that's covered, there's no way that's enough for a place to live or do anything else with. Also take the population of the state and divide the 202 by that. I work too but idc if a fraction of a cent gets taken out to help people. Its not like taxes are solely used for that, most goes toward schools and public services. I didn't read the whole original post but some of your comment is cold. Some people will abuse the system but as a person you should want to help people if they arnt as well off or fortunate as others.
Guest

Blytheville, AR

#1100 Sep 27, 2012
meee wrote:
<quoted text> you know 202 isn't enough for food and even if that's covered, there's no way that's enough for a place to live or do anything else with. Also take the population of the state and divide the 202 by that. I work too but idc if a fraction of a cent gets taken out to help people. Its not like taxes are solely used for that, most goes toward schools and public services. I didn't read the whole original post but some of your comment is cold. Some people will abuse the system but as a person you should want to help people if they arnt as well off or fortunate as others.
If you are so conscientious and If you made a mistake of being with a deadbeat, Take a personal and make sure you pay it back. How often do I see with the deadbeats - NEVER. Everyone wants to put a sob story and wants more hand outs, putting themselves or a child's face out there. Time to take responsibility for your actions!!
Saddened

Happy Camp, CA

#1101 Sep 27, 2012
Guest wrote:
Dont try to justify the rampant abuse of hard working taxpayers by welfare leeches by throwing some sob stories.
Did you get that f**ker in Jail if he did not pay for the child support. If so, ok. Also stress the fact, that woman should be careful in choosing who they sleep with and you learnt a lesson by sleeping with someone who was a street dog..
Excuse me? Sleeping with a street dog. He was a manager at the golf range when we married. It was afterwards that he decided to go all hick ass hole on me. And, since he is unemployed and low income, and homeless after he lost his home and his parents kicked him out of their home. This means that he qualifies for a child support discount apparently. He only has to pay $67 a month. He has yet to pay that, and my son is now 14 months old. My ex is required to be $5000 behind on past due child support before he can be jailed. At this point, that means it will be at least six years before he has to pay anything or be jailed for lack of payment. I am required by the court to allow him to visit his son while this continues. Until his debt surpasses $1000, they will not remove the visitation order, even though it requires me to take time from work and pay a visitation fee for him to do so. The visitation fee is required because there is an active restraining order against his for attacking me, and unless I have the order dropped, I am required to pay $30 a visit along with the $80 in gas to get to the visitation center. Basically they are requiring me to put myself and my son at risk and pay out more money than I have to be able to keep my son. They said that if I do not abide by the order, child services will take him and I will be arrested. I cannot afford to be arrested, I am trying to build my credit and establish a good work history so I can take care of my son as best as possible.
Isis

Brooklyn, NY

#1102 Sep 27, 2012
I hate when people say why are people on welfare getting check and then talk all this shit about their tax dollars. There are many people that need this assistance and for the ones that so what. That is why welfare is cracking down on all types of fraudulent cases. If these people were not receiving aid you would still have to pay the taxes except it would still go to something that did not benefit you in any way. I'd rather see the money go to families, than some dumb fuck at a corporation to decorate his office. I have worked all of my life and I do not feel this way. Nothing i life is fool proof so stop freaking complaining and for some of you stop talking about what you do not know. Research the programs (as have I) and you will find out that many people are not living lavishly off of their welfare check. Some of the amounts these people are given it is amazing they can even survive on it. I am thankful for my job, but i do not look down on the less fortunate. You never know someones situation so do not assume you do and just think that they are lazy and unwilling to work. Some of you really need to humble yourselves bc you can always be one paycheck or pink slip away from needing to get on that same assistance you so shun!
Guest

Blytheville, AR

#1103 Sep 27, 2012
Isis wrote:
I hate when people say why are people on welfare getting check and then talk all this shit about their tax dollars. There are many people that need this assistance and for the ones that so what. That is why welfare is cracking down on all types of fraudulent cases. If these people were not receiving aid you would still have to pay the taxes except it would still go to something that did not benefit you in any way. I'd rather see the money go to families, than some dumb fuck at a corporation to decorate his office. I have worked all of my life and I do not feel this way. Nothing i life is fool proof so stop freaking complaining and for some of you stop talking about what you do not know. Research the programs (as have I) and you will find out that many people are not living lavishly off of their welfare check. Some of the amounts these people are given it is amazing they can even survive on it. I am thankful for my job, but i do not look down on the less fortunate. You never know someones situation so do not assume you do and just think that they are lazy and unwilling to work. Some of you really need to humble yourselves bc you can always be one paycheck or pink slip away from needing to get on that same assistance you so shun!
If you are such an IGNORANT FOOL who has not seen the Tax Dollars from hard working families squandered on welfare mama's popping babies just to collect a check, THEN GET THE F**K OUT OF YOUR CAVE!!!

Or the other explanation is that you are just one of the lazy recipients who is just enjoying a free check every month while others make responsible decisions about their lives..
Lovelylee

Gloucester, MA

#1104 Oct 10, 2012
not all women go on welfare because we want to screw the systems over. Well i grew up in foster care and had a baby with no family or parents to help me. i was 16 when i first got pregnant and i just recently went on welfare because i lost my job. my daughter is 5 years old now and for 5 years ive been struggling with my daughter to try to make ends meet. not everyone is the same only a few greedy people that want to live good and free im not like that im a very hard working single mother trying to better my life for my daughter if you think these benefits should be taken away from everyone then thats not right how about mothers like me who are working hard to changed the life of our children sont point the finger at everyone because not everyone is in the same situation.
Guest

Blytheville, AR

#1105 Oct 10, 2012
Lovelylee wrote:
not all women go on welfare because we want to screw the systems over. Well i grew up in foster care and had a baby with no family or parents to help me. i was 16 when i first got pregnant and i just recently went on welfare because i lost my job. my daughter is 5 years old now and for 5 years ive been struggling with my daughter to try to make ends meet. not everyone is the same only a few greedy people that want to live good and free im not like that im a very hard working single mother trying to better my life for my daughter if you think these benefits should be taken away from everyone then thats not right how about mothers like me who are working hard to changed the life of our children sont point the finger at everyone because not everyone is in the same situation.
What mothers like you need to learn is NOT to have babies when they are 16 and NOT jump in bed with any man who wont even be around.

Why should others have to pay for your lack of self control.

This is not an accident or unforeseen mishap but a choice you made at 16 years of age and others dont need to pay for your choice.

Most people wait later in life when they have means and resources to have babies and So should YOU..
samuel

United States

#1106 Oct 10, 2012
citizen wrote:
<quoted text>Well put, thats what needs to be addressed.
SEXY
samuel

United States

#1107 Oct 10, 2012
SEXY
fuckfukthis

Omaha, NE

#1108 Oct 11, 2012
fukthis wrote:
what the hell the fat white trash has 3 differtent black babies from 3 different black fathers and ur tellin me i have to contribute to this shit thats just tellin the fat white trash to go on ahead be fat white trash sleep with as many colored men as you want the state of california is here for you what the hell and they just get to live happily ever after with free money it almost makes me wish i was fat white trash bimbo na na na
WTF IS WRONG WITH THIS RACIST BITCH. F%$# YOU MOTHERF%#^ER YOUR A RACIST DICK FACE THAT DONT DESERVE TO BE AN AMERICAN CITIZEN. IVE WIPED SHIT OF MY BOOTS THAT IVE RESPECTED MORE THAN I RESPECT YOU PEOPLE LIKE YOU ARE A POOR EXCUSE FOR A HUMAN BEING ACTING LIKE YOUR BETTER THAN SOMEONE. YOU DUMBASS ITS ALWAYS PEOPLE LIKE YOU THAT WANTS TO BITCH ABOUT WHAT TAX MONEY GOES TO I PAY TAXES BUT YOU KNOW WHAT I COMPLAIN ABOUT OUR TAXES LEAVING THIS COUNTRY. WE SHOULD TAKE CARE OF OUR CITIZENS ITS WHAT MAKES US DIFFERENT THAN ANY OTHER DEAD BEAT COUNTRY.
psyco

Happy Camp, CA

#1109 Oct 11, 2012
Guest wrote:
<quoted text>
What mothers like you need to learn is NOT to have babies when they are 16 and NOT jump in bed with any man who wont even be around.
Why should others have to pay for your lack of self control.
This is not an accident or unforeseen mishap but a choice you made at 16 years of age and others dont need to pay for your choice.
Most people wait later in life when they have means and resources to have babies and So should YOU..
Is sixteen really old enough for her to have been responsible for herself to that extent? IF this girl grew up in foster homes her entire childhood, what role model or motivation would she have had to teacher her about that kind of thing? I don't care what age she was, if she isn't mentally mature enough to handle something like this, then someone should have stepped in and made sure that she wasn't out getting pregnant. Besides, girls like this often jump into relationships that early because of a lack of affection. She would have sought out attention from anywhere. Just be glad she kept her child instead of putting it off on you to pay for and for the child to repeat the cycle, possibly with worse results.
guest

Lake City, AR

#1110 Oct 12, 2012
Foe your information the taxpayer IS paying, and paying, and paying, while these people continue to have more and more babies that they take no responsibility for. These people make it their job, more babies , more money. I't not only foodstamps, they also get free medical,housing,utilities,dayc are, funds for clothing, cell-phones, and some get free cars and insurance.. PAID by WHO? The ones that have a JOB, paying taxes and are struggling to care for themselves and their own families.
They say they can't work, got to many kids, but they can certainly run the streets, hit the clubs and brawl amongst themselves over their babies daddy's who lives off the kids as well.
If you want all these children then be responsible and don't expect taxpayers to pay for them and your lazy self.
God is Love

Buena Park, CA

#1111 Oct 19, 2012
lovemehaters wrote:
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wow you sound like the filthy piece of shit loner huh i live in a 2 bedroom appt wtf do you have bitch not a damn thing my child is clothed & feed stupid ass so next time your ugly retarded ass wants to judge look in a mirror you scum bag God dont like ugly & who are you to judge f*cking moron suck a d*ck & stop hating on others like your better than everybody else i gurantee i worked more than you have you entire life your mom should of aborted such a retard like yourself so do everyone a favor & burn in hell thanks hater i know i'm better than you so cry to mama
........ Well aparently you mention god so you must have some sort of belief in him, but yet you sound so hateful. You also mention abortion, you obviously know where I'm going with this, the loving God that most people know doesn't believe in abortions or hating people as you. Pray for your enemies honey, your no better off than them. Especially if your talking like that cussing up a storm. Practice what you preach and you wouldn't sound like such a hypocrite.
Erika

Manteca, CA

#1112 Oct 24, 2012
Agreed. Im so sick of people abusing the system!! I see it everyday!!!!!
zappettini

United States

#1113 Nov 5, 2012
There are so many young girls having babies just for our tax dollars. There is one girl in our neighborhood that has 4 kids and another on the way. I don't have a heart for her, she is one of MANY, MANY that has babies just for more money. Because she has babies she thinks she has the right to our money, she gets free medical, I don't have as with many other tax payers not having coverage. She has no plans what so ever to get a job. As for the father(S) of these babies, if she does not tell the state who he is...NO MONEY. When he is found, he is usually living with her to get any money from the welfare check to buy his booze, cig's and tatoos, make HIM work the fields, this way the illegals will stay away. Some of these so called mothers, have been leeching off the system for years, they get free birth control pills, but don't want to take them, pretty obvious, they want more money.
Welfare is Everyone

Blytheville, AR

#1114 Nov 9, 2012
wel·fare/&#712;wel&#71 6;fe(&#601;)r/

1.The health, happiness, and fortunes of a person or group.
2.Statutory procedure or social effort designed to promote the basic physical and material well-being of people in need.

I mean really people...so what?? There are all kinds of people that take advantage of the system, their employers, their job position, their authority, the list goes on...I mean it happens. Not that it is ok, but it happens everywhere, everyday, and in every social class....so are you asking because you want to a piece of the action??
Guest

Blytheville, AR

#1115 Nov 9, 2012
Welfare is Everyone wrote:
wel·fare/&#712;wel&#71 6;fe(&#601;)r/
1.The health, happiness, and fortunes of a person or group.
2.Statutory procedure or social effort designed to promote the basic physical and material well-being of people in need.
I mean really people...so what?? There are all kinds of people that take advantage of the system, their employers, their job position, their authority, the list goes on...I mean it happens. Not that it is ok, but it happens everywhere, everyday, and in every social class....so are you asking because you want to a piece of the action??
WTF are you jibbering...

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