Weapon Found In Bluff City Shooting T...

Weapon Found In Bluff City Shooting That Left Woman Dead, Man a Very Criticala

There are 474 comments on the Http story from Oct 30, 2008, titled Weapon Found In Bluff City Shooting That Left Woman Dead, Man a Very Criticala. In it, Http reports that:

News Channel 11 reporter Nate Morabito is at the scene of the shooting in Bluff City, where Sullivan County Sheriff Wayne Anderson says his investigators have recovered a weapon.

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Phyl

United States

#477 Mar 13, 2010
unknown wrote:
Paul,
You ignorant a-hole, you just don't get it do you man??? You were "busy living" with a married woman. He may have told her to leave and find a younger man, but he could have just as well told her to eat s-it, but would she have run out and done that??? You are the one on here trying to justify your affair with another man's wife. And I doubt seriously that Randy was "busy figuring out a way to kill the both of you" or your sorry a$$ wouldn't still be on here trying to justify your actions.
What's up with trying to justify Randy for murdering Angela and blaming Paul? Life is all about the choice's we make. Randy made the choice to murder his wife. No one made him do it, he could have easily walked off or told her to leave and never come back. How many marriages did Randy break up? That is a different chapter, excuse me. How many other women has he tried to kill or maybe has killed that you and I don't know about? Was Paul dating them also? You can blame Paul all you want, but it is still Randy who murdered Angela. No one makes you murder someone in cold blood unless you want to murder them. From everything I have read, Randy didn't love his wife and was abusive to her. The 64,000 dollar question is, Why do women go back to their abusers?? I found the answer:
From an outsiderís point of view, it is nearly impossible to fathom why a woman might return to an abusive relationship. While it seems logical that a woman would maintain her independence after going through the trouble of leaving an abusive relationship, there are many things that might also compel her to return. Fear is one of the primary reasons that women return to abusive relationships. Often, abusive men step up their threatening and manipulative behavior right after their victims choose to leave. As a result, many women come to fear more severe abuse if they refuse to return to their abusers. In some cases, women return to abusive relationships because they feel sorry for their abusers. A common tactic batterers use to control their mates is threatening to commit suicide. This may lead the victim to feel both guilty and worried, and she may return to the relationship to save the abuser. Just as often, batterers are able to convince their victims that they love them and are committed to changing. Believing the batterers and hoping for real change, some women return to these abusive relationships.
According to statistics, the average abused woman leaves her abuser seven to eight times before she leaves permanently. Victims of abuse often live in a state of fear, confusion, and overwhelming sadness. To make a successful and permanent separation from an abuser, a woman needs support and easy access to organizations dedicated to aiding victims of abuse. With this support and the understanding that the abuse will continue if they return, many abused women are able to leave abusive relationships permanently.
The situation between Randy and Angela is so sad, she never had the chance to escape from her abuser the day he murdered her. Please read the following post as well.
Phyl

United States

#478 Mar 13, 2010
Abusive men are more terrified of losing their victim because it means their control is growing weak and they can't subsist in life without control over another person. They will tell you anything to win you back, but if you go back, they will be so enraged you left in the first place that the verbal or physical abuse will just get worse. It's pay back time!

Abusers are the way they are because they have either grown up in a family of abuse, or they have been spurned by someone (especially women) when they were old enough to start dating or, they could have simply lost a job or a promotion probably because of their miserable personality and it was enough for them to go over the edge. Then there are some men that are just mean to the bone.

Abusive men are very weak and certainly need psychological counseling, but rarely seek it. They feel they are in the right and everything they own down to the family dog is theirs and no one is going to tell him how to deal with his possessions.

Abusive men can only control the environment in their personal lives because they wouldn't get away with it out in society. They are weak-minded and are foxy enough not to cause a fuss out in public where other men are present because they would be terrified of facing another man of the same strength who may want to protect you from your abuser. Abusers pick on the weak! They don't always pick on their mates, but can pick on their children, elderly parents or even the pets in the household. Everything seems to irritate them. Women are no more than chattel to them.

You left, he lost control and he's calling you names because you ruined his routine and his safe little bubble that he lives in. You have reminded him that one can never truly have total control over another. Even if we are held captive no one can steal our souls!

There are Abused Women's Centers in most cities or good sized towns and they have wonderful programs for people such as yourself. You will be in good company with many other women that are abused. These programs give you tools so you can once again become independent, get your dignity back, stay away from your abuser and learn characteristics of abusers so you don't choose another mate who will abuse you. A large percentage of women go back to their abuser or choose to date only men who abuse because she has basically lost her self respect, doesn't feel she is worth receiving better and often times (especially if she has children) finds it difficult to support these children or doesn't have the experience for looking for a job. These programs help you find work as well. Slowly but surely the laws are changing to protect women and women are fighting back!

unknown

Johnson City, TN

#479 Apr 15, 2010
You have all the answers don't you?? Are you Dr. Phyl???? or are you just pretending to be???

“The Apple Pie Boy”

Since: Jul 07

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#480 Apr 15, 2010
Phyl wrote:
Abusive men are more terrified of losing their victim because it means their control is growing weak and they can't subsist in life without control over another person. They will tell you anything to win you back, but if you go back, they will be so enraged you left in the first place that the verbal or physical abuse will just get worse. It's pay back time!
Abusers are the way they are because they have either grown up in a family of abuse, or they have been spurned by someone (especially women) when they were old enough to start dating or, they could have simply lost a job or a promotion probably because of their miserable personality and it was enough for them to go over the edge. Then there are some men that are just mean to the bone.
Abusive men are very weak and certainly need psychological counseling, but rarely seek it. They feel they are in the right and everything they own down to the family dog is theirs and no one is going to tell him how to deal with his possessions.
Abusive men can only control the environment in their personal lives because they wouldn't get away with it out in society. They are weak-minded and are foxy enough not to cause a fuss out in public where other men are present because they would be terrified of facing another man of the same strength who may want to protect you from your abuser. Abusers pick on the weak! They don't always pick on their mates, but can pick on their children, elderly parents or even the pets in the household. Everything seems to irritate them. Women are no more than chattel to them.
You left, he lost control and he's calling you names because you ruined his routine and his safe little bubble that he lives in. You have reminded him that one can never truly have total control over another. Even if we are held captive no one can steal our souls!
There are Abused Women's Centers in most cities or good sized towns and they have wonderful programs for people such as yourself. You will be in good company with many other women that are abused. These programs give you tools so you can once again become independent, get your dignity back, stay away from your abuser and learn characteristics of abusers so you don't choose another mate who will abuse you. A large percentage of women go back to their abuser or choose to date only men who abuse because she has basically lost her self respect, doesn't feel she is worth receiving better and often times (especially if she has children) finds it difficult to support these children or doesn't have the experience for looking for a job. These programs help you find work as well. Slowly but surely the laws are changing to protect women and women are fighting back!
A quick search with some of this text reveals it to be a widely published article. Are you the author of this article, Phyl?
unknown

Blountville, TN

#481 Apr 15, 2010
Nothing is worse than someone who plagiarizes, Phyl! In case you don't know what plagiarism is, it is stealing someone else's work without giving credit.
concerened citizen

Bristol, TN

#482 Apr 26, 2010
Paul Di Trapani wrote:
Angela was one of the sweetest and caring person I think I have known. I loved her very much she held a special place inside my heart, I will never forget the way she touched my life. I cannot understand why something so horrific could happen to such a great woman, I can only find solice in the fact that she resides in the hands of God. Mr. & Mrs. Hopkins I am so sorry for your loss
angela you are with the angles,i know you have found confort there.there is a registered vilent sex offender jerry jones living at 4123 weaver pike.right across from east high school.the school principal at east high school was informed about a week ago and has done nothing to inform the parents of the kids that go to school there.tennessee state law states that a violent registered sex offender cannot live within a quarter of a mile of a school.the sullivan county sheriff dept was notified a week ago and as of this date nothing has been done.when a sheriff puts the citizens lives in danger i feel its time to replace him.im a registered republican but i wont be voting for anderson.why would i vote for someone who has put members of my familys lives in danger.to the women who work at bristol metals.keep your eyes open.the company you work for has put your lives in harms way
hampton woman

Jonesborough, TN

#483 Aug 29, 2010
unknown wrote:
Why did you delete your myspace and facebook p
rofiles, Paul?
Because he is so damn ugly is why it was deleted
Scooby

Smyrna, TN

#484 Sep 3, 2010
wow
myco-worker

Summerville, GA

#485 Oct 13, 2010
i cannot believe this nonsense. i worked w/ her. she was trying to make a living. i rememeber when she came in and told me she married this guy. i asked her "why"? she said that her ex would not allow her kids to come over if she was "living w/him". i called her a fool, and went on, just thinking everthing would be ok. as it turned out she started missing quite a bit of work, and ended up having to seek treatment for her own problems; no doubt escalated by the abuse this man was dishing out to her. Whatt amazes me us all these "blogs". She is gone, hopefully at rest. What would she have wanted for this so called man?
I think he should have to sell everything he owns, give the proceeds to Angela's children, and be incarcarated for the rest of his sorry life. While in prison, he needs to work on a billboard of his sickening, disfigured, ulgy ,disgusting FACE..AND it should read..DON'T LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU!! he needs to pay for that billboard, and pay for his crime. What a waste of flesh he is, may god have some mercy on his evil soul.
Dixie Girl

United States

#486 Oct 16, 2010
This trial was a joke if there ever was one. Spivey had control of the courtroom and Judge Montgomery allowed it. You get more time in jail or prison for using or dealing with drugs than murder, what kind of judicial system do we have in this country? The taxpayers will be happy they don't have to pay for room and board for this idiot anymore. His family will have the burden of taking care of him. I wonder who the next woman on his list will be? Look out girls, he will be getting out soon. You better know how to protect yourself and be prepared. Never leave your source of protection in the vehicle for even a second as Angela did. There is a special place waiting for him, his attorney and the expert witness who said hurting, abusing, threatening to kill other women was irrelevant in this case. This country and the laws have gone to hell.
The only people who are happy on how this verdict came back is the Graybeal family and his first ex-wife. Have at him people, enjoy your life with this cruel, evil murderer. This trial was about as dirty as they get. It shows if you have the money, you can get by with murder, like O.J. Simpson. Oh, wait, O.J. finally got his, and two of his dirty lawyers died. Vengence is mine, I will repay saith the Lord. That is what we have to put our trust in. God never fails to follow through with his word.
Dixie Girl

United States

#487 Jul 28, 2011
UPDATE ON THIS MONSTER,

He has to spend the full 6 years in prison, he failed to pass his parole, because they heard how evil and mean this monster is. His release date will be in 2014. He is getting educated while he is there, he is working on his GED,(like that will make a difference). He plans on going back to work with his brother who by the way is going to take care of his sorry ___. That is a joke if I ever heard one. Who would hire a cold hearted murderer to be around them and their family looking like he does? His eyes oozes all the time, is he not afraid he will get mortar dust in them? Maybe he won't make it out of prison now that the word is out on him.
I hope he learns how to use a computer and has access to one to read everything that has been said about him. Oh yes I do.
randys ex

Jonesborough, TN

#488 Jul 17, 2013
He is in clarktown raping cattle and staying drunk on homemade shine
Bill Brasky

Bluff City, TN

#489 Jul 17, 2013
He's a bully bitch, always was.i did find joy in him picking on me a lil to much one night at a cookout/party. When father put his dumbass on the ground! He only messed with people who he saw as weaker, because he was a hickory tree bitch! He didn't go no where else pulling that stupid shit!
Eagle Eye

Bluff City, TN

#490 Dec 21, 2013
I heard Angela had a good job working at the whorehouse in Hell. Satan is her pimp daddy.

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