tired of lazy women who just lay on t...

tired of lazy women who just lay on their backs!!!!

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Fed-Up

Mansfield, MO

#1 Jan 28, 2013
Whey do some women feel the need to get married and pop out a couple of kids then feel they don't have to work and should just be supported by their exes? I have no problem paying child support but some women are just lazy and think it's fine for them to sit on their fat asses and not work and just live off of food stamps and child support. Us husbands have to work so why shouldn't the women. I totally agree with paying child support but I don't agree with an ex-wife getting sole custody and having 3 kids by different daddies just so they can get that check everymonth. Does anyone know how the law works if you pay child support aren't you entilted to see your children?
How it is

Branson, MO

#2 Jan 28, 2013
Paying child support does not entitle you to see your kids. Sad, but true. Do you have specifed vistation rights? If so, then she is in contempt of court.

Not paying child support does not give her the right to keep your children from you. If you are court ordered and you are not paying, then you are in contempt of court.

BTW, living on food stamps and child support is not always a picnic. Don't classfy all women as the same.
Fed-Up

Mansfield, MO

#3 Jan 28, 2013
Im sorry if it sounded like I was putting all women in the same class. Our first court date is coming up and she want's child support but want's me to have no contact in person or even on the phone with our children. Like I said I do not mind one bit paying child support but I don't want to lose my children. This is nerve wracking and I'm scared to death. I don't even want the divorce but I firmly believe that her family has a big influence on whats happening. I pray everyday about 10 times that things will change but no luck yet.
Tin Man

United States

#4 Jan 28, 2013
If you are a decent person it would be hard not to be awarded some type of visitation. I highly doubt any judge would take away your rights. She may try to say you beat or abused the children in some fashion to try and get her way. Best thing I can tell you is get a good lawyer and tell him/her everything that has happened. If she sends you text messages you need to print them and give them to your lawyer. Same with emails or any other communication. Keep a record of each and every time you talk and see the kids. Keep good notes of activities and duration of any visits. The main thing is to show you are active in their lives and want what is best for the children. Also keep your cool in the court room. If you try to talk over her anr belittle her you will only look like an a$$. That is what your lawyer if for. Be sure to dress up for court. Dressing up doesn't mean your good t-shirt and jeans. I am talking about a long sleeve button up shirt, tie, dress slacks and dress shoes. Good luck.
hannah

United States

#5 Jan 28, 2013
A good way to keep track of when, where you see your kids is by using a calander and a notbook. Keep it all in one spot. Use it every day that you have or are with your kids. On the calander put time and how long thn write in the notebook who,what, when and where.
Fed-Up

Mansfield, MO

#6 Jan 28, 2013
Thanks for the advice Tin-Man. I have already ordered my suit for court and her lawyer informed her not to let me see or talk to my children. My lawyer said that would end up looking bad on her in court. I love my kids more than my own life and I have never nor will I never do anything to hurt them. My lawyer has copies of the messages she's sent and my lawyer said not to reply because she's just trying to set me up for something. I know I don't know you but Thanks again for the advice and for wishing me luck.
Fed-Up

Mansfield, MO

#7 Jan 28, 2013
I would do anything to see them but I know if I call just to check on them she will try to press harassment charges. I just got out of the hospital today because last week I had a mild heart attack because the stress is driving me nuts.
shelly

Pineville, MO

#8 Jan 28, 2013
Shes a selfish c*nt! Good luck in court. By the way just cause "her" lawyer says you are to have no contact means nothing. If it hasn't been signed by a judge then you can do what you want. If there is no temporary custody order in place and set visitation on that then you should be able to go visit your children at school or wherever you choose.
How it is

Branson, MO

#9 Jan 29, 2013
Good luck in court. I had the opposite problem with mine. Two ex husbands that didn't have time to come vist their kids. Stil don't and both have families. Their loss.
the real smh

United States

#10 Jan 30, 2013
Good luck M!
me too

Wentzville, MO

#11 Jan 30, 2013
Good luck, NO child should be kept from either parent unless, drugs, molestation,etc are involved. And not all mothers are like this woman. I didn't work when i had my child, but I had problems. We raised a beautiful child together. That takes 2, a mom a and a dad. Don't let her take your kids from you. Stay active in their lives. They need anything you get it for them, don't give her the money. Most all child support cases are straight to the nose or the tavern.
Good Luck and God be with you!!
lmao

Pinckneyville, IL

#12 Jan 31, 2013
me too wrote:
Good luck, NO child should be kept from either parent unless, drugs, molestation,etc are involved. And not all mothers are like this woman. I didn't work when i had my child, but I had problems. We raised a beautiful child together. That takes 2, a mom a and a dad. Don't let her take your kids from you. Stay active in their lives. They need anything you get it for them, don't give her the money. Most all child support cases are straight to the nose or the tavern.
Good Luck and God be with you!!
hense, how it is', two ex husbands. Shut up c#nt! Go back to your bar. Go back to your meth. Oh ya! Lmao! Its not the 1st yet... to you fed up, protect yourself, they are all lying sneaky cheatin b#tches. They will lie to and f#ck whoever they have to, to ensure they can lay on thier lazy cheatin addict asses and make more welfare/childsupport babies. Those women deserve every wrong they recieve. Karma a bitch! Still comin c#nt!
me too

Wentzville, MO

#13 Jan 31, 2013
lmao wrote:
<quoted text> hense, how it is', two ex husbands. Shut up c#nt! Go back to your bar. Go back to your meth. Oh ya! Lmao! Its not the 1st yet... to you fed up, protect yourself, they are all lying sneaky cheatin b#tches. They will lie to and f#ck whoever they have to, to ensure they can lay on thier lazy cheatin addict asses and make more welfare/childsupport babies. Those women deserve every wrong they recieve. Karma a bitch! Still comin c#nt!
listen B*&*H I am married to the fatherof my child, have been for 38 yrs, whats wrong with you?? All I meant was a child SHOULD have BOTH parents!. You don't like, kiss my a**!!!!
justsayin

Kansas City, KS

#14 Jan 31, 2013
Well, Marv. I'm tired of seeing daddies being unfaithful to their wives and tearing apart families.
Seriously, why be married if you're gonna cheat?
me too

Wentzville, MO

#15 Jan 31, 2013
There was no cheating in our marriage.Not now not ever. My advice is don't get married if you are still screwing everything else and don't plan to quit. Don't Have kids till you know for sure it is going to last. If you do have kids stick with it!!! It's a 2 way street!
Marvin

Mansfield, MO

#16 Jan 31, 2013
Who exactly cheated in our relationship? I know I never did.
lmao

Pinckneyville, IL

#17 Jan 31, 2013
lmao wrote:
<quoted text> hense, how it is', two ex husbands. Shut up c#nt! Go back to your bar. Go back to your meth. Oh ya! Lmao! Its not the 1st yet... to you fed up, protect yourself, they are all lying sneaky cheatin b#tches. They will lie to and f#ck whoever they have to, to ensure they can lay on thier lazy cheatin addict asses and make more welfare/childsupport babies. Those women deserve every wrong they recieve. Karma a bitch! Still comin c#nt!
next time i suggest you read comments more than once before you make comments. Read agian, perhaps of the juice, you would realize that comment was made in reference to yours.
joe mcdonald

Sparta, MO

#18 Feb 9, 2013
How it is wrote:
Paying child support does not entitle you to see your kids. Sad, but true. Do you have specifed vistation rights? If so, then she is in contempt of court.
Not paying child support does not give her the right to keep your children from you. If you are court ordered and you are not paying, then you are in contempt of court.
BTW, living on food stamps and child support is not always a picnic. Don't classfy all women as the same.
please tell me how getting free money is rough i would really like to hear someone tell me no please dont give me free money anything but that your stupid
lunguist40

Melrose Park, IL

#20 Aug 26, 2014
I said it before, and i will say it again. Child support is a broke bitches hustle. I refuse to pay it. Give me three hots and a cot...let these hoes take care of us!
Actually

Ozark, MO

#21 Aug 27, 2014
How it is wrote:
Paying child support does not entitle you to see your kids. Sad, but true. Do you have specifed vistation rights? If so, then she is in contempt of court.
Not paying child support does not give her the right to keep your children from you. If you are court ordered and you are not paying, then you are in contempt of court.
BTW, living on food stamps and child support is not always a picnic. Don't classfy all women as the same.
Actually, if you look up the Missouri laws concerning child support and visitation, it states that a parent has visitation rights regardless of their child support status. According to the state laws, the only thing that can take away a parent's visitation rights is a court order. It's not my opinion on the subject, simply Missouri's laws concerning visitation and child support. Any parent being blocked from seeing their children for any reason should call an attorney to find out their rights. Many have free phone consults.'Friend Of The Court' also has full knowledge of this subject.

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