Husband's ex wife
Nancy

Jackson, MO

#1 Aug 3, 2012
I don't know if I'm looking for advice, sympathy, or just wanting to vent, but I am EXTREMELY jealous of my husband's ex-wife. I am the same age as she is, but she always looks tired and run down. I work out and try to look my best. She and I do the same thing for a living, although she makes more money. She is dishonest in her business dealings, though, so after her monthly restitution payment, it works out to about the same amount of money. I am every bit as intellegent as she is. She cheated on my husband and then the guy she has been shacked up with for 4 years cheated on her, so she's single again. Her and my husband have equal custody of a minor child and have an adult child together as well. The ex calls too much, talks too long, 2 times has called my husband away from the house to discuss the minor child in private. The 2nd time was bogus, so my husband said no more. My husband and I have a nice large home, the ex wife rents a house. I know she'd love to move me out and take my home. If she got the chance, I'm sure she'd sleep with my husband. He wouln't sleep with her anymore even before he and I became an item. I guess I can't stand it that they have kids together and there's no bond like it. My husband assures me that even if I DIED, he wouldn't want her back because she is a selfish and deceitful person. I just wish I could accept that. As it is, I can't stand the sight of her!!! I don't want her anywhere near me, my husband, or my home. I wonder if I am the only woman that feels this way. I wonder if my ex-husband's wife feels this way. Maybe I'm just crazy insecure. I know I'm insecure a lot, but really, if the woman moved to Antarctica, it wouldn't be far enough away!!
Friend

Lake Bluff, IL

#2 Aug 26, 2012
Nancy - you need to seriously get your life in order before your husband get's tired of all this drama. Your insecurities are going to blow your marriage if you don't. The truth is kiddo if your husband wanted to be with his ex -- he wouldn't be with you, he'd be with her. Trust your husband and tell him how you feel, maybe he can get this meddling woman to stop.Next time she calls you go with him, after all the child is your step child and you should be concerned as well.
Nancy wrote:
I don't know if I'm looking for advice, sympathy, or just wanting to vent, but I am EXTREMELY jealous of my husband's ex-wife. I am the same age as she is, but she always looks tired and run down. I work out and try to look my best. She and I do the same thing for a living, although she makes more money. She is dishonest in her business dealings, though, so after her monthly restitution payment, it works out to about the same amount of money. I am every bit as intellegent as she is. She cheated on my husband and then the guy she has been shacked up with for 4 years cheated on her, so she's single again. Her and my husband have equal custody of a minor child and have an adult child together as well. The ex calls too much, talks too long, 2 times has called my husband away from the house to discuss the minor child in private. The 2nd time was bogus, so my husband said no more. My husband and I have a nice large home, the ex wife rents a house. I know she'd love to move me out and take my home. If she got the chance, I'm sure she'd sleep with my husband. He wouln't sleep with her anymore even before he and I became an item. I guess I can't stand it that they have kids together and there's no bond like it. My husband assures me that even if I DIED, he wouldn't want her back because she is a selfish and deceitful person. I just wish I could accept that. As it is, I can't stand the sight of her!!! I don't want her anywhere near me, my husband, or my home. I wonder if I am the only woman that feels this way. I wonder if my ex-husband's wife feels this way. Maybe I'm just crazy insecure. I know I'm insecure a lot, but really, if the woman moved to Antarctica, it wouldn't be far enough away!!

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