Men Who Want Needy Women
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I Wonder

Murphy, NC

#1 Jun 9, 2010
What is it about a independent woman that scares men off?

Why do men seek out needy women, who feel they need a man to complete them? Then these same men complain because the women are so clingy and demanding.

Do men require needy women to validate them as providers and as a man?
hmmm

Saint Marys, GA

#2 Jun 9, 2010
I Wonder wrote:
What is it about a independent woman that scares men off?
Why do men seek out needy women, who feel they need a man to complete them? Then these same men complain because the women are so clingy and demanding.
Do men require needy women to validate them as providers and as a man?
Probably, the problem is, now a days, most of them can't even provide for themselves, let alone a woman!
I Wonder

Murphy, NC

#3 Jun 9, 2010
Gee, not slamming anyone here so I guess it's not a worthy subject.
Thanks hhmmm for the positive input.
Ga Peach

AOL

#4 Jun 9, 2010
For every man who needs that type of woman there is a woman who wants some down and out loser needy man. So, what is the difference?
A lot of men like independent woman. If you are finding men who prefer a needy woman, then keep looking.
Men who like needy women need their egos fed and need to hear how wonderful they are, especially in the sack - when they aren't!
Look at all the pathetic divorced men and women who don't take time to figure out why their marriage went sour before they are looking for someone else. Usually, looking someone just like the person they divorced or are divorcing.
Fedup

Lehigh Acres, FL

#5 Jun 9, 2010
I am really sick of this independant woman crapp. If you nasty ass women don't want a man to take care of you, go the gay way out and you be the man then, see how damn easy is with all the independant lesbian butch women up your ass and taking all the jobs and stopping on the rest of your dignity and honor. Just keep Bitchin, that will get you a man for sure.
Truthis

Dawsonville, GA

#6 Jun 10, 2010
Fedup wrote:
I am really sick of this independant woman crapp. If you nasty ass women don't want a man to take care of you, go the gay way out and you be the man then, see how damn easy is with all the independant lesbian butch women up your ass and taking all the jobs and stopping on the rest of your dignity and honor. Just keep Bitchin, that will get you a man for sure.
You probably have women falling all over you with this kind of charm.
independent lady

Toccoa, GA

#7 Jun 10, 2010
Fedup wrote:
I am really sick of this independant woman crapp. If you nasty ass women don't want a man to take care of you, go the gay way out and you be the man then, see how damn easy is with all the independant lesbian butch women up your ass and taking all the jobs and stopping on the rest of your dignity and honor. Just keep Bitchin, that will get you a man for sure.
I can take care of myself financially and I am not lesbian, but I respect people's rights to be who they are. You need help with your anger. Life is too short to hate. Women need to be able to support and care for themselves, lesbian or straight.
Ga Peach

AOL

#8 Jun 10, 2010
Fedup wrote:
I am really sick of this independant woman crapp. If you nasty ass women don't want a man to take care of you, go the gay way out and you be the man then, see how damn easy is with all the independant lesbian butch women up your ass and taking all the jobs and stopping on the rest of your dignity and honor. Just keep Bitchin, that will get you a man for sure.
There are a lot of great men in the world who like independent women. Men who are not all caught up in their ego.
When someone takes "care of you" then a woman is beholdin' and the man expects a woman to do things his way.
Buddy, you are one of them.
A relationship should be 50/50.
My daddy took care of me when I was young - I don't need a man taking care of me in my adult years. I want a "partnership" not another daddy!
I Wonder

Murphy, NC

#9 Jun 10, 2010
Thanks Peach, I like your opinion on my question. Very good reply.

FedUp, lol you made me laugh. Thanks.

“Skin a Floridian”

Since: Aug 09

Hiawassee, GA

#10 Jun 10, 2010
Fedup wrote:
I am really sick of this independant woman crapp. If you nasty ass women don't want a man to take care of you, go the gay way out and you be the man then, see how damn easy is with all the independant lesbian butch women up your ass and taking all the jobs and stopping on the rest of your dignity and honor. Just keep Bitchin, that will get you a man for sure.
Yore Floridian roots are showing.

“Skin a Floridian”

Since: Aug 09

Hiawassee, GA

#11 Jun 10, 2010
Ga Peach wrote:
<quoted text>
There are a lot of great men in the world who like independent women. Men who are not all caught up in their ego.
When someone takes "care of you" then a woman is beholdin' and the man expects a woman to do things his way.
Buddy, you are one of them.
A relationship should be 50/50.
My daddy took care of me when I was young - I don't need a man taking care of me in my adult years. I want a "partnership" not another daddy!
I believe that a womans place is in the home, barefooted and Pregnant.
boodoodle

United States

#12 Jun 10, 2010
Slowpok wrote:
<quoted text>I believe that a womans place is in the home, barefooted and Pregnant.
Demented old fart !!!!

“Skin a Floridian”

Since: Aug 09

Hiawassee, GA

#13 Jun 10, 2010
Do Not give Boodoodle a Gun..
Ga Peach

AOL

#14 Jun 10, 2010
Slowpok wrote:
<quoted text>I believe that a womans place is in the home, barefooted and Pregnant.
Oh, Slowman, I didn't expect much more from you!!!
Ha! Ha! You are a character.
I Wonder

Murphy, NC

#15 Jun 10, 2010
Thanks Independent.

I too, support myself and my child with a job and make it on my own. That seems to intimidate men.

I do not want to be one of those women who can't go a day in her life without a man to make it complete. A companionship/partnership would be nice. I will never be "beholden" to one.

It seems that they need me, to be needy, to validate them as a man.

Nope no lesbian here.

I have found that younger guys, prefer an independent woman. Someone who isn't after them to trap them into marriage with pregnancy, looking for a home and someone to support them.
One fine lady

Jefferson, GA

#16 Jun 10, 2010
Sick of all the dang hillbilly inbreeds. there is no man to date in this town of any quality. they are all short, fat, bald and toothless. why even bother to try to find a man in this town, oh and did I say they are illiterate and have to have their family handle their affairs. nasty bunch.
The Truth

Athens, GA

#17 Jun 10, 2010
I Wonder wrote:
What is it about a independent woman that scares men off?
Why do men seek out needy women, who feel they need a man to complete them? Then these same men complain because the women are so clingy and demanding.
Do men require needy women to validate them as providers and as a man?
Just as there are all types of women, there are also all types of men in the world.

Some men avoid strong independent women because they aren't very ambitious themselves. Men generally want to impress the women they date, and it's just plain easier to impress a woman that doesn't expect very much.

Other men see this type of woman as self-centered. They feel she is so wrapped up in her accomplishments, and her career, and her financial success that there is simply no room for her to care about anyone but herself.

Still other men want a woman they can dominate and manipulate. They can do what they want and bully her to do what they want, so they avoid smart strong women.

There's lots of other reasons, I'm sure. The important thing about a relationship isn't finding the right person, it's being the right person.
Ga Cougar

AOL

#18 Jun 10, 2010
One fine lady wrote:
Sick of all the dang hillbilly inbreeds. there is no man to date in this town of any quality. they are all short, fat, bald and toothless. why even bother to try to find a man in this town, oh and did I say they are illiterate and have to have their family handle their affairs. nasty bunch.
Now, you sound like a fool. You screen name should be: "One angry lady." There are so many nice men in the mountain towns, including Blairsville.

"I have found that younger guys, prefer an independent woman. Someone who isn't after them to trap them into marriage with pregnancy, looking for a home and someone to support them."

Absolutely. I like men a little younger. They aren't "needy."
Being an older, confident, and independent woman, I have no need to know where a man is 24/7, I don't need the have them around all the time, or find a need to "check up on them."
Besides there is something good about the term "arm candy."
Ga Peach

AOL

#19 Jun 10, 2010
Ladies, it is refreshing to have a conversation that doesn't involve "Florida people vs. others," politics, or complaining about the police, schools, or something else petty.

It is nice to read the comments from smart women.
Raising children alone, going to school, balancing a career, and a social life isn't easy, but it is worth it in the long run.

I love the commerical on TV, "When I grow up..."
The woman in her 60s is decorating the beautiful wedding cake and says, "When I grow up, I want to fall in love again." Me, too, but with the right person, not just a warm body.

“Skin a Floridian”

Since: Aug 09

Hiawassee, GA

#20 Jun 10, 2010
When I grow up I want to be a Hillbilly.

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