KrAzYk44

Hephzibah, GA

#1 Jul 13, 2013
Ok,I'd like to start with the fact I am well aware that by making a public post I leave myself open for sarcastic replies n personal opinions. I'm asking that each of you who leave a suggestion to please be kind n helpful not rude n cruel. Now I have a friend who has been drug free n sober for over 4yrs n up until recently she thought her husband was to. It started with him being caught n small lies, staying out all night n missing money n has now progressed to very abusive behavior. When caught n confronted about his "problem" he made threats of planting "evidence" as he calls it around the home n inside her vehicle without her knowing where n if she made one move to expose him n his activities he would make sure she went down with him. Since my friend has had trouble with the law before even tho she's clean now she is scared that he will make good on his threat n with 2 children n 3 grandchildren she's not sure she wants to take that risk. I have know clue as to what her options are so I'm asking for some suggestions on how she should proceed without putting the family at risk? Any n all suggestions(serious only) would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
Freckle on Butt

Commerce, GA

#2 Jul 13, 2013
The only solution is to leave him unless she likes that type of prison or being a hostage life. Who knows if she could survive a little longer, but don't you feel a mature solution would be keeping the two children and 3 grandchildren safe? Most people make good on their threats.
Larry

Dawsonville, GA

#3 Jul 13, 2013
Leave his Butt.
Tell Mer

Dawsonville, GA

#4 Jul 14, 2013
Have you left the jerk?
Blairsville Resident

Chagrin Falls, OH

#5 Jul 14, 2013
The best advice I can give is have her go talk to Mack Mason and tell him everything hat is going on. HE WILL help her.
Big momma

Dawsonville, GA

#6 Jul 14, 2013
Mac is the best!!

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#7 Jul 16, 2013
Hmm.. I would leave him but before this she needs to do some planning before she just leaves. 1.talk to the sheriff. 2.if she has some money get a lawyer. 3.hide a tape player and tape the SOB making his threats.(there are recorder that are small and voice turn on).
KrAzYk44

United States

#8 Jul 17, 2013
Cheri Lee wrote:
Hmm.. I would leave him but before this she needs to do some planning before she just leaves. 1.talk to the sheriff. 2.if she has some money get a lawyer. 3.hide a tape player and tape the SOB making his threats.(there are recorder that are small and voice turn on).
Would a recorded msg on her phone be enough? If she turned it in would it be allowed as evidence? I guess what I'm asking is if she had such a recording and she turned it over to the law would it be enough to press charges and keep her safe afterwards?
Leave

Tucker, GA

#9 Jul 18, 2013
Leave his butt. Period.
foodie

Jefferson, GA

#10 Jul 18, 2013
Trailer trash and more family drama. Druggies never learn neither do co-dependent people.
KrAzYk44

United States

#11 Jul 18, 2013
foodie wrote:
Trailer trash and more family drama. Druggies never learn neither do co-dependent people.
Let me explain something to you "foodie" although not one person involved in this situation lives in a" trailer park" it shouldn't matter if she lived in a tent, box or in a car it doesn't give you or anyone else the right to insult her or anyone else based on the location of where they might/might not live. Obviously you're not a fan of scripture if you were then you would know that only God has the authority in which to pass judgment upon us. It is our duty as Christians to offer help, advice and prayer for those we don't understand and for those who seek our help, not degrade, insult or judge them based on what you believe is right or wrong. That being said,I pray that God will find a way to open your eyes and your heart so that you may understand how even a few thoughtless comments have the power to hurt and discourage others who seek help for fear of being judged by people who believes themselves to be better than anyone else.
foodie

Cleveland, GA

#14 Jul 19, 2013
KrAzYk44 wrote:
<quoted text> Let me explain something to you "foodie" although not one person involved in this situation lives in a" trailer park" it shouldn't matter if she lived in a tent, box or in a car it doesn't give you or anyone else the right to insult her or anyone else based on the location of where they might/might not live. Obviously you're not a fan of scripture if you were then you would know that only God has the authority in which to pass judgment upon us. It is our duty as Christians to offer help, advice and prayer for those we don't understand and for those who seek our help, not degrade, insult or judge them based on what you believe is right or wrong. That being said,I pray that God will find a way to open your eyes and your heart so that you may understand how even a few thoughtless comments have the power to hurt and discourage others who seek help for fear of being judged by people who believes themselves to be better than anyone else.
Why put your personal business on topix.
Are you the same idiot who posted pages and pages of your domestic problems?
Why don't you get a friend you can talk to?
Maybe seek counseling?
Talk to your minister or pastor; altho, I doubt you attend church eventho you chatter about being Christian.
KrAzYk44

United States

#15 Jul 19, 2013
foodie wrote:
<quoted text>
Why put your personal business on topix.
Are you the same idiot who posted pages and pages of your domestic problems?
Why don't you get a friend you can talk to?
Maybe seek counseling?
Talk to your minister or pastor; altho, I doubt you attend church eventho you chatter about being Christian.
Hmmm..well this happens to be the first time I've ever posted. I'm not even married so obviously it's not my personal business. I do wonder though on why you feel the need to comment on a post that for whatever reason offends you? I wasn't aware that you were in charge of who and what was posted on this site. As far as attending or not attending church once again you have deemed yourself and your opinions worthy of passing judgment. So if my post offends you to the point you find it necessary to leave hateful comments then I suggest you find articles that are better suited to your level of reading and thinking. You have a great evening.
foodie

Cleveland, GA

#16 Jul 19, 2013
Yep, you are KrAzY and your buttons get pushed easily. Move on, little girl, and find a real friend to talk to.
KrAzYk44

United States

#17 Jul 19, 2013
foodie wrote:
Yep, you are KrAzY and your buttons get pushed easily. Move on, little girl, and find a real friend to talk to.
lol..thank you for permission to move on from my own post. You have a good un now ya hear ;-)

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