younger men and older women
harveymcgee

San Diego, CA

#447 Feb 20, 2013
maturity is important,i know people in an older age bracket that act like teenagers,it depends on the person and i have mostly dated older women but for me it wasnt the age it was the fact that the treated me the way they wanted to be treated and i will always respect women for that but most older women look at my age as the determining factor without even getting to know me as a person,its almost an instant strike against me for being in my late thirtys,im not jailbait anymore.
SingleMingle43

Fullerton, CA

#449 Feb 20, 2013
What about older women seeking younger men.I am 43.I do not and will not ever date anyone older then myself.
verygreeneyez

Seattle, WA

#450 Feb 20, 2013
LMAO ~ when I say that I get a public beheading!!!!!! But I totally agree.
Angelic Witch

San Diego, CA

#451 Feb 21, 2013
age is just a number....and if two people are totally happy, then who gives a rats ass about age? I've dated older and younger (20 years in each direction) and the younger ones seem to have more class and manners...the older ones think that they're gods gift to women

ok...not all men are like that...just the ones i've had the misfortune to deal with
Monarch Ultra

Blacksburg, VA

#452 Feb 21, 2013
Angelic Witch wrote:
age is just a number....and if two people are totally happy, then who gives a rats ass about age? I've dated older and younger (20 years in each direction) and the younger ones seem to have more class and manners...the older ones think that they're gods gift to women
ok...not all men are like that...just the ones i've had the misfortune to deal with
II can't imagine it to be true, my dear but if so, not always, I assure you.

Angelic Witch is an interesting name. Thoughts?
yup

Cambridge, MA

#453 Feb 22, 2013
Monarch Ultra wrote:
<quoted text>
II can't imagine it to be true, my dear but if so, not always, I assure you.
Angelic Witch is an interesting name. Thoughts?
corey smith has a small wee wee and his has bumps on it. looks like shaggy also.
Waist of time

Powell, TN

#455 Feb 23, 2013
I had sex with a younger guy and it was a waste of time. Most boring sex i have ever had. Not to mention he was very small. I was in a relationship for many years and he was the only other peraon I have been with. I just hope this isnt what i have to look forward to. I thought him being younger the sex would be great. Not at all. He was clueless. And didnt last long either. Poor boy needs help. But not by me i would never waste time taking my clothes off for him again!
Charlie Shift

Wise, VA

#456 Mar 2, 2013
Apparently 29-year-olds think I'm pretty darned hot! Way hotter than the men my age think I am anyway. Some are wanting sex and say so. Others are probably trying to see what'll happen if..... And others, just like the regular cross-section of men, well, I don't know what they want.

I've made a couple of friends with the younger fellas. They're men, too, and are usually pretty thoughtful and sweet.
Better Half

Wise, VA

#457 Mar 3, 2013
OK, this is my own serious perspective for MYSELF, so start yawning now and don't get all bent out of shape for how I live.
I'm 53 and don't look it at all.
I get frequent flirts from young ladies in their 20s, early 30s, and even on occasion some 18 and 19 year olds. While it is a bit flattering, I have to think somebody wants to get married long enough to aquire half of what I have if they divorce me. So for self preservation, I don't even give them a second thought, no matter how beautiful they might be.
I'm a real fun person to be around as I love to make people laugh and smile, but when it comes to the age of a woman I would go out with I consider ones that are maybe 5 years younger and about 3 to 4 years older. These are not hard and fast figures because we're all individuals. There are some people who look older in their 40s than some of those in their early 60s.
molsonhockey

Wise, VA

#459 Mar 5, 2013
I'm a younger that just happens to be attracted to older women. I find them more physically attractive, they know what they want and aren't into the head games that girls my age seem to thrive off.
Enjoyslife_36

Wise, VA

#460 Mar 5, 2013
I have no problem with dating younger guys, as long as the age isn't more than 10 years younger. I am 40 so for me, the guy could not be younger than 30.I just want a nice guy close to my age Just my opinion.
Matanza

Wise, VA

#461 Mar 5, 2013
I love younger men.....girl....enjoy it...
HirsutePamMuscle CarChick

Wise, VA

#462 Mar 5, 2013
I'm attracted to younger men physically. I've always dated guys a few years younger than me but to me, age is just a number. I don't look my age, don't act my age and prefer the company of younger men.

My last boyfriend was 3 years younger and my soon-to-be boyfriend is 5 years younger. He looks 10 years younger than he is, so I feel extremely naughty
nigelwright

Wise, VA

#463 Mar 5, 2013
So men want sex. Shock horror ! Tell me something i dont know !
zette2254

Wise, VA

#464 Mar 5, 2013
I love younger men and have had great relationships with some as much as 20 years younger than me. At first, I was somewhat taken aback by what I presumed was just a bid to get laid, but what I found was that many just wanted to talk...about everything under the sun, not just sex. I've been consulted on career decisions, new girlfriends, family problems, lifestyle choices and what makes a good relationship work. But I have also been asked about some sexual things that these guys would be afraid to talk to someone their own age about because they might appear too kinky. It still baffles me but there are a lot of younger men who really want to be with someone older.

Although I have looked hard at these relationships, these guys are not weird or "momma's boys". Most are far more mature than their biological age and they just can't handle women their own age as they find them too shallow, too uptight and often far more interested in their paycheque than in them. They like mature women who seem to them to be more accepting of them as a person. These women already have their own stuff and they don't need to have him shower them with gifts although many do as there is no pressure to do so.

These are guys who don't want to spend their time hanging out in clubs looking for someone their own age. Many have a definite idea of where they want to go in life and they are looking for someone who understands that they would rather go to a museum or a play than get s**tfaced every weekend. Many I have talked to have no interest in procreation and it's hard to get trapped by someone who either already has kids or has no interest in having any, given her age.

Everyone is different and that is what makes life so interesting. Just because their interests are different than yours does not make them weird, strange or anything like it. None of these people are trying to convert you to their way of thinking, nor do they expect to have you trying to convert them either. I say...live and let live.
Acting Out

Wise, VA

#465 Mar 5, 2013
I think it is just that we exude a confidence now .. a sexiness as we mature and society is allowing us to both feel that way and for it to be recognized and accepted by younger men. I think there is also for younger guys an ego boost if he can "please" an older woman as she is experienced and knows what she likes.
mitebme4

Wise, VA

#466 Mar 6, 2013
I had a LTR with a man 15 years younger.Feel flattered
islgurl

Wise, VA

#467 Mar 7, 2013
Funny...in that most of my close friends are younger than I am. I have been in a relationship with a man a few years older, and in a relationship with one way younger than I. Maybe I am immature for my age..????

Always thought compatibility was more about the mind and body than actual chronology..but what do I know? Depends on the person and circumstances.

Oddly enough, since I started back in the "dating world" MOST of the men who have contacted me have been younger and some MUCH younger.

It sometimes seems the men closer to my age seem to be more interested in the younger women.Well..I enjoy being challenged, and like people who enjoy life and themselves..their age is not that important.

(Well...OK...younger than my sons might have to be just friends first..hehheh!) Least have to know who Aretha is...ya know?
nooneoutthere

Wise, VA

#468 Mar 8, 2013
Hey..I get hit on by younger guys all the time! Like you im very flattered but hey..ive got clothes in my wardrobe older than some of em! lol
Master Criminal

Wise, VA

#469 Mar 9, 2013
I am bombarded with women older than me.

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