Amanda

Natural Bridge, VA

#427 Mar 4, 2013
First of all, no one is sticking their nose in anyone's business...they are friends so naturally she's going to know what's going on. The person never said anything about not 'having her back' so why assume that? They were just asking for advice but it seems that everyone wants to be mad at the messenger instead of giving advice. This happens all the time and it puts friends of the married couple in a tough position. On one hand you don't want to get involved but on the other, wrong is wrong no matter how you look at it. You can twist it all you want but at the end of the day, it's not right to be unfaithful. If only there was some way of letting her husband know without you having to be the bad guy. Not really sure what I would do in this situation but with the wife being your friend, I would say your loyalty is to her. Tough situation altogether so good luck with it.
iridescent fall

Wise, VA

#428 Mar 4, 2013
Really... You people make me sick. Look, your "friend" (and knowing what you do, calling her that would be an injustice to your true friends) is using someone who you perceive to be a good man. What does that say about your friendship? The moment she gets tired of you, what do you suppose she'll do? Throw you away. Tell him. If not for the sake of your conscious, then tell him because he has a right to know. These assholes here SUPPORT her unfaithfulness. Do you?
Pam

Wise, VA

#429 Mar 5, 2013
Well said tonya
counterclock

Wise, VA

#430 Mar 5, 2013
iridescent fall wrote:
Really... You people make me sick. Look, your "friend" (and knowing what you do, calling her that would be an injustice to your true friends) is using someone who you perceive to be a good man. What does that say about your friendship? The moment she gets tired of you, what do you suppose she'll do? Throw you away. Tell him. If not for the sake of your conscious, then tell him because he has a right to know. These assholes here SUPPORT her unfaithfulness. Do you?
I agree with you 100%. Well said.
that1guy

Wise, VA

#431 Mar 5, 2013
How about talk to your friend about this. Geez. If she is your friend. Explain that your not comfortable with this and she shouldn't be either. But I would not be the messenger. Let her do it.
cheated

Wise, VA

#432 Mar 5, 2013
All of these people on here basically saying its ok to cheat, stay out of there business. Nobody wins. everybody wants to have something over on somebody. I've been cheated on before and it would have been better to just know and call it a day then to have to find out for myself and causing irreversible damages.
larry flynt

Wise, VA

#433 Mar 5, 2013
do not do not do not tell her it will end up biting you in the butt good possibility that if you did tell her they will still stay together then you will have alot of drama trust me don't say anything let her find out on her own.
that is one thing that you need to stay away from it will turn on you in the end.
cheated

Wise, VA

#434 Mar 5, 2013
What part of "everybody loses" do people not understand? If she wanted to stay with him, she wouldn't be in somebody else's bed. People are so caught up with themselves that they don't care about hurting the other person. That's what's wrong with society today, me, me, me!!!!!!!!!
Really

Wise, VA

#435 Mar 5, 2013
b word wrote:
<quoted text>
i would hate to have a friend like you! you are obviously a bitch. stay out of THEIR business. not only are you a terrible friend but learn the difference between their and there. i'm not a grammar or spelling freak but really that's an easy one to know.
I'd hate to have a friend like you! Please tell him. It might get some drama ur way but he will thank u later. Don't listen to this idiot!
bull

Wise, VA

#436 Mar 5, 2013
What are the initials of your friends name. May already be known.
Well

Wise, VA

#437 Mar 5, 2013
Tonya wrote:
<quoted text>
Well you started with "my friend".. So im wondering why you would feel the need to stick your nose with it doesn't belong.. If she was your friend seems like you'd have her back.. Im just saying
well I would talk with my friend about the situation. Tell her your thoughts on it and depending on her responses you need to decied if you want a friend like that or if you can live with her decision. Telling him will end your friendship anyways.
iridescent fall

Wise, VA

#438 Mar 5, 2013
And for the record... Topix is the last place I'd go for advice (on ANYTHING). Most of these people a fucking morons. They don't care about you, or your problems. They'll tell you what will cause you the most trouble and the. They'll sit back in their comfy blanket of anonymity and laugh at you. Trust me... Anywhere but here for advice.
All Night Long

Wise, VA

#439 Mar 5, 2013
Give him a shot of your coochie,even things out.
Whoppy

Wise, VA

#440 Mar 6, 2013
I just bet that are so many people thinking to themselves,"Is she writing about me?"
LOL
sparkler

Wise, VA

#441 Mar 7, 2013
I have told on a cheater on 2 separate occasions....needless to say it didn't end well and I lost good friends and gained more problems! Take it from someone that knows, JUST STAY OUT OF IT!
I say I say

Wise, VA

#442 Mar 8, 2013
You could probably tell him. Most won't believe you anyhow even if you shove proof in their face cause they know they can't get anyone else.
who

Wise, VA

#443 Mar 9, 2013
Just tell us who
Greg

Wise, VA

#444 Mar 10, 2013
He's got tatts well one if them your talking about anyway
Wee-Wee2

Wise, VA

#445 Mar 10, 2013
Tell wrote:
My friend is cheating on her husband. Her husband is good to her. She is cheating on him with a friend of there's. She acts as if nothing is wrong. Should I tell.
Seems like you might be more into her husband than into your friend. Do what feels right....but don't call her a friend when she obviously isn't a friend.(Friends don't question ratting out other friends.)
larry flynt

Wise, VA

#446 Mar 11, 2013
sparkler wrote:
I have told on a cheater on 2 separate occasions....needless to say it didn't end well and I lost good friends and gained more problems! Take it from someone that knows, JUST STAY OUT OF IT!
thank you exactly

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