bullies on bikes at bullet park

bullies on bikes at bullet park

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concerned

United States

#1 Aug 22, 2012
a bunch of boys riding bicycles at bullet park near the tennis courts told my daughters that they couldn't ride there and they needed to leave because they had make the trails there. Is this area private land??? Anyone have any advise for me on the best way to handle this???
concerned

United States

#2 Aug 22, 2012
Opps "made the trails" correction.
stupidity

Wise, VA

#3 Aug 22, 2012
This little backwoods town is full of people who think they have sole rights to everything. One really heavy girl told my daughter that she couldn't sit in a rest in the school cafeteria. This girl's grandmother was a teacher and is rearing her. I teach my daughter manners, but this place is overrun with lack of parenting, no morals, rednecks and just plain ignorance. Some of these parents may have educations, but it didn't overcome their ignorance or their parenting. I am so feed up that I told my daughter not to move, but to tell that fat girl to get up andmove herself.She could usethe exercise and less food. I would go to town hall and see if anyone there can help. I hateto be as ignorant as these people but that must be all they understand. One girl called my daughter a freak because she wears Doc Marten's. This girls mother is the same ignorant type. This motherhas female baldness.It runs in their family. I toldmy daughter to tell this girl that she would be a freak when she was bald like hermother. One hares to act this way, but their ignorance has gone on for years. Let them see how it feels, especially the truth and it may click that they are pretty low on the society level of manners and more.
concerned

United States

#4 Aug 23, 2012
Tell your daughter that doc Martin's rock. Ya some people can just be plain mean and the only way to deal with them is to be mean back. We must all demand to be respected but also we must be respectful.
stupidity

Wise, VA

#5 Aug 23, 2012
concerned wrote:
Tell your daughter that doc Martin's rock. Ya some people can just be plain mean and the only way to deal with them is tTo be mean back. We must all demand to be respected but also we must be respectful.
Thank you! I don't let her read this, but I will let her read yours. She is respectful and she never cares what others wear or do. She is "to each his Own ", but she may have togive a few insults back to stop these bullies. She id not use to being mean, but she has been bullied since starting public school. It just seems so much easier to be nice than to act ignorant and to show how badly your parents are at parenting. THANKS
You are a joke

East Stone Gap, VA

#7 Aug 23, 2012
stupidity wrote:
This little backwoods town is full of people who think they have sole rights to everything. One really heavy girl told my daughter that she couldn't sit in a rest in the school cafeteria. This girl's grandmother was a teacher and is rearing her. I teach my daughter manners, but this place is overrun with lack of parenting, no morals, rednecks and just plain ignorance. Some of these parents may have educations, but it didn't overcome their ignorance or their parenting. I am so feed up that I told my daughter not to move, but to tell that fat girl to get up andmove herself.She could usethe exercise and less food. I would go to town hall and see if anyone there can help. I hateto be as ignorant as these people but that must be all they understand. One girl called my daughter a freak because she wears Doc Marten's. This girls mother is the same ignorant type. This motherhas female baldness.It runs in their family. I toldmy daughter to tell this girl that she would be a freak when she was bald like hermother. One hares to act this way, but their ignorance has gone on for years. Let them see how it feels, especially the truth and it may click that they are pretty low on the society level of manners and more.
I have a 16 year old and she was raised here is a junior taking college courses this year and next. You have some nerve calling someone ignorant when you are sending your kid back to school to call the girl names put her down and make fun of something health related (the hair). You don't think that is ignorant. I tell my daughter don't start but don't take it. It takes much more class and intellect to ignore someone than it does to get into stupid childish name calling and belittling someone. You must have been bullied when you were in school to give her such advise. Why not tell her to continue to eat her lunch and ignore the girl would this person physically move your daughter ? I doubt it. Most bullies back down when faced off. You don't stop the stupidity and bullying by telling your kid to turn right back around and do the same thing. So next time you call a community of people ignorant maybe you should take a look at your own behavior.
Bravo

United States

#8 Aug 23, 2012
I was thinking the same thing! Well said!
You are a joke

East Stone Gap, VA

#9 Aug 23, 2012
Bravo wrote:
I was thinking the same thing! Well said!
Thank you. It really angers me when someone not even raised in this community gets on here and upholds bullying by turning around and telling their child to be a bully.Then says people here in this stpuid small town are ignorant. We didn't make her move here and raise her kid here You raise your kids to give respect to get it. Not to demand just because they are not"fat" or "bald". Mom there obviously needs a little education herself. Bullying leads to dangerous consequences that she obviously hasn't considered. The girl who is overweight and apparently suffering from some inherited condition bullies most likely as a defense because of being picked on the majority of her life. Now how would Mom there feel if that child took her own life because she told her daughter to go make fun of her not stand up for herself and simply ignore the girl or say no I'm not moving. Is the other childs mental well being not just as important as her kids or mine. I would NEVER tolerate my daughter making fun of someone but guess what she's very intelligent and knows that is wrong and guess what else she was born and bred right here in this "little stupid town with all it's ignorant people". Ridiculous utterly ridiculous. Most likely though she is raising her child how she was raised. Can't fault her for that I guess "not small towns with non ignorant people can still produce citizens who continue that awful cycle and pass it on to their kids.
Granny

Christiansburg, VA

#10 Aug 23, 2012
If I am not mistaken,Concerned was asking for advice on what to do about a situation at the park not school!!

Concerned...my advice would be to call Town Hall and let them know what is happening and get some info about that area (what is private and what isn't).
Some one there should be able to help you. Also if you go back to the park and it happens again...get descriptions of the boys and contact the Police. I hope this helps and also that you and your daughters are able to go to the park and enjoy your time there.
stupidity

Wise, VA

#11 Aug 24, 2012
You are a joke wrote:
<quoted text>
I have a 16 year old and she was raised here is a junior taking college courses this year and next. You have some nerve calling someone ignorant when you are sending your kid back to school to call the girl names put her down and make fun of something health related (the hair). You don't think that is ignorant. I tell my daughter don't start but don't take it. It takes much more class and intellect to ignore someone than it does to get into stupid childish name calling and belittling someone. You must have been bullied when you were in school to give her such advise. Why not tell her to continue to eat her lunch and ignore the girl would this person physically move your daughter ? I doubt it. Most bullies back down when faced off. You don't stop the stupidity and bullying by telling your kid to turn right back around and do the same thing. So next time you call a community of people ignorant maybe you should take a look at your own behavior.
Your ignorance is obvious. You raise pigs, goats and you rear children. I guess my child is suppose to take being bullied an physically hurt?Enough is enough! Sometimes these bullies need what they give. I think they make shut up. I was reared in a prominent family attended etiquette classes and practiced in our home. Let one degrade yours, physically hurt them, ruin their clothes and you worry about that fat kid and the genetic baldness. It is not a disease. Womencanbald just as men. These peopleare suppose to be educated, one parenting medical field and one a teacher. My education is up there with theirs and definitely from a prestigious school. I worry about the damage done to my child. These bully parents have to worry about their bullies. After years of ignoring, asking to stop etc. I have decided the families need to face and feel what my child goes through. You go console the bullies. You know nothing of my family and the exucations my other children have accomplished. People have been reared to bully. It is time it stops. I am tired of doctorbills paid because by bullies who pick on children with manners. Go to the schools here and see how many children with manners you see. Doctors,mostly from out of this area and some from here, are tired of having to treat quality children while these backwood, ill reared children and their families thrive on this ignorance. Maybe you identify with this behavior. I don't. It seems so accepted here. I hear: kids "goats " will be kids. I think not. Ignorance is ignorance and I don't see a cure for these people in sight. Glad your child is achieving. I hope you know the public schools only teach a text not critical thinking. MECC is good to learn a skill, but I hope you have bigger goals for your child than a college degree from local facilities. You go worry about the bullies reared pathetically in this area. Maybe you should go back to school to help them. You are just so knowledgeable in the matter
Call the Police

Natural Bridge, VA

#12 Aug 24, 2012
@concerned - the next time your kids are at the park and this young GANG of bullies tells them they own the trail and your kids can't ride, there, have them call the cops because they are being threatened and bullied. If your kids don't have a cell phone, get them one so they can call from the park and tell the police they are being threatened by a GANG of boys that is threatening them. I am certain the police can explain to the delinquents that the park and trail are public, open spaces and that it is a crime to threaten others.

This is also my advice at school. There is a resource officer for a reason, and it is ILLEGAL to threaten and bully people. Have them arrested. My other advice to the kid being bullied at school would be for the parent of the bullied kid to call the parent of the kid that's doing the bullying and explain that any further incidents will result in a call being made to social services where the parent can explain to social services why they are abusing and neglecting their child by encouraging them to be a bully...
you are a joke

East Stone Gap, VA

#13 Aug 24, 2012
stupidity wrote:
<quoted text>Your ignorance is obvious. You raise pigs, goats and you rear children. I guess my child is suppose to take being bullied an physically hurt?Enough is enough! Sometimes these bullies need what they give. I think they make shut up. I was reared in a prominent family attended etiquette classes and practiced in our home. Let one degrade yours, physically hurt them, ruin their clothes and you worry about that fat kid and the genetic baldness. It is not a disease. Womencanbald just as men. These peopleare suppose to be educated, one parenting medical field and one a teacher. My education is up there with theirs and definitely from a prestigious school. I worry about the damage done to my child. These bully parents have to worry about their bullies. After years of ignoring, asking to stop etc. I have decided the families need to face and feel what my child goes through. You go console the bullies. You know nothing of my family and the exucations my other children have accomplished. People have been reared to bully. It is time it stops. I am tired of doctorbills paid because by bullies who pick on children with manners. Go to the schools here and see how many children with manners you see. Doctors,mostly from out of this area and some from here, are tired of having to treat quality children while these backwood, ill reared children and their families thrive on this ignorance. Maybe you identify with this behavior. I don't. It seems so accepted here. I hear: kids "goats " will be kids. I think not. Ignorance is ignorance and I don't see a cure for these people in sight. Glad your child is achieving. I hope you know the public schools only teach a text not critical thinking. MECC is good to learn a skill, but I hope you have bigger goals for your child than a college degree from local facilities. You go worry about the bullies reared pathetically in this area. Maybe you should go back to school to help them. You are just so knowledgeable in the matter
I am concerned about ALL of the children not just the bully but all of them who are taught to act that wayAs a matter of fact I do not raise goats or pigs but know people who do and they are good people.I raised a beautiful quiet well mannered child. Also for your information I am very educated I know better than tell my child to call someone names and make fun of them and guess what else my mother is in the medical field so am I and do quite well for myself.
You are very defensive and critical why is that I did not demean you or insult you as you are me and this entire community but I guarantee you would not do it to my face when it comes to ADULTS you run your mouth you better hope you have enough azz to back it up. Have you ever even tried to defend your daughter by going to the school and discussing this issue in a contolled enviroment and put a stop to it. You sure haven't mentioned it if you diD. You are a bully and you are ignorant regardless of your parents or your own accomplishments you obviously have not risen above your upbringing or being bullied yourself I am through talking to you unless you want to talk face to face in that case say when and where I guarantee I will be there unlike you I work during the day and will not argue back n forth like 2 kids . Also my daughter is and will continue to succeed she is getting her pre-requisites out of the way while in HS because she is in the top 10 in her class and the highest grade acheiver in science in the entire grade so she can go striaght into her 6 year program.So don't you worry my daughter. You are and will remain a joke to me until you open your eyes and read what you are posting. I'm not getting defensive with you but you know bullied kids kill themselves every day but you encourage your child to do it. Bet she doesn't because she most likey HAS risen above her upbringing and knows it will cause more problems and won't fix a damn thing but make Mommy happy. Psssst.
stupidity

Wise, VA

#14 Aug 24, 2012
You are a joke has zero comprehension. My point about raising is that the correct usuage for a child id rear not raise. There was no negative comment about people who do raise pigs etc. That is the proper word usage for animals not children. Your comprehension and reasoning is severely impaired.To the concerned person about the school officier : I have had him involved and he is very helpful. The administration is also helpful and they have been very helpful also. The problem is that bullies are "street smart" and know when to bully without being caught. Parents have been called by the school and their children haven't "fallen far from the tree ". They think it funny. The only correction they receive is from the school. Schools are not meant to teach children manners and respect. There is a huge lack of parenting in this area. As far as social services, that is funny. When you cannot get them involved in child andelderly abuse, you may as well forget getting them involved in bullies and their parents. Also, I am a lady, not a redneck woman, therefore ; I do not participate in brawls. I do not want my child bullied and if she will retort with an insult, maybe the bullies will see how it feels. My child is a sitting target for bullies and they know that. If shocked into reality, it may stop. You raise your daughter and I'll rear mine. Sometimes, we have to resort to levels some people understand when all else fails. Don't respond because you are not understanding. Your daughter has to have her father's genes.
Whatever

United States

#15 Aug 24, 2012
Stupidity if you are so disappointed in the public school system and all the "ignorant" parents then by all means enroll your precious child in private school or better yet MOVE out of the area. After reading your self righteous post I seriously doubt anyone would miss you!
you are a joke

United States

#16 Aug 24, 2012
stupidity wrote:
<quoted text>Your ignorance is obvious. You raise pigs, goats and you rear children. I guess my child is suppose to take being bullied an physically hurt?Enough is enough! Sometimes these bullies need what they give. I think they make shut up. I was reared in a prominent family attended etiquette classes and practiced in our home. Let one degrade yours, physically hurt them, ruin their clothes and you worry about that fat kid and the genetic baldness. It is not a disease. Womencanbald just as men. These peopleare suppose to be educated, one parenting medical field and one a teacher. My education is up there with theirs and definitely from a prestigious school. I worry about the damage done to my child. These bully parents have to worry about their bullies. After years of ignoring, asking to stop etc. I have decided the families need to face and feel what my child goes through. You go console the bullies. You know nothing of my family and the exucations my other children have accomplished. People have been reared to bully. It is time it stops. I am tired of doctorbills paid because by bullies who pick on children with manners. Go to the schools here and see how many children with manners you see. Doctors,mostly from out of this area and some from here, are tired of having to treat quality children while these backwood, ill reared children and their families thrive on this ignorance. Maybe you identify with this behavior. I don't. It seems so accepted here. I hear: kids "goats " will be kids. I think not. Ignorance is ignorance and I don't see a cure for these people in sight. Glad your child is achieving. I hope you know the public schools only teach a text not critical thinking. MECC is good to learn a skill, but I hope you have bigger goals for your child than a college degree from local facilities. You go worry about the bullies reared pathetically in this area. Maybe you should go back to school to help them. You are just so knowledgeable in the matter
I hate to even respond to this because I could barely read what your prestious bred ass typed because of all the misspellings. You simply said she told ur daughter to move. You never mentioned any type of physical contact at all. By the way did you realize yet you are the mother and until she leaves your home its your job to protect her. You have never mentioned going to the school and speaking to AnYone about this. I mean serioiusly unless you want to talk face to face and act like a "well reared " woman shut up because you need a shirt for your child to wear everyday that' says I'm with stupid. Go [email protected] live somewhere else and live and stop blaming everyone else because you don't protect your child andCLEARLY don't tell her how to like a civilized young lady but rather like your stpid self. Time and place [email protected] stupid bitch and then you can bully me face to face since apparently you like show your azz rather than teach a iitle respect not to mention self respect. Cause she's screwed if she grows up your mentality. I promise I will be there name time place or shut the [email protected] up I. Will show you about how long I will put up with your stupid azz. Yeah I'm promoting violence me on you. Your stupid take away the Y.
you are a joke

United States

#17 Aug 24, 2012
stupidity wrote:
You are a joke has zero comprehension. My point about raising is that the correct usuage for a child id rear not raise. There was no negative comment about people who do raise pigs etc. That is the proper word usage for animals not children. Your comprehension and reasoning is severely impaired.To the concerned person about the school officier : I have had him involved and he is very helpful. The administration is also helpful and they have been very helpful also. The problem is that bullies are "street smart" and know when to bully without being caught. Parents have been called by the school and their children haven't "fallen far from the tree ". They think it funny. The only correction they receive is from the school. Schools are not meant to teach children manners and respect. There is a huge lack of parenting in this area. As far as social services, that is funny. When you cannot get them involved in child andelderly abuse, you may as well forget getting them involved in bullies and their parents. Also, I am a lady, not a redneck woman, therefore ; I do not participate in brawls. I do not want my child bullied and if she will retort with an insult, maybe the bullies will see how it feels. My child is a sitting target for bullies and they know that. If shocked into reality, it may stop. You raise your daughter and I'll rear mine. Sometimes, we have to resort to levels some people understand when all else fails. Don't respond because you are not understanding. Your daughter has to have her father's genes.
I never said as rearing my child your are ignorant funny how all this "attention you paid to issue and tried to rectify it the right way didn't come up until people wondered why you. Didn't try to stop it. Geez you are psycho can't spell could you retype first paragraph made no sense. You called an entire community ignorant because you have problems with this child. Personally I don't think you should blame one persons faults bY insulting the whole town.obviously until called out You Didn't do crap to help your kid accept teach her bad manners like you. Who said brawl if ytou can insult me on a computer why can't it tol my face its nothing about being redneck. You are trying to be a bully to me. Simply do it to my face. You r stupid and ignorant
Wow

Nashville, TN

#18 Aug 24, 2012
Whatever wrote:
Stupidity if you are so disappointed in the public school system and all the "ignorant" parents then by all means enroll your precious child in private school or better yet MOVE out of the area. After reading your self righteous post I seriously doubt anyone would miss you!

I agree. It would seem someone from such a prominent family could afford to live somewhere else. I wonder if it was her rearing or etiquette lessons that taught her it's OK to teach a child to call others names and insult family members in one step. Pot, meet kettle. Let's not talk about other parents who turn a blind eye to bullying when some are actually teaching how to do it.
you are a joke

United States

#19 Aug 25, 2012
Wow wrote:
<quoted text>
I agree. It would seem someone from such a prominent family could afford to live somewhere else. I wonder if it was her rearing or etiquette lessons that taught her it's OK to teach a child to call others names and insult family members in one step. Pot, meet kettle. Let's not talk about other parents who turn a blind eye to bullying when some are actually teaching how to do it.
I don't know if you mean me with that last sentence. I said ignore her because it takes more class and intellect to simply say no and ignore than act the same way however in this case this bully to her kid apparently has been bullied. I want alll of the kids to be kind to one another that [email protected] is crazy. Also she insulted all of us like were all as stupid as she is and we don't all turn out good just because our parents had $$$ she's therfect example.
stupidity

Wise, VA

#20 Aug 25, 2012
you are a joke wrote:
<quoted text>
I never said as rearing my child your are ignorant funny how all this "attention you paid to issue and tried to rectify it the right way didn't come up until people wondered why you. Didn't try to stop it. Geez you are psycho can't spell could you retype first paragraph made no sense. You called an entire community ignorant because you have problems with this child. Personally I don't think you should blame one persons faults bY insulting the whole town.obviously until called out You Didn't do crap to help your kid accept teach her bad manners like you. Who said brawl if ytou can insult me on a computer why can't it tol my face its nothing about being redneck. You are trying to be a bully to me. Simply do it to my face. You r stupid and ignorant
I guess you couldn't read my post because it is spelled correctly. Your last post is not readable. You do not even write sentences. I still don't know what you are trying to say. You would do better staying off. I owe you zero explanation. I was responding to the lady with the little girls at the park.If you are in the medical field, I would not want you in charge of anyone I know. Get a life and mind your business. Let your daughter home school you.
stupidity

Wise, VA

#21 Aug 25, 2012
O I
Wow wrote:
<quoted text>
I agree. It would seem someone from such a prominent family could afford to live somewhere else. I wonder if it was her rearing or etiquette lessons that taught her it's OK to teach a child to call others names and insult family members in one step. Pot, meet kettle. Let's not talk about other parents who turn a blind eye to bullying when some are actually teaching how to do it.
Sorry you have to live here due to lack of funds. Some people live here because this area has to recruit people from other areas to do jobs. I owe you no explanation anyway. Are you trying g to bully me from the area? That is typical of this place. You just worry about yourself.

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