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Anonymous

Oak Hill, WV

#1 Aug 27, 2012
There is a ugly girl who is inlove with me and she always follows me around in high school and she is stalking me off the computer. I don't want her as a friend and i don't want her to be anywhere around me. I don't like anything about her and im not attracted to her at all but she just will not stay out of my biz or leave me and my friends alone. How do i make a stalker leave me alone without having my g/f beat the shit out of her.
No Name

Oak Hill, WV

#2 Aug 27, 2012
Followers = Lames
told you so

Charleston, WV

#3 Aug 27, 2012
You're probably ignoring her and as a result she feels that in order to get noticed, she has to interject herself into your life. As long as you continue your behavior, she'll continue hers.

You need to catch her when the two of you can talk face to face (without your crew around). Talk to her from a position of someone who understands how she feels but make it clear that you don't feel the same way towards her as she does towards you. DO NOT insult her, DO NOT get personal about her or your feelings towards her.

Always take the high road.

This is your chance to come across as a descent guy.

Then if she lives up to her end of the bargain DO NOT treat her as a lepar. When you pass in the hall nod your head or acknowledge her. Remember she has feelings too.

That should give you the seperation that you want.
Anonymous

Oak Hill, WV

#4 Aug 27, 2012
told you so wrote:
You're probably ignoring her and as a result she feels that in order to get noticed, she has to interject herself into your life. As long as you continue your behavior, she'll continue hers.
You need to catch her when the two of you can talk face to face (without your crew around). Talk to her from a position of someone who understands how she feels but make it clear that you don't feel the same way towards her as she does towards you. DO NOT insult her, DO NOT get personal about her or your feelings towards her.
Always take the high road.
This is your chance to come across as a descent guy.
Then if she lives up to her end of the bargain DO NOT treat her as a lepar. When you pass in the hall nod your head or acknowledge her. Remember she has feelings too.
That should give you the seperation that you want.
Thank you and yes i am a very good guy and everyone who really knows me would tell you that. I don't want to hurt her feelings or come off as a bad person because im not a bad person and i definitely don't want my g/f or any of her friends to go after her but it feels like that's my only option and that's what i have to do. It sucks! I have been trying my best to handle this lame situation the best way i can and to make her leave me alone without it making me look bad.

Since: Nov 11

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#5 Aug 27, 2012
Go to the police and fill out a harassment/stalking papers maybe that will open her eyes and keep her away from you!
Listen to Me

United States

#6 Aug 27, 2012
Beautiful_Disaster421 wrote:
Go to the police and fill out a harassment/stalking papers maybe that will open her eyes and keep her away from you!
Anonymous DO NOT and I repeat DO NOT FOLLOW THE ADVICE OF Beautiful_Disaster421 whatever you do!
If you really are still in school go to your school counselor.
Anonymous

Oak Hill, WV

#7 Aug 27, 2012
I try so hard not to hurt her feelings or make myself look bad which i probably do to some but i guess it is what it is and haha i would not go to the police.
lmao

Ardsley, NY

#8 Aug 28, 2012
Maybe you need to get over yourself!!! Your probably not as special as you think!!!
You have probably gave this girl the impression you were into her. Btw handle your own problems or your g/f or her friends could be the ones in trouble!!
PsychStar

Charleston, WV

#9 Aug 28, 2012
Anonymous wrote:
There is a ugly girl who is inlove with me and she always follows me around in high school and she is stalking me off the computer. I don't want her as a friend and i don't want her to be anywhere around me. I don't like anything about her and im not attracted to her at all but she just will not stay out of my biz or leave me and my friends alone. How do i make a stalker leave me alone without having my g/f beat the shit out of her.
block all of your online profiles so only friends can see your stuff. You need to decide if she's just immature with a crush or if she's taking her actions way too far. She might just be hopelessly in love & you don't want to hurt her feelings it would be best to ignore her as if she's invisible. If she's acting psycho you either need to tell her straight up that you want her to leave you alone or you need to speak to a school counselor so they can tell her to stop.
honest answer

Charleston, WV

#10 Aug 28, 2012
"told you so" gave the best, honest answer. You don't have to be a dick, and you don't have to sic your girlfriend on her, just tell her how it is.

Since: Nov 11

Location hidden

#11 Aug 28, 2012
Listen to Me wrote:
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Anonymous DO NOT and I repeat DO NOT FOLLOW THE ADVICE OF Beautiful_Disaster421 whatever you do!
If you really are still in school go to your school counselor.
Usually if things have went as far as they have, this girl is going to keep going, the boy said he ignores her but now shes stalking him out online?? The school can tell her to stop but with stalkers they don't care! How about telling your parents and maybe they can go over and have a adult talk with her parents. Otherwise idc I would make a police report these are the types that are in it to win it and if they can't win then everyone loses and sometimes more then their dignity but their life! Look around ppl its not the 60's anymore kids are shooting other kids for no reason as are adults but it has became more rampant lately, ex. Baltimore had a shooting on the first day of school! Thats why I recommended the police but thats just my opinion!
JLD

Oak Hill, WV

#12 Aug 29, 2012
If she keeps on tell your g/f to put her in her place.
Listen to me

Massillon, OH

#13 Aug 29, 2012
Beautiful_Disaster421 wrote:
<quoted text>Usually if things have went as far as they have, this girl is going to keep going, the boy said he ignores her but now shes stalking him out online?? The school can tell her to stop but with stalkers they don't care! How about telling your parents and maybe they can go over and have a adult talk with her parents. Otherwise idc I would make a police report these are the types that are in it to win it and if they can't win then everyone loses and sometimes more then their dignity but their life! Look around ppl its not the 60's anymore kids are shooting other kids for no reason as are adults but it has became more rampant lately, ex. Baltimore had a shooting on the first day of school! Thats why I recommended the police but thats just my opinion!
YOU would know ALL about stalkers!!
Your ex husband has had to open a THIRD FB account because you keep hacking into his accounts. And why the KCSD & CPD police tell you to quit calling them? It wouldn't be because you called in about things that weren't true. Or you'd call and say that your EX
was in violation of the VDP that you falsely obtained against him. You know that the ONLY REASON that he came to your house was because YOU would call him then put YOUR DAUGHTER (NOT HIS CHILD) on the phone and have her tell him to come over because she missed him!
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Since: Nov 11

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#15 Aug 29, 2012
Listen to me wrote:
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YOU would know ALL about stalkers!!
Your ex husband has had to open a THIRD FB account because you keep hacking into his accounts. And why the KCSD & CPD police tell you to quit calling them? It wouldn't be because you called in about things that weren't true. Or you'd call and say that your EX
was in violation of the VDP that you falsely obtained against him. You know that the ONLY REASON that he came to your house was because YOU would call him then put YOUR DAUGHTER (NOT HIS CHILD) on the phone and have her tell him to come over because she missed him!
WOW you have lost it, I have never being told not to call CPD nor KCSD funny in fact I haven't called the sheriffs dept since my bf's death to go and thank them for their services at his wake and funeral 4 yrs ago!! As of calling and telling him to come over here try again, back when this bs that got blown out of the water, I never once turned Daniel in for violation of a DVP but I do know who did, even funnier Daniel and I got back together in July right after I got out of jail!! We decided in the adult way to seperate and so that was that and as of my child calling him, yeah like 2 times cause she asked me could she call her "daddy" which is all she knew him as and yes I sure did let her call him, none of your business huh? As of now I have attempted to be civil with Daniel and he has decided it would be best if we cut all ties, so thats what we have did! As for his fb yeah I did that and I only got one didn't change a thing just confirmed what I already knew was true! I put his pw back to what it was but for some reason it won;t log in anymore!! So please this was between us and we have grown from the mistakes we have made, we have grown from them and its made us who we are, I personally am very proud of him for furthering his career and starting over, I have no ill feelings and wish him nothing but the best!! As for me I am student full time and a mommy 24-7, so you do ahead and trash me I dont mind, it just shows you have no clue of what your talking about! Daniel, my child and myself know the truth but instead the news and newspapers switched things up which again is ok! Ppl will always feel the need to downgrade others because they are not happy in their own lifes! I truely hope you find that happiness one day in your life, I will for sure be praying for you "listen to me" which however is kinda impossible when you read it not listen to it! But I hope you also have a wonderful life and move on from mine!!
Robbie

San Angelo, TX

#16 Aug 30, 2012
Is she a vampire? Just asking.
Rita

United States

#17 Aug 30, 2012
Robbie wrote:
Is she a vampire? Just asking.
Who Beautiful Disaster? LMAO
Shew

Saint Albans, WV

#18 Aug 30, 2012
He was fired because of you and your lies. That just shows he is just a ignorant for taking you back! You deserve each other
Listen to me

Canton, OH

#19 Aug 30, 2012
Shew wrote:
He was fired because of you and your lies. That just shows he is just a ignorant for taking you back! You deserve each other
You are exactly right Shew!!

Since: Nov 11

Location hidden

#20 Sep 2, 2012
Shew wrote:
He was fired because of you and your lies. That just shows he is just a ignorant for taking you back! You deserve each other
Hey check your facts he resigned, he was not fired and either or non of your business!! Again you know nothing about the situation at all!!! He has a good career now and is doing well, I am very proud of him and wish him the best!! Have a good one!

Since: Nov 11

Location hidden

#21 Sep 2, 2012
Listen to me wrote:
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You are exactly right Shew!!
Shew is totally wrong and speaks from her/his ass!!

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