Gallatin, TN

#1 Apr 24, 2012
I've loved the same man for 6 years. He was divorced or said he was and after a year I found out he was still married. He and I have been friends "only" for the last 5. The problem is he's an on again off again friend. When I speak to him I go through all these emotions from deep love to irritation to feeling just like I did when the break up happened and when I don't hear from him I feel rejected and hurt all over again. How do I convince my heart to stop loving him. By the way, I'm not one of those creepy obsessed people nor would I ever do anything to compromise his marriage or my own salvation. I'm happy that he is happy, but I can't figure out how to get over this and move on in relationships without feeling the need to compare them with him and thats not fair to someone else that my heart wont ever be truly theirs. It's like I've lost my soulmate. This is super depressing! Any advice?

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