Bethel man charged with DUI on Hudson Street

A 52-year-old resident was charged with driving under the influence Saturday night, police said. Full Story
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Neighborhood Reformer

East Hampton, CT

#151 Dec 9, 2008
All of you that bash, judge, and hate the Stavola family WITHOUT ever lending a helping/healing hand or in the least attempt to discover what the underlying problem is behind all of this are exactly what is wrong with society and humanity today. It is vital that this primitive trait must be changed in order to further progress the spiritual and mental evolution our species.
On a lighter and simpler note for my ignorant and naive neighbors of Hudson street, lets get the facts straight
1. The Stavola's have never used any narcotics.
2. The KID that was tasered on Fleetwood Ave on the corner of Hudson, was not a Stavola.
3. The claim that Jake had robbed someone with a firearm is completely false.
4. They are kids!
I have known the Stavola's for close to 12 years now, and as long as I have ever known them they have shown the utmost courtesy and respect to myself and my family. The notion that this family is immoral or disrespectful is completely unfounded. In fact the opposite is true for this family and it is something I admire them for. They are all about respect. If they don't receive respect in return for the respect and courtesy they have given you, you can bet your ass they would be mad, and so would I.
I think the residents of Hudson Street should take action to resolve this issue. Not by looking up to your NANNY government to solve the problem, but as human beings. Physically walk your lazy asses over there and talk to one of these kids and look them in the eyes while doing so. Offer a helping hand, try to understand them, get on there level or help them get on yours. COMMMUNICATE!!! These kids are not evil and are not determined to terrorize the neighborhood. They are very polite and respectful children that are misunderstood, do not recognize harassment by police officers as legitimately serving and protecting them but rather acting as intimidating authoritarians, and the Stavolas now do not require the respect of a neighborhood that already gave up on them.
Maybe if the neighborhood as a whole took a positive and open-minded approach to the family some real progress can be made that will benefit the Stavolas and the rest of the community as a whole.
Love thy neighbor.
"Do not mend your neighbor's fence before seeing to your own."
Neighborhood Reformer

East Hampton, CT

#152 Dec 9, 2008
All of you that bash, judge, and hate the Stavola family WITHOUT ever lending a helping/healing hand or in the least attempt to discover what the underlying problem is behind all of this are exactly what is wrong with society and humanity today. It is vital that this primitive trait must be changed in order to further progress the spiritual and mental evolution our species.

On a lighter and simpler note for my ignorant and naive neighbors of Hudson street, lets get the facts straight

1. The Stavola's have never used any narcotics.
2. The KID that was tasered on Fleetwood Ave on the corner of Hudson, was not a Stavola.
3. The claim that Jake had robbed someone with a firearm is completely false.
4. They are kids!

I have known the Stavola's for close to 12 years now, and as long as I have ever known them they have shown the utmost courtesy and respect to myself and my family. The notion that this family is immoral or disrespectful is completely unfounded. In fact the opposite is true for this family and it is something I admire them for. They are all about respect. If they don't receive respect in return for the respect and courtesy they have given you, you can bet your ass they would be mad, and so would I.

I think the residents of Hudson Street should take action to resolve this issue. Not by looking up to your NANNY government to solve the problem, but as human beings. Physically walk your lazy asses over there and talk to one of these kids and look them in the eyes while doing so. Offer a helping hand, try to understand them, get on there level or help them get on yours. COMMMUNICATE!!! These kids are not evil and are not determined to terrorize the neighborhood. They are very polite and respectful children that are misunderstood, do not recognize harassment by police officers as legitimately serving and protecting them but rather acting as intimidating authoritarians, and the Stavolas now do not require the respect of a neighborhood that already gave up on them.

Maybe if the neighborhood as a whole took a positive and open-minded approach to the family some real progress can be made that will benefit the Stavolas and the rest of the community as a whole.

Love thy neighbor.

"Do not mend your neighbor's fence before seeing to your own."
W T F

Monroe, CT

#153 Dec 10, 2008
Respect wrote:
all you idiots that know nothing and think you do, stop talking. ive known the stavolas for more than 10 years and they have always been polite and friendly with me and my family. if they werent to you, obviously you werent to them. all the neighbors that are putting their nose into someone else's business.. take it easy. who cares about quads? oooh they park in the lawn.. whats the big deal? its like they offended you(complainers) in such a way that you hate them. and if you are offended by the music, you are an idiot as well. go listen to what is on the radio unedited and see how much of a difference there is. hudson glen for life. free jake!
Jake has no business being freed. He committed a crime and now he has to pay his debt. I only hope that he's learned his lesson so he can move on with a better life for himself once he is out. As for the rest of the family, I've known the entire Stavola family for over 25 years and they are wonderful people. You cannot judge an entire family by the actions of only a few. If Lee and his wife had stopped drinking years ago and focused on their kids, home, etc., this would obviously never have happened. However, NONE of us are here to judge anyone, are we? I'd love to know who half of you posters are so that we can air some of your skeletons. That would be a blast...
W T F

Monroe, CT

#155 Dec 10, 2008
Every Martha is an azz hole. Martha. What a stooopit name.
gangsta rap made me do it

Exeter, NH

#156 Dec 10, 2008
All of you people who don't know what you're talking about need to stop. If you actually sat down and spoke with any of the Stavolas especially Jake, you'd realize that they are actually smart kids. They all have a good head on their shoulders but when dumb people like you keep antagonizing them, you are bringing all the problems upon yourselves. I've known the stavola family since i was 10 and they have been nothing but respectful and polite, always saying hello, thank you, please, how are you. When you give respect you get it back, when you hate on someone then expect them to do everything back to you.

Just because you don't understand the way a family lives doesn't mean you should judge them. If anything you should judge some of their neighbors. When someone in a white suburban SUV swerves at a minor and drives away, gets away with it, and a kid throws an empty water bottle back at the car and gets arrested there is something wrong. When you constantly drive by a house that you keep saying you wish you could avoid you need to check yourself and rethink what you're saying.

Also like many people already said, you need to check your facts, all this libel stuff you people are posting is ridiculous and i have plenty to say about a lot of people living on hudson st but I'm better than that, and the camel toe lady is retarded.

Besides all that, some of you need to take a look at your own kids and see what they're doing. If you think that the Stavola house is the only one that might have pot in it you people need to think again. Look around, its everywhere, I'll bet that most of the parents that post blogs on here, your kids are doing something just as bad because you'd rather point out other peoples faults than looking at your own.

In addition if you believe that just because the police harass the stavolas you need to think again. I don't smoke pot or do drugs, in high school i had a loud car and for a year i was pulled over at least once a week, i was questioned all the time and harassed all the time. However, not once did i ever get a ticket, just because something stands out, or you cant accept something doesn't mean you need to hate it or be ignorant. If you want to see tax dollars gone to waste, look at what the police do to people like me in high school. i was pulled over because they thought my car was too low. Yes, because my car was too low. I was coming home from work, not speeding or doing anything wrong but once i was pulled the police officer informed me that he "thought" my head lights looked too low. So as he had me sit there for 45 minutes for the police sgt to come down with a tape measure and see that my lights were perfectly legal i was free to go. That's where your tax money goes to waste.

So stop trying to put blame on one family and think of a way to fix the problem rather than just complaining about it. If all you're going to do is complain then go do it where no one is around or listening because you're just wasting everyone's time.

Free Jake!!
LAKEVILLE CT

United States

#157 Dec 11, 2008
Ahoo Betty wrote:
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Topix, please ban this creep! Just read his name backwards. It's disgusting.
Thank you for lowering the bar in this forum yet again.
You would be more convincing, if you posted this from your LAKEVILLE, CT IP. Racists are totally clueless idiots.

Have fun with the lawsuit. It's nice to see your blog promoting hate speech has finally been taken down.
Bethel Resident

White Plains, NY

#158 Dec 11, 2008
Whether the Stavolas are a "problem" or not,

anyone who is publicly defacing the name of their family on this website is just as trashy and low as you claim they are. Way to go Bethel for keeping it classy.

Have some respect and stop gossiping.
TOLD YOU

Lakeville, CT

#160 Jan 24, 2009
you guyz are all bi*tches you know where the stavolas or we live so why dont you big grown ups get your punk a**es over here i mean we/they have two front doors feel glad to walk on it and see how far you make it away FREEE MYYY HOMMIE JAKE STAVOLAAAAAAAAAAAAA
wow

Lakeville, CT

#161 Jan 24, 2009
wow really you guys are honestly pathedic you are still going on with this !! holy crap this has been going been on for months now, grow up and get a life.

“What?”

Since: Jan 08

New Milford

#162 Jan 25, 2009
Geez, this Jerry Springer Show thread just won't end...
Truth

Fall River, MA

#163 Dec 20, 2010
Love thy neighbor
or dare

White Plains, NY

#164 Dec 20, 2010
Truth wrote:
Love thy neighbor
screw thy neighbors wife
or dare

Norwalk, CT

#165 Dec 20, 2010
We are 2 full black gay queens here seeking a 3rd for gay time. We both have HIV and syphilis and genital warts that puss..We are both black bottoms so we would be looking for a black top. My name is or dare
and my lover goes by several names on here Boon, MOOK, APEfonso and many more. HE/She also tends to edit other posts and use other posting names...This is due to the syphilis and HIV eating away what little brain HE/She had...We are both into wet farts and doing the peepee dance
...Hit us up
STAVOLAS

Danbury, CT

#166 Feb 6, 2011
F**K ALL OF YOU PEOPLE THE STAVOLAS ARE THE SH*T.

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