people of color

[bernieman37]

LMAOROFL Don't know who George is, but if he is your ex then he is probably doing better off without you around.

[George Gilbert 3rd]

As I said on another thread Dexter Survivor, I don't want problems from anyone. I keep to myself, and I don't bother anyone. I honostly could careless who you date. I have several friends that are black, and trust them way more than I trust some other people I know. I also know who Homer was, and read what he wrote remember I had the books. Bernieman37 is not me so I am asking nicely for you to back up off of me, and leave me alone.

[dexter survivor]

Forgive me George. I was mistaken to thank you were being an a**. As far as I know though I haven't ticked anyone from Bernie off in years. So I thought it was you. I'm sorry for jumping to conclusions. Oh well, I guess it is probably someone that I turned down through the years or someone that I ticked off. Darn I normally know all my enemies. That's life I guess. They love me or they hate me. lmao.

[dexter survivor]

oops. I hate typos. I meant to type think you .... At least I corrected myself.

[George Gilbert 3rd]

It's okay. I have a pretty good idea who the trouble maker is, and they aren't doing it to you. They are doing it to me. It's okay though, I've grown use to them starting trouble for me.
I know this isn't the right forum, but how has life been treating you for the past five years? If you want to just chat sometime you can find me on myspace pretty easy.

[dexter survivor]

I'm doing fine. I see G. the 3rd has grown. He's turned into a nice looking kid. I hope he's doing fine too. Who did you tick off in Bernie anyway? Don't you know that's my job. lol

[dexter survivor]

oops....G. the 4th I mean. It was a long night at work and I'm trying to wind down. My brain was ready for this weekend. Now if this next week hurries I'll two weeks vacation to relax for awhile. Then maybe I can type again. lol

[dexter survivor]

dang it....I did it again....darn typos.....lmao....time for bed....lol.

[George Gilbert 3rd]

So are you still married? If so, I wish the best for you both.
Thank you for the compliment about my son.
As far as who would be starting trouble for me, it would have to be my son. He, and I have had a falling out of sorts. He has pretty much disowned me. He doesn't come around unless I'm gone. Him, and his buddies tp'd my house.
Not much I can do about all of this. My apologizes for all of this.

[Wonder Why]

I know who you are G the 3rd. You get out of your child what you put into your child. Your hands are dirty-you have treated you son with contempt and with malice. You have discarded him without thought and put him so far down on the list of things that you care about--that he has no respect or love for you. He doesn't have respect for others or know how to love somebody else. He has no self-esteem and no direction. You would do good sir to re-evaluate your priorities and try to reconsile with your son! If you can't count on your parents-who else is there?

[George Gilbert 3rd]

Who the f*** are you to judge me? If you supposedly know me, then use your real name coward. Anyone who knows me, knows that I have always lived my life for my son. I have been the one constant in his life. I have always pushed him in the right direction, and tried to get him the help he needed before, and after he needed it.
You have no idea of what has transpired in our lives, so all I have to say is "UP YOURS"!
Ask anyone in Bernie the type of man I am, and have become, in the past five years that they have known me. I have given, and done everything that I could for my son. I have even remained single to take care of my son, because I felt that a relationship would just get in the way of taking care of my son.
So quite frankly you can go to hell on that comment "Wonder Why"!

[dexter survivor]

Maybe in the past george wasn't always the best father but he tried his best in the circumstances. But I truly believe he has for the past five years put his son first. But that is between him and his son. It is not something for everyone else to concern themselves with and his son should talk to him face to face. Sometimes to people need to receive love for them to give it. Children also should love and respect their parents if they wish for their parents to give them trust and respect. Love is not based on giving a kid whatever they want and letting them have their way all the time. A parent that gives their child consequences is one that loves them. If those parents are unaware of the proper way to do this it is our job as a community to teach them, not condemn them. George made mistakes but he has learned a lot in the past couple years.

But I wonder.....Wonder Why......do you have children? Do you know what his son has put him and others through? You don't know the whole story. His son I'm sure need help in healing but so does his father and others that have been affected by his son's actions.

Oh, and yes George, I'm still married.

[Wonder Why]

I do have children and I do know his son and I do know that his woman might not know that he's single? Or her girlfriend?! I don't have to ask anybody in bernie what kind of person you are-it speaks for itself.

[dexter survivor]

Wonder Why wrote:

I do have children and I do know his son and I do know that his woman might not know that he's single? Or her girlfriend?! I don't have to ask anybody in bernie what kind of person you are-it speaks for itself.

What are you talking about that his woman might not know he's single? What does that have to do with anything I said? If she doesn't know that he's single or with her then she needs to re-evaluate her brain. But that part has nothing to do with what was said. Are you on drugs or what?

[George Gilbert 3rd]

I am single you dumba**! I have been single for the past three months. Prior to that, I have been single for the past five years. I have devoted my life to taking care of my son, and giving him everything I never had as a child.
I've given up what made me happy to make my son happy. I sacrificed my health for him. I have Bell's Palsy, and spinal stenosis. I have loss the use of my left arm on many occassions. I have tried to push myself above, and beyond my physical limitations.
You don't know me, and you sure as hell don't know what transpired in my home over the past years. SO YOU CAN QUITE FRANKLY GO TO HELL FOR AS FAR AS I CARE!
At least I'm not a f***ing coward who stays behind an alias.
I have remained single, even though my heart has been aching to love a woman. I put my son first, unless I had a family. I chose my families safety over my son. I loved my family!!!! I put the safety, and well being of my family over one individual. I still cry at times, because I loved my family.
I dare you to come say this s*** to my face you coward. I love my son more than I care for myself. I've ended up in the ER, because I worried about my son. I've stayed out until the wee hours of the morning just trying to make sure that he was okay.
If there is someone out there that knows me, please speak up on my behalf. Put this punk a** b**** in their place.

[dexter survivor]

George, don't let him get to you. This idiot hasn't known anything except maybe the past couple of years. He doesn't know what happened before you and G. the 4th moved to Bernie. I do know the truth. We all made mistakes by trying to protect him instead of him facing the consequences he should have faced. It's out of your control now. He'll be an adult soon and it will be his responsibility. Just remember you did your best with what knowledge and abilities you had. And that's all anyone can do. Just be careful George. You know what I mean.

[George Gilbert 3rd]

Yeah well I lost a lot five years ago. I lost everything I ever cared for in my life. I tried to always do the right thing, and hold it all together at whatever cost.
I'm tired of being judged by those who never had to go through what I've had to go through.
I'm a good man, and a very loving father. I will not let anyone taking that away from me ever again, and I will not have my good name soiled by others actions, or words.
This is stupid. This has nothing to do with the topic at hand, and this shouldn't even be on here.

[George Gilbert 3rd]

Sorry for the typo's