should i expose a cheater?

should i expose a cheater?

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anonymous

Hartford, CT

#1 May 12, 2014
I know someone who is cheating on their spouse. Should I nicely let it be known that the spouse can find out? Offspring are involved. I've been told not to, spouse probably knows something is going on and it might come back to haunt me, to someone quoting The Bible, "Vengeance is mine" to let spouse find out on their own and reprecussions will follow. I still think I should. Why let a creep keep lying? I'd be willing to take consequences.
John Mckellan

Reading, MA

#2 May 13, 2014
anonymous wrote:
I know someone who is cheating on their spouse. Should I nicely let it be known that the spouse can find out? Offspring are involved. I've been told not to, spouse probably knows something is going on and it might come back to haunt me, to someone quoting The Bible, "Vengeance is mine" to let spouse find out on their own and reprecussions will follow. I still think I should. Why let a creep keep lying? I'd be willing to take consequences.
Will you get laid if you turn them in?
Yes- do it.
No- don't bother.
anonymous

Enfield, CT

#3 May 13, 2014
John Mckellan wrote:
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Will you get laid if you turn them in?
Yes- do it.
No- don't bother.
Not the type of response I was looking for, but thanks for your input. Its a sad situation, so really, serious matter.
John Mckellan

Brookline, MA

#4 May 14, 2014
anonymous wrote:
<quoted text>Not the type of response I was looking for, but thanks for your input. Its a sad situation, so really, serious matter.
It's a legit answer. You'll do nothing by exposing this individual except be the catalyst. He/she will eventually expose themselves without your attachment. Unless you personally will profit from the exposure, it's not worth the trouble unless this is family.
anonymous

West Hartford, CT

#5 May 14, 2014
John Mckellan wrote:
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It's a legit answer. You'll do nothing by exposing this individual except be the catalyst. He/she will eventually expose themselves without your attachment. Unless you personally will profit from the exposure, it's not worth the trouble unless this is family.
Its just that when you know something, feel awful that spouse should know they're being cheated on. What I would benefit from is getting this knowledge to the person who deserves to know, off my chest. I hate seeing people lie to their spouse and just feel they need to gently find out. There is always the possibility they find out and find out I know, then comes, "why didn't you tell me?"
John Mckellan

Brookline, MA

#6 May 16, 2014
anonymous wrote:
<quoted text>Its just that when you know something, feel awful that spouse should know they're being cheated on. What I would benefit from is getting this knowledge to the person who deserves to know, off my chest. I hate seeing people lie to their spouse and just feel they need to gently find out. There is always the possibility they find out and find out I know, then comes, "why didn't you tell me?"
The only way they'd know is if you admitted it. I wouldn't put yourself involved in any way. Let them find out. You don't want to be attached to that in any way unless you can profit from it. You'll lose whomever it was as a friend eva use you'll forever be attached to that situation. SHould they reconcile, you'll never be welcome around anyway.

“KARMA always gets you”

Since: Mar 14

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#7 Jun 6, 2014
Its a hard position to be in but I would say something because i'm sure everyone already know and the spouse looks like a FOOL not knowing I was cheated on an he made it public and it SUCKED I felt like a F..... FOOL and then I was compared to her and put down then it escalated and he beat me he in JAIL now and she will be the next victim BE STRONG and say something

Since: Jun 14

Location hidden

#9 Jun 10, 2014
@KimCT

you need some loving baby ? if so send me PM and lets talk.
I am single, no kids..
John Mckellan

Worcester, MA

#10 Jun 11, 2014
Kim CT wrote:
Its a hard position to be in but I would say something because i'm sure everyone already know and the spouse looks like a FOOL not knowing I was cheated on an he made it public and it SUCKED I felt like a F..... FOOL and then I was compared to her and put down then it escalated and he beat me he in JAIL now and she will be the next victim BE STRONG and say something
In his defense, she was much much hotter than you. I mean, can you blame him? The real kicker is that had you put down the fork once in awhile, you wouldn't ever have been in that position.

“KARMA always gets you”

Since: Mar 14

Location hidden

#11 Jun 11, 2014
John Mckellan wrote:
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In his defense, she was much much hotter than you. I mean, can you blame him? The real kicker is that had you put down the fork once in awhile, you wouldn't ever have been in that position.
WOW you must be single actually I'm much hotter than her and I supporte him cuz he lazy He has beat up other women too when the money runs out he takes avantage of someone else He lost his kids because he crazy so your opinion really does not matter and people like you are made into bitches for a reason
John Mckellan

Reading, MA

#13 Jun 12, 2014
Kim CT wrote:
<quoted text>WOW you must be single actually I'm much hotter than her and I supporte him cuz he lazy He has beat up other women too when the money runs out he takes avantage of someone else He lost his kids because he crazy so your opinion really does not matter and people like you are made into bitches for a reason
I feel like I'm reading a black persons writing. Is that the case? If so, you deserved to be beaten.you get what you ask for. It's not malice, just truth.
John Mckellan

Reading, MA

#14 Jun 13, 2014
Kim CT wrote:
<quoted text>WOW you must be single actually I'm much hotter than her and I supporte him cuz he lazy He has beat up other women too when the money runs out he takes avantage of someone else He lost his kids because he crazy so your opinion really does not matter and people like you are made into bitches for a reason
Ugh. Nothing like an illiterate jungle-bunny coming in to ruin a serious conversation. I'd pretend to care what you had to say if you could just get your spelling and grammar even 30% correct

“KARMA always gets you”

Since: Mar 14

Location hidden

#16 Jun 13, 2014
John Mckellan wrote:
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I feel like I'm reading a black persons writing. Is that the case? If so, you deserved to be beaten.you get what you ask for. It's not malice, just truth.
WOW first of all I'm not black and what would that matter no one deserves to be assaulted we all bleed RED you seem racist which is SAD I noticed you have changed your locations alot I know all the place in MA you are under I must be older smarter and much wisher than you Take the sheet off your head OH wait you must be a RAT SNITCHES GET STICHES punk

“KARMA always gets you”

Since: Mar 14

Location hidden

#17 Jun 13, 2014
John Mckellan wrote:
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Ugh. Nothing like an illiterate jungle-bunny coming in to ruin a serious conversation. I'd pretend to care what you had to say if you could just get your spelling and grammar even 30% correct
I'm not a JUNGLE BUNNY you fn COWARD don't judge people I'm sure I could take you out in 2.2 seconds You change your locations you must be a scum bag from Lowell or Lawerence Go light your cross and hope no one is behind you you deserve a good beaten

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