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WWYD

Berea, KY

#1 Jul 9, 2010
My step daughter keeps accidentally exposing herself to me. I am scared to death to say anything to her mother. I am afraid she might not believe me. But my step daughter does things like get out of the shower with just a towel on. Then drops things and bends over to get them. No underwear on ! Sleeps naked and does not shut the door but about half way. Every time I go down thee hall I see her naked butt. I could go on, but this is the type things I am talking about. I have known this girl since she was about 10 years old. I know she is doing it on purpose. But dont know why or what to do. She does not do this when her mother is home. I am afraid to go home most of the time now. Need advise

Since: Jul 09

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#2 Jul 9, 2010
How do you know she has no underwear on unless you're looking when she bends over?

Anyway, just yell "GET SOME DAMN CLOTHES ON" next time. You'll probably embarrass her to the point that she won't do it again...

“Sic friatur crustum dulce ”

Since: Apr 09

the real world.....

#3 Jul 9, 2010
Put your foot down and tell her you're not interested.
You need to set some boundaries about her behavior asap.
How old is she?
Sounds like she's discovering her sexuality and is 'practicing' on you.
You need to have a private, frank talk with your wife, and ask her to help you with it, and all of you need some family counseling.
Possum

Lexington, KY

#4 Jul 9, 2010
How old is she?

If your wife has any trust of you then why wouldn't she believe you? Does she not trust you?

I agree with KK you should yell "get some damn clothes on" next time she does it. And to KK if someone bends over and exposes themself in front of you, you don't have to be "looking" like a perv to see, ur gonna see whether you want to or not it's like a reflex.

You should tell ur wife that you are uncomfortable and tell her what is going on. If ur step daughter is only doing it around you then she knows she's doing wrong and doesnt want her mom to know.

Since: Jul 09

Location hidden

#5 Jul 9, 2010
Hmmm..that makes sense. Stuff like this just gives me the heebie jeebies...
Possum wrote:
How old is she?
If your wife has any trust of you then why wouldn't she believe you? Does she not trust you?
I agree with KK you should yell "get some damn clothes on" next time she does it. And to KK if someone bends over and exposes themself in front of you, you don't have to be "looking" like a perv to see, ur gonna see whether you want to or not it's like a reflex.
You should tell ur wife that you are uncomfortable and tell her what is going on. If ur step daughter is only doing it around you then she knows she's doing wrong and doesnt want her mom to know.
Possum

Lexington, KY

#6 Jul 9, 2010
KittenKiss wrote:
Hmmm..that makes sense. Stuff like this just gives me the heebie jeebies...
<quoted text>
Me too, it's creepy.
Me likey

Berea, KY

#7 Jul 9, 2010
If shes of age have her move in with me. lol
goldielocks

United States

#8 Jul 9, 2010
You should confront the step-daughter first and if it continues, then you can bring it up to your wife.If that is YOUR house she's behaving like that in.
WWYD

Berea, KY

#9 Jul 9, 2010
She starts college this fall. I hope she lives on campus. My wife trusts me. But I dont want her to have any bad thoughts about me. I love her. And i dont think about this child in a bad way. The first few times I thought it was just bad timing. But I know different now. I dont look into her bedroom. But a naked ass sticking up is noticable. I always pull the door closed as I walk by. I would like her mother to see that though. Thanks for the advise. I dont need councelling because one little girl is naughty. I guess I just need to embarrass her. I hate to do that because I care about her like a daughter. But I have to. I think I will start with a note on her door telling her why I had to close it. And if she flashes her twat at me out of the shower again I`m gonna holler at her.

“Sic friatur crustum dulce ”

Since: Apr 09

the real world.....

#10 Jul 9, 2010
Maybe you could put in your note to her how she's making you feel, and put what you said- that you care about her like a daughter, and her actions are hurting you and making it hard to have a relationship with her.
She should be ashamed.
WWYD wrote:
She starts college this fall. I hope she lives on campus. My wife trusts me. But I dont want her to have any bad thoughts about me. I love her. And i dont think about this child in a bad way. The first few times I thought it was just bad timing. But I know different now. I dont look into her bedroom. But a naked ass sticking up is noticable. I always pull the door closed as I walk by. I would like her mother to see that though. Thanks for the advise. I dont need councelling because one little girl is naughty. I guess I just need to embarrass her. I hate to do that because I care about her like a daughter. But I have to. I think I will start with a note on her door telling her why I had to close it. And if she flashes her twat at me out of the shower again I`m gonna holler at her.
Possum

Lexington, KY

#11 Jul 9, 2010
Eek sounds like she's tryin to seduce her own step dad she needs help! I think you and your wife need to talk with her together. Don't keep it a secret from your wife. She's probably counting on that you will keep it a secret. And if she exposes herself and you don't say a word and keep it from her mom she probably thinks its working and will keep doing it.
well

Lexington, KY

#12 Jul 9, 2010
is she hot?

“Where?”

Since: Apr 09

Earth

#13 Jul 10, 2010
Snap some pics and show your wife.. tell YOUR WIFE I DO NOT WANT TO HAVE THIS GOING ON IN MY HOME OTHERWISE SHE CAN GET TO PACKING.

Yeah, the pic snapping can be taken wrong, but if she's 'bent over' and junk that in a 'public' area of the home, it's PROOF.
Hilly

Bronx, NY

#14 Jul 10, 2010
invite me over please!!!
Tonytee1961

Bronx, NY

#15 Jul 10, 2010
try playing games with her such as hide the salami and such

Since: Nov 09

Location hidden

#16 Jul 10, 2010
well wrote:
is she hot?
How can you ask a step dad that? That sounds sick as Hell, Troll.

“Where?”

Since: Apr 09

Earth

#17 Jul 10, 2010
doesn't take much to bring the perverts out.

This is a serious problem in this man's life and he's asking what his options are.

I'd like to hide some Salami in places it'd take you YEARS to pick it out.

Now stfu and troll off somewhere.

“Where?”

Since: Apr 09

Earth

#18 Jul 10, 2010
You _have_ to report/document this for YOUR personal protection.

For all you know, she hates her step-dad and has plans to do away with you. Who knows..
Hilly

Bronx, NY

#20 Jul 10, 2010
Ever see that movie Poison Ivy?Boing!!!

Since: May 10

Richmond, KY

#21 Jul 10, 2010
Taking pics will only add to the problem. Look up histrionic personality disorder.

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