old men with young girls

old men with young girls

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sick

United States

#1 Oct 9, 2012
Wake up old men, do you really think that these young girls are attracted to you, I've thought back to when I was in my 20's and to think that a. Man 40+ was attractive just didn't happen. These old men are trying to feel younger and these young girls are looking for a father figure or money,drugs power or just plain attention. I personally am attracted now to older men because I am a 40+ women but in my 20's that would have grossed me out. I know you think it makes you look cool but the truth is you look like a pervert and when your 20 year old brings home a 40+ male your not going to like it.
here

Lexington, KY

#2 Oct 9, 2012
It's between the two people dating! End of story. You think young men find women in their forties attractive?
happilytogether

United States

#3 Oct 9, 2012
I am in my twenties and my boyfriend is in his forties. We are happy as can be, and none of the stuff you say is true. Age is just a number, and it doesn't matter when you truly love someone. I haven't been in love with someone more than I am with him. Just because you think its not right and want to judge couples, well it shows what type of person you are.
sick

United States

#4 Oct 9, 2012
here wrote:
It's between the two people dating! End of story. You think young men find women in their forties attractive?
. No I don't and they shouldn't.
sick

United States

#5 Oct 9, 2012
happilytogether wrote:
I am in my twenties and my boyfriend is in his forties. We are happy as can be, and none of the stuff you say is true. Age is just a number, and it doesn't matter when you truly love someone. I haven't been in love with someone more than I am with him. Just because you think its not right and want to judge couples, well it shows what type of person you are.
I'm the type of woman that lives in the real world, so tell me how much money does this older man have because we both know he ain't broke.
happilytogether

United States

#6 Oct 9, 2012
Money? We barely make ends meet living on what we both make. You may say you live in the real world but you don't, you live in your own world feeling as if you need to judge people and their decisions just because you don't like it. There are so many other's like yourself and that's why we have such a cruel world.
really

Evansville, IN

#7 Oct 9, 2012
sick wrote:
<quoted text>I'm the type of woman that lives in the real world, so tell me how much money does this older man have because we both know he ain't broke.
You are a jealous bitch. My man is 12 years older than me, it just works . Money has nothing to do with it ! And besides what's it any of your damn business anyway ?
Jessica

Berea, KY

#8 Oct 10, 2012
My mans 15 years older than me n Im 24, and before you throw the money thing up, we barely make it. And I don't have daddy issues not that it's any of your business. i'm happy with him, I love him n he loves me. What happened an old man turn you down?
really

Evansville, IN

#9 Oct 10, 2012
Jessica wrote:
My mans 15 years older than me n Im 24, and before you throw the money thing up, we barely make it. And I don't have daddy issues not that it's any of your business. i'm happy with him, I love him n he loves me. What happened an old man turn you down?
I think you hit the nail on the head Jessica . Sounds like a 40+ woman may have had some competition and lost.
real world

United States

#10 Oct 10, 2012
sick wrote:
<quoted text> I'm the type of woman that lives in the real world, so tell me how much money does this older man have because we both know he ain't broke.
Sounds like thiis young lady has an axe to grind with an older guy who dumped her azz. Money moves women everybody knows that. Women want security money brings security...thats the real world. Women at first see the money then they fall in love with the person that takes care of them ..then they get their azz dumped then they hate that old sob. Go all you young hotties have your fun while you can and dont worry about the jealous fat ugly old maids that hate older men. kitty, kitty, kitty .$$$$$$$$$
me to

Winchester, KY

#11 Oct 10, 2012
I prefer older men. I am with my best friend/soulmate. He is 15 yrs older then me. Age is only a number as long as both are adults and want the same thing. Whats it matter? My best friend is 30 and her man is 51, been together 4 yrs and happy as can be. It isnt about money. For some of us, the older men (in some cases) are more mature then the 20 something men. If a single momma is out there looking, chances are the older guy is gonna be there for her before the younger. Some things just work.
real world

United States

#12 Oct 10, 2012
me to wrote:
I prefer older men. I am with my best friend/soulmate. He is 15 yrs older then me. Age is only a number as long as both are adults and want the same thing. Whats it matter? My best friend is 30 and her man is 51, been together 4 yrs and happy as can be. It isnt about money. For some of us, the older men (in some cases) are more mature then the 20 something men. If a single momma is out there looking, chances are the older guy is gonna be there for her before the younger. Some things just work.
well said amd very real
Bree

Lexington, KY

#13 Oct 10, 2012
It depends on the people. No matter if it is an older guy and younger woman or older woman and younger guy. Life experiences, what you like when your 20 v/s what you like when your 40 in fact will be different. Sometimes that becomes a problem. Being able to relate to some one who hasn't lived through things v/s someone who has experienced and lived though a lot of things. But, it also depends on the maturity level of each person. I'm in my 40's and my guy is in his 20's. However, he had to grow up fast and is mature for his age. An old soul. So I believe it's the maturity level of each. I've seen 40 yr old guys act more immature than 30 yr olds. Still hard either way. I do think it is easier for two people closer in age to relate and have the same goals. I should be with someone closer to my age, but it works for now. No real answers. There is one instance that I know of and it does look ridiculous, and you know it won't last....this older guy and this younger girl. you can see it's just for the guy's ego, he's afraid no one will want him and the girl has no clue she's dumb and just happy as heck a guy likes her. But again it works both ways.
Yuck

United States

#14 Oct 10, 2012
I agree totally. You are so right
sick wrote:
Wake up old men, do you really think that these young girls are attracted to you, I've thought back to when I was in my 20's and to think that a. Man 40+ was attractive just didn't happen. These old men are trying to feel younger and these young girls are looking for a father figure or money,drugs power or just plain attention. I personally am attracted now to older men because I am a 40+ women but in my 20's that would have grossed me out. I know you think it makes you look cool but the truth is you look like a pervert and when your 20 year old brings home a 40+ male your not going to like it.
hm

United States

#15 Oct 11, 2012
Yuck wrote:
<quoted text>I agree totally. You are so right
Oh well
breeze

Berea, KY

#16 Oct 11, 2012
Who cares and what is it any of your business who anyone is with? Get a real life and butt out of others!
matt

United States

#18 Oct 28, 2012
As long as they care for one another. Age is not the issue.
the bright side

Lexington, KY

#24 Nov 5, 2012
The bright side is she will be able to go to Vegas with the life insurance. She won't be to old to have fun either.
holler

Berea, KY

#27 Nov 28, 2012
People need to grow up,who cares if a younger man wants to be with a older woman or a younger woman wants to be with an older man. As long as your of age 18 it really is no ones bussiness. People look at age as a guideline to life or something. Love comes in all shapes and sizes and that includes ages. Its people that want to use people, for there own personal gain, because of age, that give people that really love one another a bad rap. It would be different if it was an older person sleeping with a kid or a minor then I could see some concern. But you can't help who you love whether they are younger or older then each other is just part of life. If you are older then age 18 then you have the right to make your own choices. If it turns out to be a failuar then let it be a failuar and if turns out to be love then let it be love. I mean shit happens litterally. Some people are just judgemental especially family members and friends. As long as you truely care for the person thats the only opinion that matters.
Lucky

Versailles, KY

#28 Nov 28, 2012
Failure is better, but I liked your reply.

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