Why do women lie so much?

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honestly

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#1 Oct 19, 2011
I really believe that women lie more than men
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Winchester, KY

#2 Oct 21, 2011
It started with Adam. Don't get me wrong I love women, and I loved more than my share, but they are deceptive, and you hardly ever get what you think you will in a relationship. Don't ever believe that they are better than us because they are not, they lie they cheat and they steal, most are just looking for what you can give them. men are just a means to a end to most nowdays. They call us jerks and say we only want one thing, but they want you to give them everything and when you can't give anymore, they will move on to another guy. I'm an old man, and these words are the truth, even if some of the lady's don't agree.

“Fighting Cancer”

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#4 Oct 21, 2011
point of view wrote:
The way I see it both men and women lie its just that women learn it from men. After putting up with a lier for so long they watch the man and learn from him. He eventually gets caught but she doesn't cuz she has learned what to do and what not to.
I agree that most women learn how to lie from men. However, not all women lie.

Maybe you need a new circle of friends in order to find an honest woman.
Dont agree

El Paso, AR

#5 Oct 21, 2011
You asked for it wrote:
It started with Adam. Don't get me wrong I love women, and I loved more than my share, but they are deceptive, and you hardly ever get what you think you will in a relationship. Don't ever believe that they are better than us because they are not, they lie they cheat and they steal, most are just looking for what you can give them. men are just a means to a end to most nowdays. They call us jerks and say we only want one thing, but they want you to give them everything and when you can't give anymore, they will move on to another guy. I'm an old man, and these words are the truth, even if some of the lady's don't agree.
I had a ex husband that lied so much you could never believe what he said. He lived with me never paid a bill, parked his car and truck and drove mine and wore it out. He cheated on me with his ex wife. He was abusive and jealous it was alright what he done but I couldn't talk to anyone or I would hear about it..So don't put women down because it's the men that make them that WAY!!!!
Queenie

Lexington, KY

#6 Oct 21, 2011
Both men and women lie. Women are just way better at it.

“Fighting Cancer”

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#8 Oct 21, 2011
agree wrote:
My husband lies to me everyday and the Ho he's cheating with lies to her husband everyday. They are not getting away with it like they think its just that you have to wait for the right moment,get all the evidence and then bust them or else they just lie their way out of it agian.
Why wait around? You should get a divorce.
You asked for it

Winchester, KY

#9 Oct 25, 2011
Dont agree wrote:
<quoted text> I had a ex husband that lied so much you could never believe what he said. He lived with me never paid a bill, parked his car and truck and drove mine and wore it out. He cheated on me with his ex wife. He was abusive and jealous it was alright what he done but I couldn't talk to anyone or I would hear about it..So don't put women down because it's the men that make them that WAY!!!!
If he was your husband I would expect him to live with you. Was that wrong of him to live with his wife. Also you say he never paid a bill, wow, never is a long time. I don't beleive that he never paid a bill, you sound like a woman with mental issues,(seen this before). I bet you also said he never took you anywhere, he probably couldn't after trying to pay most of the bills. Don't you know that people can see right through you, tell us some more lies so we can have a good laugh.
Dexter

Berea, KY

#10 Oct 25, 2011
The reason they lie is because, they are the daughters of Eve, the original liar.
AGREED

Danville, KY

#11 Oct 25, 2011
You asked for it wrote:
<quoted text>If he was your husband I would expect him to live with you. Was that wrong of him to live with his wife. Also you say he never paid a bill, wow, never is a long time. I don't beleive that he never paid a bill, you sound like a woman with mental issues,(seen this before). I bet you also said he never took you anywhere, he probably couldn't after trying to pay most of the bills. Don't you know that people can see right through you, tell us some more lies so we can have a good laugh.
You are so right.. Thats the kind of husband i have. He lies to me about everything and can do whatever he wants but I cant even have friends no matter if its male or female. We argue about his slutty friends and the his lying ass male friends all the time and when I am told something that has to do with them and him he says I havent seen them or i havent talked to them on the phone. I got smart and pulled phone records and low and behold I found alot of calls to one of the females. He tried to say she didnt even know his new number and me standing their with phone records. He still tried to lie about everything..
You asked for it

Winchester, KY

#13 Oct 26, 2011
Just saying these things about someone doesn't make it true. You can say anything you want about someone, and thats what this post is about. Women allways tell lies about thier ex. because they want everyone to think that they did nothing wrong, and whats worse is that they actualy beleive thier own lies. It's amazing how warped some womens perception is. Talking on the phone to someone is not the same as sleeping with them. When you have a wife that is so jealous and controlling that you can't even talk to her without it becoming a blow out argument, and her calling your friends names that she wont even take the time to get to know, it sounds like you need someone to talk with. Still doesn't mean you are sleeping with them. Its all about lies.

“Fighting Cancer”

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#14 Oct 26, 2011
You asked for it wrote:
Just saying these things about someone doesn't make it true. You can say anything you want about someone, and thats what this post is about. Women allways tell lies about thier ex. because they want everyone to think that they did nothing wrong, and whats worse is that they actualy beleive thier own lies. It's amazing how warped some womens perception is. Talking on the phone to someone is not the same as sleeping with them. When you have a wife that is so jealous and controlling that you can't even talk to her without it becoming a blow out argument, and her calling your friends names that she wont even take the time to get to know, it sounds like you need someone to talk with. Still doesn't mean you are sleeping with them. Its all about lies.
Women do not always tell lies about an ex. I have never lied about what an ex did, or what I have done, for that matter. Don't ball all of us women into one group.
You asked for it

Winchester, KY

#15 Oct 26, 2011
julie40385 wrote:
<quoted text>Women do not always tell lies about an ex. I have never lied about what an ex did, or what I have done, for that matter. Don't ball all of us women into one group.
Most women do lie about there ex., and thats my point. We men are sick to death, from all the abuse that we suffer from women who aren't mature enough to have a real relationship, and keep blaming men for thier failures as a wife. Then they go and tell everyone how bad this guy was, and try to make us all look like jerks. This is the truth, and good men that have been done this way know I am speaking the truth. I for one am tired of all this male bashing, and as you say grouping all men in to this category. I see it I hear it and I read it, and thats why I am defending good men.
Good Advise

AOL

#16 Oct 26, 2011
I am blessed and have a very good marriage and love my spouse to death, but I did get a chuckle out of something I heard on TV this week...

Woman have many faults,
Men have only two,
Everything they say, and everything they do.

HA HA
BSS

United States

#17 Oct 26, 2011
Women tell you whatever you want to hear while you're dating. Then after you marry them, suddenly they own you. Say goodbye to your friends, say goodbye to your hobbies, say goodbye to any and everything you enjoy. And hello to a life that only revolves around her! They are the masters of manipulation. All they want is someone to help with bills, her kids and fullfill her every need. If you can't do all this exactly the way she wants it, there's hell to pay because you are a terrible, selfesh person. If I ever get out of this prison called marriage, I 'll never do it again.
You asked for it

Winchester, KY

#18 Oct 26, 2011
BSS wrote:
Women tell you whatever you want to hear while you're dating. Then after you marry them, suddenly they own you. Say goodbye to your friends, say goodbye to your hobbies, say goodbye to any and everything you enjoy. And hello to a life that only revolves around her! They are the masters of manipulation. All they want is someone to help with bills, her kids and fullfill her every need. If you can't do all this exactly the way she wants it, there's hell to pay because you are a terrible, selfesh person. If I ever get out of this prison called marriage, I 'll never do it again.
You nailed it, this is exactly what its like for many men. I lived in that type of hell for five years, until she couldn't take it anymore. How about that for some irony.

“Fighting Cancer”

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#19 Oct 26, 2011
BSS wrote:
Women tell you whatever you want to hear while you're dating. Then after you marry them, suddenly they own you. Say goodbye to your friends, say goodbye to your hobbies, say goodbye to any and everything you enjoy. And hello to a life that only revolves around her! They are the masters of manipulation. All they want is someone to help with bills, her kids and fullfill her every need. If you can't do all this exactly the way she wants it, there's hell to pay because you are a terrible, selfesh person. If I ever get out of this prison called marriage, I 'll never do it again.
Again, please don't group all of us women together. Heck, I've been trying to get re-married for almost 21 years. I am the most least selfish woman anyone could meet. I put others needs before my own.

It's a shame that the good men have been done so wrong by stupid female dogs.
You asked for it

Winchester, KY

#20 Oct 26, 2011
Julie, there are things being said here that need to be said, That don't reflect on all women. Your frustration is the same that a good man feels when we hear typical male bashing. Sorry, this is about how the worst women treat thier men, and it happens alot.

“Fighting Cancer”

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#21 Oct 26, 2011
You asked for it wrote:
Julie, there are things being said here that need to be said, That don't reflect on all women. Your frustration is the same that a good man feels when we hear typical male bashing. Sorry, this is about how the worst women treat thier men, and it happens alot.
I do understand. However, it seems that men like to use the words 'all women' when commenting. It's just not fair to the good ones.

:P
You asked for it

Winchester, KY

#22 Oct 27, 2011
julie40385 wrote:
<quoted text>I do understand. However, it seems that men like to use the words 'all women' when commenting. It's just not fair to the good ones.
:P
And women do the same, so men are no worse or no better. Relationships and marriage have not been fair to men either, we get locked out of our homes and put on the street and our children taken away, our property stolen. Women have the power to do this to us and they do it every day. Is that fair.

“Fighting Cancer”

Since: Aug 10

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#23 Oct 27, 2011
You asked for it wrote:
<quoted text>And women do the same, so men are no worse or no better. Relationships and marriage have not been fair to men either, we get locked out of our homes and put on the street and our children taken away, our property stolen. Women have the power to do this to us and they do it every day. Is that fair.
No. It's not fair. However, men and women should state 'some' instead of all.

All the times I left my ex-husband, I took my kids, clothes, and their toys. I didn't give a crap about anything else.

Now, before you say it was unfair for me to take the kids when I left him: he never cared, and still doesn't care, about the 3 I had with him, nor the other 4 he had with 3 other women. He was more concerned with his drugs & alcohol, and seeing how many women he could bed. He didn't care about bills, diapers, or anything a normal person would be concerned with.

Everyone has a story to tell, when it comes to a bad ex.

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