Crazy Men

[Confused]

I'm not real sure if all men from this area act like children or if it was the one I was so unfortunate to meet. So, normally when I have ended a relationship... it's ended. No further contact or if there was contact it was a brief hello. The past three men I have dated from this area have been unreal. Excessive calls/text, and when I don't answer I'm a wh0re. Fine, think what you want but in all honesty... I DONT WANT TO TALK TO YOU. Oh and my favorite.. driving by my house doing 90. Thinking you're hurting me? No, you're actually doing much more damage to the engine than to me. Or reving up your motor... Again, how is this causing me harm? Should I consider it a threat? What exactly are you trying to get accross to me? Oh then telling me you've moved on... Do you really think I care? I feel very sorry for her. I wish she would get some sense and run. Anyway... my next favorite topic.. I just want to say, I know everyone is proud of where they came from. Thats normal. But to act stupid about it, screaming about how sh*tty where I'm from is and making remarks like "this is my town" or "im not leaving my piece of dirt cause of you"... Really..It doesn't bother one bit. You're the one looking ignorant. I never expected you to move. I just want to know if all men from Southeast Missouri are insane like them. Please don't take it the wrong way... I may have just chosen the wrong ones... I just wondered if this was the way to end relationships in SEMO?

[Loved Him Deeply]

Yes, it seems the majority of men from this area are like this. It's strange.

[sad but true]

For some reason I think these men feel like they have to live up to what their fathers or friends set as an image of a man. If each man would just be themselfs and not worry about what people might think of them for actually being good to their woman it wouldnt be so hard to find a good man around here. I dont think they are all bad they just want to act like they are to impress the other men. It takes losing someone who really cares about them for them to see it.

[Southeast Missouri]

Confused wrote:

I'm not real sure if all men from this area act like children or if it was the one I was so unfortunate to meet. So, normally when I have ended a relationship... it's ended. No further contact or if there was contact it was a brief hello. The past three men I have dated from this area have been unreal. Excessive calls/text, and when I don't answer I'm a wh0re. Fine, think what you want but in all honesty... I DONT WANT TO TALK TO YOU. Oh and my favorite.. driving by my house doing 90. Thinking you're hurting me? No, you're actually doing much more damage to the engine than to me. Or reving up your motor... Again, how is this causing me harm? Should I consider it a threat? What exactly are you trying to get accross to me? Oh then telling me you've moved on... Do you really think I care? I feel very sorry for her. I wish she would get some sense and run. Anyway... my next favorite topic.. I just want to say, I know everyone is proud of where they came from. Thats normal. But to act stupid about it, screaming about how sh*tty where I'm from is and making remarks like "this is my town" or "im not leaving my piece of dirt cause of you"... Really..It doesn't bother one bit. You're the one looking ignorant. I never expected you to move. I just want to know if all men from Southeast Missouri are insane like them. Please don't take it the wrong way... I may have just chosen the wrong ones... I just wondered if this was the way to end relationships in SEMO?

Most of them are cowards, and don't know how to treat women.

[Loved Him Deeply]

Coward is a very good definition. It would be refreshing to date a man that does not lie or is man enough to admit his wrongs and mistakes instead of blaming others. Notice I said "OR". I doubt there is one out there with both those qualities. A man wants many women to fill one need. A woman wants one man to fill many needs. It is not even remotely possible for either to have their needs met.

[gottagetinit]

im sorry but when it comes down to it , well they are worthless,and these are growm men i am talking about, they cant do anything by themselves but yet they expect you to keep house care for the children , cook , clean and work a 40 hr a wk job and still will look at you and say you got it made , i wish i hade your job ! hell my job isnt over untill everyone in the house is asleep and if im lucky i can find a spot somewhere that hasnt been taken up by his shit and drink a cup of coffee. im not complainin about my family just him , i swear i could do the unthinkable sometimes and actualy get away with it . the only person who would miss him would be his poor old momma

[Loved Him Deeply]

Agreed. The funny thing is they wonder why you have no sexual interest in them at the end of the day. They have no clue. LOL

[Guest]

Confused wrote:

I'm not real sure if all men from this area act like children or if it was the one I was so unfortunate to meet. So, normally when I have ended a relationship... it's ended. No further contact or if there was contact it was a brief hello. The past three men I have dated from this area have been unreal. Excessive calls/text, and when I don't answer I'm a wh0re. Fine, think what you want but in all honesty... I DONT WANT TO TALK TO YOU. Oh and my favorite.. driving by my house doing 90. Thinking you're hurting me? No, you're actually doing much more damage to the engine than to me. Or reving up your motor... Again, how is this causing me harm? Should I consider it a threat? What exactly are you trying to get accross to me? Oh then telling me you've moved on... Do you really think I care? I feel very sorry for her. I wish she would get some sense and run. Anyway... my next favorite topic.. I just want to say, I know everyone is proud of where they came from. Thats normal. But to act stupid about it, screaming about how sh*tty where I'm from is and making remarks like "this is my town" or "im not leaving my piece of dirt cause of you"... Really..It doesn't bother one bit. You're the one looking ignorant. I never expected you to move. I just want to know if all men from Southeast Missouri are insane like them. Please don't take it the wrong way... I may have just chosen the wrong ones... I just wondered if this was the way to end relationships in SEMO?

Don't blame SEMO if all you attract are the losers! That would be a character flaw with you. To get on here and bash men is about as childish as you said they were acting. Now you know the signs to look for. If you don't follow them thats your fault! Oh by the way if it "didn't bother you a bit" then you wouldn't be on here bit*hin. I grew up in Benton and yes I dated a few losers, but can't blame anyone but myself for that. One more thing, I am a woman and I happen to love my husband from SEMO!!!

[Guest]

gottagetinit wrote:

im sorry but when it comes down to it , well they are worthless,and these are growm men i am talking about, they cant do anything by themselves but yet they expect you to keep house care for the children , cook , clean and work a 40 hr a wk job and still will look at you and say you got it made , i wish i hade your job ! hell my job isnt over untill everyone in the house is asleep and if im lucky i can find a spot somewhere that hasnt been taken up by his shit and drink a cup of coffee. im not complainin about my family just him , i swear i could do the unthinkable sometimes and actualy get away with it . the only person who would miss him would be his poor old momma

OMG!!!! It's called DIVORCE!! Talking about doing the unthinkable??? I get not feeling appreciated but the way your talking is crazy!! I work, have three kids, husband, and I feel that way sometimes, but get a grip!!!

[SEMO]

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OMG!!!! It's called DIVORCE!! Talking about doing the unthinkable??? I get not feeling appreciated but the way your talking is crazy!! I work, have three kids, husband, and I feel that way sometimes, but get a grip
I happened to have lost my best friend, my husband to cancer. Dating today, is not like it was 30 years ago. I have dated some losers, but the right, mature, honest, kind man is on his way. So the losers, are still the losers.

[Guest]

SEMO wrote:

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OMG!!!! It's called DIVORCE!! Talking about doing the unthinkable??? I get not feeling appreciated but the way your talking is crazy!! I work, have three kids, husband, and I feel that way sometimes, but get a grip
I happened to have lost my best friend, my husband to cancer. Dating today, is not like it was 30 years ago. I have dated some losers, but the right, mature, honest, kind man is on his way. So the losers, are still the losers.

And your replying to me?? Did you read what (gottagetinit) posted? Talking about doing the unthinkable and the only one missing him would be his momma! I don't care how big a loser a man might be...the only one responsible for staying with that man is the women!!! If it's that bad...Walk away!!

[I AGREE]

I have to say the men in this area are a bit strange. It is like they have to do what their friends or family want. They program them to be little clones with no minds of their own to make decisions. Insanity must be heredity.