just saying

Royal, AR

#119 Oct 28, 2012
I have worked since i was 16,dated this guy for 7mnths had a baby at 17. Guess what the love of my life left when he found out i was pregnant. I had to apply for assistance,because half these men or boys arent man enough to own up. Im not ashamed of nothing..LINK,FOOD STAMPS OR WHATEVER! IT did go strictly on my baby i didnt care if i ate or not,as long as she was fed first.Yes i have worked different jobs to support her,i went to college. I also whole heartedly believe in the drug testing too,i have seen people sale their link while the kids cry they are hungry,it is a sad thing to see. I wasnt getting help anymore,but made sure that lil girl n boy got fed that day! The moral of this story,more men need to pay for their kids n take care of them. Get fixed if you dont want kids or cut it off! TOO MANY LOSERS THAT USE THE STATE N ABUSE THE CHILDREN.
Messed up

Hutchinson, KS

#120 Oct 28, 2012
youdontunderstand wrote:
<quoted text> first off the father of my child pays 200 a month in child support, it costs 400 a month for daycare alone, not to mention diapers, clothing, does etc...no my child was not planned, bit I would not change it for the world my soon us the most precious gift from God, I Work but off to provide for my child, I do not receive cash benefits, I receive food stamps, which I use to buy healthy foods to feed my child, I do not use it for energy drinks, candy, junk foods, I do the best I can to provide for my child and yes the little assistants I get helps to feed Mt soon, but I Work
$200/month, really? What kind of job does he have? I get $500/mo for one kid, and the dad is by no means raking in the dough. Maybe your baby daddy needs to find a real job to help support his kid.
Consultant

United States

#121 Oct 29, 2012
Messed up wrote:
<quoted text>$200/month, really? What kind of job does he have? I get $500/mo for one kid, and the dad is by no means raking in the dough. Maybe your baby daddy needs to find a real job to help support his kid.
Exactly what I'm saying why should taxpayers foot the bill for deadbeats.
youdontunderstan d

United States

#122 Oct 30, 2012
Consultant wrote:
<quoted text>
My issue with this is that the father only gives you 200 a month, that's his child as much as yours so like myself and many other fathers out there I would expect
like we should make him pay like all y fathers who have children do.
I completely with you he should help more, but I've tried he's a pos dad refuses to help only reason I receive the $support is I had to take him to Cory for child support
youdontunderstan d

United States

#123 Oct 30, 2012
Messed up wrote:
<quoted text>
$200/month, really? What kind of job does he have? I get $500/mo for one kid, and the dad is by no means raking in the dough. Maybe your baby daddy needs to find a real job to help support his kid.
he had a minim wage job, then works sauced jobs for cash, but u do not receive any of that, I've asked for help with daycare and diapers and he refuses to help, he doesn't even spend time with his son
youdontunderstan d

United States

#124 Oct 30, 2012
However it is not my sons fault that his father is a pos, I Work two jobs and Work my Ass off to support him and I receive food stamps to help my child eat, I have s link card that MY taxes help pay for as well
uranass

United States

#126 Oct 30, 2012
The Jester wrote:
<quoted text>Nope, but spawning a child with the POS is your fault. If you're gonna spread your legs to unprotected fuckery with scumbags, you can at least have the courtesy to abort the resulting bastard.
you are a vile, disgusting, foul mouth sorry excuse for a human being. Everything you say on every thread is cruel and hateful. I don't like the abusers but some people need help and who are you to judge. You are single handedly supporting everyone with s link card. And no, I don't have one I have a good job. How dare you say that to her. Maybe your mother should have aborted you. You are the bastard.
uranass

United States

#127 Oct 30, 2012
uranass wrote:
<quoted text> you are a vile, disgusting, foul mouth sorry excuse for a human being. Everything you say on every thread is cruel and hateful. I don't like the abusers but some people need help and who are you to judge. You are single handedly supporting everyone with s link card. And no, I don't have one I have a good job. How dare you say that to her. Maybe your mother should have aborted you. You are the bastard.
***not single handedly****
Consultant

United States

#129 Oct 31, 2012
youdontunderstand wrote:
<quoted text>I completely with you he should help more, but I've tried he's a pos dad refuses to help only reason I receive the $support is I had to take him to Cory for child support
Then I question your choice to produce a child with such a POS, seems like we have a nation of bad choices that the rest of the smart decision makers have to support for their inept planning, decisions and choices. It's time to man up and take responsibility for your own choices instead of relying on others to support your incorrect choices. Explain to me why I should support a person that decided to have unprotected sex raise their child because of your choices.
youdontunderstan d hi

United States

#130 Oct 31, 2012
The Jester wrote:
<quoted text>Nope, but spawning a child with the POS is your fault. If you're gonna spread your legs to unprotected fuckery with scumbags, you can at least have the courtesy to abort the resulting bastard.
you coward , don't you ever call my son a Bastard, or ever imply that i should have aborted my son if your gonna shit like that at least have the balls to put your name, how dare you degrade an innocent child like that, your worthless
youdontunderstan d hi

United States

#131 Oct 31, 2012
Consultant wrote:
<quoted text>
Then I question your choice to produce a child with such a POS, seems like we have a nation of bad choices that the rest of the smart decision makers have to support for their inept planning, decisions decided to have unprotected sex raise their child because of your choices .
first off yes I made a bad decision? Who are you to judge? have you never made a wrong choice in life? Second I DO NOT EVER regret the result of my bad decision my son is a blessed gift from God, and I worm and post my taxed r just like the rest of you...so I get a little assistance in the form of food, I am not ashamed I will do whatever it takes to make sure my son is fed, clothed and has a roof over his head, D
LALALA

Overland Park, KS

#134 Nov 1, 2012
I applied for LINK,keep your fingers crossed. My kids need a big ole TURKEY for the holidays...YUM,YUM...I gotta get ready for work,cant wait to see if i was approved.
lol

Marion, IL

#135 Nov 1, 2012
You Liar wrote:
<quoted text>
You're a liar. You can't get cash on a LINK card. That's why they started the LINK program. I used to have to give change back to customers that used food stamps(up to 99 cents) and they would go through the line 5 times with one pack of Kool-Aid so they could get enough change to buy a pack of cigarettes. They could also sell the Food Stamp Coupons to anybody with two nickles. Now with a LINK card customers receive no change. A LINK card holder now can go to the store and buy items and sell them but selling the card would end their benefits. Please don't take my word for it, go to any business that accepts LINK cards and ask. There is a chance if you do, I will be the person behind the counter that you are asking.
yes you can, where the hell have you been?
lol

Marion, IL

#136 Nov 1, 2012
i got news for all of you haters out there. i am a very hard working single mom. i was married to a great guy, then the jack asses he worked with introduced him to meth. i had no clue as i was at home raising my family, doing the laundry, keeping up with the house, all that a good mom and wife should be doing. Well his good buddies from work smoked meth with him, I had no clue what so ever. It changed him, turned him ugly inside. He was no longer that caring, gentle family man i had married. So after a couple more years of trying to work things out we got divorced. Now here I am a single mom, with small children and a POS ex husband who got fired from every job after that. No child support, and its not my fault. i get the link card, and I also make wise decisions on what food i am buying. After the divorce I put myself through a bachelors program, and I have a good job making $12 and hour. But with a family of 5, that doesnt even pay all the household bills. Not all link users are stupid immoral fat slobs. Some of us are doing everything they humanly can to make sure that their children grow up safe, healthy, and happy and contributors to society. i understand your anger with this chick, i would be too, but dont lump them all in the same boat. Plus they may have a belly full of food, but they dont have the happiness that being self sufficient will bring.
lol

Marion, IL

#137 Nov 1, 2012
The Jester wrote:
<quoted text>Yep... you and very other trashy welfare hoe raising illegitimate bastards.
seriously jester, not all link users are like that. i completely understand the felling, but i am not a white trash bastard raising hoe! i even coupon so i can make my LINK last. my kids drink 2 gallons of milk a day. thats liek $8-10 a day just in milk. they dont drink juice or soda, i dont buy chips. yes i do buy meat, but I am also the one who cooks it and serves it.
Know All

United States

#138 Nov 1, 2012
lol wrote:
i got news for all of you haters out there. i am a very hard working single mom. i was married to a great guy, then the jack asses he worked with introduced him to meth. i had no clue as i was at home raising my family, doing the laundry, keeping up with the house, all that a good mom and wife should be doing. Well his good buddies from work smoked meth with him, I had no clue what so ever. It changed him, turned him ugly inside. He was no longer that caring, gentle family man i had married. So after a couple more years of trying to work things out we got divorced. Now here I am a single mom, with small children and a POS ex husband who got fired from every job after that. No child support, and its not my fault. i get the link card, and I also make wise decisions on what food i am buying. After the divorce I put myself through a bachelors program, and I have a good job making $12 and hour. But with a family of 5, that doesnt even pay all the household bills. Not all link users are stupid immoral fat slobs. Some of us are doing everything they humanly can to make sure that their children grow up safe, healthy, and happy and contributors to society. i understand your anger with this chick, i would be too, but dont lump them all in the same boat. Plus they may have a belly full of food, but they dont have the happiness that being self sufficient will bring.
Sweetheart you're not the only one in that situation. I think it's hilarious people always assume when someone is on welfare they do nothing but sit at home and eat bon bons. While there are some people who abuse the system, with todays economy many people need help. I've seen families go from having a lot to having nothing with a loss of a job. You cannot predict these things. When something of this nature happens it's okay to reach out for help. I however, do not think people who do not have children and are not elderly should be able to receive link. Todays generation is a lazy one. It's a shame how many people I see say they want/need a job so badly, but not once do you see them apply for a iob.
Know All

United States

#139 Nov 1, 2012
The Jester wrote:
<quoted text>Nope, but spawning a child with the POS is your fault. If you're gonna spread your legs to unprotected fuckery with scumbags, you can at least have the courtesy to abort the resulting bastard.
You are one sick person. Please enlighten me, why are you so Godly? What makes "The Jester" so heavenly? Why doesn't your shit stink? Let me tell you something, before you want to run someone down into the ground remember karma is a bitch! You could be in this situation one day. How dare you talk to someone that way? The most pathetic thing about you is that you're so cowardly. You sit behind a computer screen with no name and bash almost every person talked about on here. Who the hell died and made you king? I want to know why you think you're so high and mighty. Honey, one day you will reap what you sew!
Know All

United States

#140 Nov 1, 2012
The Jester wrote:
<quoted text>Thank you, your equally "vile, disgusting, foul mouthed" opinion has been noted. Now quit your whining and move along, you whimper worse than a toddler being cuntfucked by a rabid dog.
(Which would apparently be a blessing if such an action were to result in a pregnancy.)
Once again, you're a sick individual!! I could almost bet my life you are a child predator. Who the hell speaks of a child in that manner? I'll pray for you, in the meantime I would suggest you seek professional help.
sad but true

West Frankfort, IL

#144 Nov 2, 2012
American Woman wrote:
Amen, amen, and amen! I have said MULTIPLE times how f'd up the link card system is, and pretty much society in general. I say, make one lay where link card users can go and let us working people that actually have to report to work somewhere, use the rest of the lanes. I get so irritated waiting behind these people I could just freaking vomit! When you work 60-70 hours a week, you don't really have a whole lot of sympathy left for this bull shit. Drug test the mother f**kers and that will get rid of a bunch of them.
its really easy to say "drug test them" and the reason the state doesnt is because of the children. more children would be hurt by this than helped. there is no easy solution to the problem outside of there being a store that only link uses could go to, showing a picture ID and keeping receipts for the food purchased would help to, but to cut peple who do drugs off of a link card would hurt their children way more....again no easy solution
Know All

United States

#145 Nov 2, 2012
The Jester wrote:
<quoted text>
That's "sow." You will reap what you sow. Nobody's stitching anything, fucktard.
Now quit your whining, ya pansy bitch.
Auto correct ;) once again you're sick!!! The way you speak about children you must be a child molester.

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