I didn't grow up with him, but he and I were a couple and sort of lived together during the Fall '05. He was just as Smith described him. I never seen him in a way that could ever make me think otherwise. I know that B.J.'s smile will forever be in my mind because I still have nothing but love for him regardless of what they may say about him because I know that it cannot be true. I'm still finding it hard to beleive that he's gone. I hope that his son can grow up knowing that his father was a loving man and not like the mess they are putting in the papers. My love and prayers extend to all his family and best friend.