Magistrate to several women: Interact with your abusers

[Hussie]

Mike Snyder wrote:

So wow.... 92 degree's in Denver today and partly cloudy. Glad humidity is at only 16%!

Sorry Mike...Didn't mean to hijack your thread...As is becoming obvious, Psychowatch cannot face someone who doesn't coddle him...If he's that thin-skinned, this is not the place for him, and he should move on...I cannot grant "compassion" to one who cannot give it...Nobody should...

[Psychowatch]

Yep you're right, you are always right, uh huh whatever you say, gee, you really do know it all.

And if all that you say is true then indeed the results of my upbringing are proven. There's not a hint of kindness, understanding or compassion in you. You are fit to to be the throatslitter in a slaughterhouse. See ya Witch.

[HWGA]

Mike Snyder wrote:

So wow.... 92 degree's in Denver today and partly cloudy. Glad humidity is at only 16%!

So Mike, I suppose this was a diffusing comment and if so, You really gave me a chuckle:)

[Psychowatch]

OH her high holiness is "granting" compassion is she. Reserved only to those who conform to her viewpoint of how people should be. Excuse me while I go VOMIT again.

[Hussie]

Psychowatch wrote:

And if all that you say is true then indeed the results of my upbringing are proven.

And, what are you doing to change these results?...NOTHING...
Which makes you unfit to bear any purpose in ADULT conversations...
If you wish to remain "child-like", go for it...There are plenty of other playgrounds for you to hang on...
This same arguement was tried by Michael Jackson, but it didn't excuse his behavior either...

[Hussie]

PW,
I suggest taking a lesson from Sybil Dorsett...She was subjected to the very worst of abuses at the hands of her mother, and subsequently developed many different personalities that helped her cope...
Once she moved past the hate, anger, and trauma, she became a productive member of society who stopped BLAMING others for her pain...

[Psychowatch]

Sieg Heil Frau Commandant. You are the Oberstraum Fuhrer of these boards. Please send me your boots to lick, and I will return them to you with a nice suprise inside. It will be your very own Psychiatric Diploma signed by me, your loyal subservient douche nozzle inspector Herr Sigmoid Fraud. Then you too can show it to everyone as proof of what you really are not.

[Psychowatch]

And I suggest you take a lesson from the Dalai Lama. You can choose to be kind or you can choose to be right.

If you want to try to jump down my throat, you really shouldn't be suprised if you get completely puked on. Others have learned that, I guess you're just a hard head.

[Hussie]

Psychowatch wrote:

Sieg Heil Frau Commandant. You are the Oberstraum Fuhrer of these boards. Please send me your boots to lick, and I will return them to you with a nice suprise inside. It will be your very own Psychiatric Diploma signed by me, your loyal subservient douche nozzle inspector Herr Sigmoid Fraud. Then you too can show it to everyone as proof of what you really are not.

Bait, bait, bait...Demean, demean, demean...Cry, cry, cry...
And so it goes...

[Hussie]

Psychowatch wrote:

And I suggest you take a lesson from the Dalai Lama. You can choose to be kind or you can choose to be right.
If you want to try to jump down my throat, you really shouldn't be suprised if you get completely puked on. Others have learned that, I guess you're just a hard head.

I tried being "kind" to you, but it is YOU who cannot handle the FACT that I'm "right"...
The truth is very painful, and it's apparent you can't tolerate pain very well...
Someone should have told it to you a long time ago, no matter how bad it hurt...

[Psychowatch]

Yep you're right, you are always right, uh huh whatever you say, gee, you really do know it all.

I believe you're just upset because someone stepped into your coaching of Mike with an opinion that you just wish was not presented.

Mike is a highly intelligent person that needs no coaching from either of us. He had gotten some opinion from others urging him to fight,fight, fight. I just suggested that it may be better to conclude matters sooner than later based upon personal experiences. After all unless she has put the poor boy in kiddee porn or done John's right in front of his eyes, or tried to drown him in the bathtub, etc. she will be allowed to see her son and so will Mike. Britney and Kevin just worked it out when Britney decided "you know what, I will regularly get to see my kids enough so they have a balanced perspective, who friggin' cares who has "the custody".

You strike me as a "tough love" kind of person Hussie. "Tough Love" is nothing than a rationalization used for sweeping a non compliant "manipulatee" out the door or under the rug. What people really do respond to, IF they are not already lost to irretrievable narcissism or psychopathy, and if of normal intellect, is someone being their friend and being safe enough to be trusted. Screaming at them "just get over it" or whatever else is a convenient lambast because one is too impatient and lazy to actually work through someones difficulties with them, does NOTHING to help the person. It just reinforces in their fragile psyche that others are just mean and cold hearted.

Your "I tried to be kind to you, but ..." averment is nothing more than your own rationalization to have license to get mean. I am just a mirror reflecting what you are projecting right back at you. If it's not pretty to you, I suggest you talk to a therapist about it. Therapy certainly can be of benefit. I know that from experience also. Now if "therapy" frightens you for some reason, ask yourself why that is ... If unable to answetr that, all the more reason you need it.

[Mike Snyder]

HUSSIE and Psychowatch:

Are you each others ex's or what???? LOL

[Psychowatch]

Mike Snyder wrote:

HUSSIE and Psychowatch:
Are you each others ex's or what???? LOL

Maybe in a previous lifetime .... I have had many previous ex's Mike, we all still love another, but nobody said spiritual growth was easy.

[HWGA]

who="Mike Snyder"]HUSSIE and Psychowatch:
Are you each others ex's or what????
LOL

[Hussie]

Not even close...
PW is simply upset that his bluff got called...When we've had interactions on other threads, he'd have one of his "hissy fits" (like he is now), disappear for awhile, then come back claiming that someone else must have been using his monikor...
He's made it clear that he has SERIOUS unresolved issues, which gives creedence to what I've told him about seeking better help...
Now he thinks that he knows every word I've ever uttered to Mike regarding his current situation, which is simply not true...PW's input was considered but, since he chose to jump into this thread midstream, and ADMITTEDLY uninformed, he has no basis to determine "what" Mike and I have discussed...
Personally, and after much thought, I could give a rats ass about him...He doles out nonsensical bullshit, but can't take it when he gets served a dish of his own...
He can call me mean, cold hearted, or whatever he wishes...I've been called far worse by much better...Just know this, he will never sway my opinion of him...He is a very bitter person who enjoys the attention of being a "victim"...
Sounds like someone else involved in this thread, Hmmm...I think her name is Sara Blom...

[Psychowatch]

Uh, I don't recall a single instance where I have ever said someone else is using my moniker, whether as Psychowatch or any other that I have used. Frankly, I have only used Psychowatch on Denver Topix since a fracas several months past to exclusion of any others except maybe a long forgotten nom d'jour I may have used here regarding financial topics. There have been several consecutive weeks when I have not even looked at Denver Topix. So as to whether someone has used that name or not in my abscence, I haven't a clue. I can tell you that I am not the only aol poster here, as I have seen aol postings here under other monikers which were not mine.

I am glad you finally concur that I have "SERIOUIS unresolved issues" which is the entire point I was hoping to impress upon Mike may become the fate of his son by continuing to drag out his own drama. I fully acknowledge I have problems with social adjustment. Partly because of my upbringing, partly because I have consistently tested in the 2 percentile of intelligence and frankly the drivelling gossip, sarcastic snideness, jockeying for domination, and self appointed claim to exclusive turf rights of a public blogspace by and of the majority of pinheads to be found here bores the everluvin shit out of me. Which is why I seldom come to Denver Topix anymore. The pinhead mob have suceeded in driving away some of the genuine intelligent people that once could be found here. In fact Mike is one of the few here that I perceive to be in a similar paradigm of comprehension as my own.
And as already said, my interjection was more for the boy's sake then for Mike's in my having "been there done that it really sucks"

I certainly don't think I know every word you utter to Mike. Indeed if I had such a delusion I would be quite hopeless. So that is your own self serving paranoia and/or delusion.

Whether I seek attention as a "victim", maybe so. There is no doubt by any mental professional I have spoken with that I am one. Whether I am stuck in that being the extent of my developed identity, probably not. Though certainly a facet, I certainly am acknowledged by others to have unique and marketable talents. Whether other purportations of myself being just insular fantasies, maybe yes in that I would like or need to believe so, yet am aware to wholly latch onto same can itself contribute to a lopsided perspective, despite "acknowledgement" from others more versed in such esoterica.

It makes no difference in my life whether you give a rats ass about me or not. Indeed I perceive my own awareness of my issues likely exceeds your own awareness of yours. We are all on different points of "The Path".

Sara Blom..... if that is Mike's ex I only know her as the name Sara from the most recent postings here. I do not know her personally at all.

Good Luck to you in your endeavours, I do believe you could benefit from some therapy as I appear to trigger some paranoid reactions from you. In my opinion those should be looked into before you are given charge of others in fragile and vulnerable states of their psyche.

[Hussie]

Oh, now it's bait, bait, bait...Judge, judge, judge...Demean, demean, demean...
The 2 percentile you've laid claim to to sounds like a very dangerous zone for us "pinhead mobsters", as you so eloquently refer to anyone who disagrees with you...Face it, you're simply not that special...You perceive your self worth to be far more than what it is, which is a sign of an over-inflated ego...Not someone with a severly traumatized "psyche"...

Not "paranoia"...Not in the least...
You're nothing more than an study in amusement to me...
Bye!!!

[Psychowatch]

Glad to be a source of joy in your life instead of bitterness.

[Mike Snyder]

PW... I think you are being too hard on yourself. I am quite sure you should be listed above the 2% percentile in intelligence. ;)

Hussie... IM me if you can tonight.

[Psychowatch]

It's kind of like playing volleyball with an elephant turd. If someone wants to be foolish enough to serve it, well just slam it right back down on top of them.