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#21
Nov 20, 2010
 
oh and there's no law saying we cant know why a person died even if its not published in a paper.Family and friends talk,and people post things as a warning to get people away from bad things in their lives.Like Drugs,abuse,theres so many to say,but everybody has some addition,or problem,good or bad.I'm not meaning that in a bad way or trying to say the wrong thing or word it a wrong way,but take it as you want.I stand behind my words.And my beliefs,I know what drugs can do to a person inside and out......Its not a good thing...
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Johnson City, TN

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#22
Nov 20, 2010
 
what i heard wrote:
A note to the wise if her child did read this post maybe it would reach out to her in a good way that no matter what your problems are good or bad dont use drugs...
You sound like a true friend to all, but you also sound like a douche bag. I think the latter is more correct.
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Mansfield, OH

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#23
Nov 20, 2010
 
true friend and a douche bag in the same sentence ironic....I just know what I know through expenence of knowing people who have died because of drugs..Yea younger years I did my share of drugs,but I have kids and i grew up,and drugs are not life there a lame choice...So yea back in the day I was dumb but like i said i grew up,and my kids are my life...So now the choices i make are for them and because of them...
hOTHEAD uGLY

Mount Vernon, OH

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Nov 21, 2010
 

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Good Grief wrote:
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controversial, but I believe if your life is worthless and you have severe mental illness that tortures you, you should consider suicide. Also, if you are a lazy worthless person who drains the economy, do everyone a favor and consider suicide. Child molesters should also consider suicide, and rapists. The world would be a better place if people of low value kill themselves. You don't like that opinion, thats fine. Its my opinion though
Hope she didn't take your advice!
two seperate ideas. From what people are saying she was a good person very sweet and loving mother. She had no reason for suicide. You on the other hand.....
hOTHEAD uGLY

Mount Vernon, OH

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#25
Nov 21, 2010
 
what I heard, you don't know that she did drugs, you are going by what you heard. If you had first hand knowledge that she did drugs maybe your point would carry weight, but you are basing your argument on hearsay. Its innapropriate, especially since she just died Friday
MoldyLocks

Mansfield, OH

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#26
Nov 21, 2010
 
When we don't kinow the cause of death, and we don't know of any drug history, it is very inappropriate to bring it up and suggest she may have overdosed. Just because one or two airheads speculated on Topix doesn't in the least make it true. Let's us all grow up and do the right thing.
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Mount Vernon, OH

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#27
Nov 21, 2010
 
hOTHEAD uGLY wrote:
<quoted text>two seperate ideas. From what people are saying she was a good person very sweet and loving mother. She had no reason for suicide. You on the other hand.....
this thread set idle for about 7 hours. Why bring it back Up?
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#28
Nov 21, 2010
 
I have to wonder if the OP was hoping this would happen. Topix is not the place for condolences.

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Since: May 09

Logan County, Ohio

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#29
Nov 21, 2010
 
Most of these mud-slinging fests start out with a title like "Whatever Happened to Mary Jane?" The expectation of the original poster is people will spill any dirt they know or care to invent about the named person.
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#30
Nov 21, 2010
 
MoldyLocks wrote:
When we don't kinow the cause of death, and we don't know of any drug history, it is very inappropriate to bring it up and suggest she may have overdosed. Just because one or two airheads speculated on Topix doesn't in the least make it true. Let's us all grow up and do the right thing.
Really and we wont know the cause of death either,second i knew her i knew she did drugs,she tried to get help didnt work.Third its funny that i live next door to her and know more than most people do thank you very much
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Warren, OH

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Nov 21, 2010
 

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Facts
1) 28 yrs old
2) no history of health issues
3) found unresponsive

Based on these facts, one can assume illegal activity.
We had a member in our family, die suddenly and young. We had NO clue and were shocked when the autopsy came back.(Been many years ago, and still look back and had NO clue) IF it was health related, the family will now before the funeral. However, if it is drugs, it will take the full 6-8 weeks.
We have lived through it. Based on facts, that is what is sounds like.
Still, the family is grieving and NO MATTER the cause, a life is gone. A daughter, sibling, MOM, etc is gone.
My condolences to the family!
owrh

Johnson City, TN

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#32
Nov 21, 2010
 
what i heard wrote:
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Really and we wont know the cause of death either,second i knew her i knew she did drugs,she tried to get help didnt work.Third its funny that i live next door to her and know more than most people do thank you very much
you're a bright one. now everyone knows where you live.
knew her to well

Asheville, NC

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Nov 21, 2010
 

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she was a slut and a herion addict. this should have been put in the paper. she was not a good person and this is what happens to those who do herion. maybe her family should have tried helpin her instead of partyin with her, her mom should be ashamed.
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Asheville, NC

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Nov 21, 2010
 

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hOTHEAD uGLY wrote:
what I heard, you don't know that she did drugs, you are going by what you heard. If you had first hand knowledge that she did drugs maybe your point would carry weight, but you are basing your argument on hearsay. Its innapropriate, especially since she just died Friday
You said people like her should be dead, or kill themselves. Right!!!!!! Well you got it, live with it. Hothead says he is a christian. How could that be? Dude, your such a piece of shit hypocrite. Just go away and kill yourself!!!!!!!!!
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Nov 21, 2010
 
knew her to well wrote:
<quoted text> You said people like her should be dead, or kill themselves. Right!!!!!! Well you got it, live with it. Hothead says he is a christian. How could that be? Dude, your such a piece of shit hypocrite. Just go away and kill yourself!!!!!!!!!
And you say HE'S a piece of sh1t, huh? Where does that put you with all of the stuff you said in post 33?
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Im sorry but reading this really irritates me how dare you people sit there and judge this person addiction is a illness and untill you have lived through a addiction you dont know what its like I have personally watched my sister go through a addiction to a drug it wasnt easy for her to stop people who are addicted to drugs most cant just stop they need help to do that but they have to actually want that help if she did die of a Herion overdose its a shame but bottom line it was HER buissness..who cares if she died of natural causes or of complications from using a drug..would it have matterd as much to you people if it were natural causes? No probably not you people should think about how her family must be feeling and how you would feel if it were someone you Loved so dont judge show some compassion and May she rest in Peace
hOTHEAD uGLY

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Nov 21, 2010
 
knew her to well wrote:
<quoted text> You said people like her should be dead, or kill themselves. Right!!!!!! Well you got it, live with it. Hothead says he is a christian. How could that be? Dude, your such a piece of shit hypocrite. Just go away and kill yourself!!!!!!!!!
where did I say I was a christian?
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#38
Nov 21, 2010
 
you people are unbelievable why cant anybody ever mourn people several months ago my mother passed away and the stuff people posted on here about her still hurts and to think that some of her family may get on here and see the things that you people have posted about her is unbelievable. These times are the most painful in our lives and to have other people saying hurtful and maybe untrue things is absolutely dreadful. Can't we at least give the family a little support and our thoughts and prayers. Like I said I know the things that were said on the post when my mom passed away a few months ago still hurts and will hurt others too please think before you post. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

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#39
Nov 21, 2010
 
I'm sorry for the loss of Sarah. My prayers are with her family.
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Logansmommy2006 wrote:
Im sorry but reading this really irritates me how dare you people sit there and judge this person addiction is a illness and untill you have lived through a addiction you dont know what its like I have personally watched my sister go through a addiction to a drug it wasnt easy for her to stop people who are addicted to drugs most cant just stop they need help to do that but they have to actually want that help if she did die of a Herion overdose its a shame but bottom line it was HER buissness..who cares if she died of natural causes or of complications from using a drug..would it have matterd as much to you people if it were natural causes? No probably not you people should think about how her family must be feeling and how you would feel if it were someone you Loved so dont judge show some compassion and May she rest in Peace
While any addiction is horrible, I beg to differ about it being a disease. I can't catch any "addiction" but I can catch a cold. A cold is a disease not addiction. If I was to sit next to my spouse's step-sibling, I won't catch his addiction to Meth! So please watch wording when referring to drugs, alcohol, smoking, etc as a disease. It is an ADDICTION! People can be set free from it but with help. No, they can't just "drop it" and go on. They need help from professionals who can get them through it.
As I said earlier, a family member died from an overdose, and NONE of us knew he dabbled in it. And NONE of us "caught" it. It is an addiction!

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