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concerned

Prestonsburg, KY

#1 Sep 14, 2010
I think its a shame that an asst. coach at belfry middle school can antaginize a fight between two teammates and have nothing done to him other than to be told that he cant help coach but this same person shows up at the very next game very close to the field.I dont understand what morals are being taught to our kids.
parent

Winchester, KY

#2 Sep 14, 2010
I know how you feel my child plays on the team......
parent two

Logan, WV

#3 Sep 14, 2010
this is very sad, my son won't tell me anything about it, what is the coaches last name, so I can check into this...very concerned parent...
Pirate Mom

Pikeville, KY

#4 Sep 14, 2010
Let it go people.... Children are going to fight, knock, yell, bully and so forth. Maybe this "coach" per say got tired of his child being bullied and just flat out told him/her to take his/her part. Think about it... maybe little "Johnny" isn't as innocent as some would like to think and got put in his/her place!
concerned

Prestonsburg, KY

#5 Sep 14, 2010
Pirate Mom wrote:
Let it go people.... Children are going to fight, knock, yell, bully and so forth. Maybe this "coach" per say got tired of his child being bullied and just flat out told him/her to take his/her part. Think about it... maybe little "Johnny" isn't as innocent as some would like to think and got put in his/her place!
it doesnt matter the circumstances a coach(asst)should never tell another a child to and i quote"whip his butt" these coaches are supposed to be role models and just for the record the other is a good kid and i doubt he was bullying anybody besides is this how we teach our kids to handle problems,thats what wrong with society now
bmscheermom

Lubbock, TX

#6 Sep 15, 2010
concerned wrote:
<quoted text>it doesnt matter the circumstances a coach(asst)should never tell another a child to and i quote"whip his butt" these coaches are supposed to be role models and just for the record the other is a good kid and i doubt he was bullying anybody besides is this how we teach our kids to handle problems,thats what wrong with society now
My son was in the locker room and said the kid was calling several children names. He was using the "F" word and threatened to kick 2 kids a**"s. The coaches told him to get his things and get out of the locker room. The asst. coach came in from gathering items off the field, saw his son crying, and ask what was going on. He then went to the other boy and ask what was the problem between them his reply to the coach was "F" your son, I'm going to kick his a**! So he went and got his son as they approached the other child he swung at the coaches son and missed and then from there well I guess he got more than he could handle. I agree that kids will be kids, but everyone regardless of age has there breaking point. My son has played ball with the boy who started all this for years, and this kid really has some issues. He is known for bullying, and picking on other kids. My husband has even heard the coaches saying that they can't handle him or do anything with him. I don't know the family personally, but the boys parents seem like nice, respectful people, but they need to explain to there son that name calling, cursing others, and making fun of kids who don't play as much him...well all these ugly behaviors have consequences!
asecret

Logan, WV

#7 Sep 15, 2010
bmscheermom wrote:
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My son was in the locker room and said the kid was calling several children names. He was using the "F" word and threatened to kick 2 kids a**"s. The coaches told him to get his things and get out of the locker room. The asst. coach came in from gathering items off the field, saw his son crying, and ask what was going on. He then went to the other boy and ask what was the problem between them his reply to the coach was "F" your son, I'm going to kick his a**! So he went and got his son as they approached the other child he swung at the coaches son and missed and then from there well I guess he got more than he could handle. I agree that kids will be kids, but everyone regardless of age has there breaking point. My son has played ball with the boy who started all this for years, and this kid really has some issues. He is known for bullying, and picking on other kids. My husband has even heard the coaches saying that they can't handle him or do anything with him. I don't know the family personally, but the boys parents seem like nice, respectful people, but they need to explain to there son that name calling, cursing others, and making fun of kids who don't play as much him...well all these ugly behaviors have consequences!
If this is what happened I would have told my son the same thing the Coach did .
crazy

Phelps, KY

#8 Sep 15, 2010
bmscheermom wrote:
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My son was in the locker room and said the kid was calling several children names. He was using the "F" word and threatened to kick 2 kids a**"s. The coaches told him to get his things and get out of the locker room. The asst. coach came in from gathering items off the field, saw his son crying, and ask what was going on. He then went to the other boy and ask what was the problem between them his reply to the coach was "F" your son, I'm going to kick his a**! So he went and got his son as they approached the other child he swung at the coaches son and missed and then from there well I guess he got more than he could handle. I agree that kids will be kids, but everyone regardless of age has there breaking point. My son has played ball with the boy who started all this for years, and this kid really has some issues. He is known for bullying, and picking on other kids. My husband has even heard the coaches saying that they can't handle him or do anything with him. I don't know the family personally, but the boys parents seem like nice, respectful people, but they need to explain to there son that name calling, cursing others, and making fun of kids who don't play as much him...well all these ugly behaviors have consequences!
my boy plays on the same team and said this ant ture. you never
know the turth when the coaches isnt in the locker room.i was
outside i know that for a fact.the coaches was in my line of site.
this makes the 2nd time this coach has done this.the frist time
is 1 time to many.i talked to the parents and they said as long as
he is not around thier kid ,they dont have a problem for him to
come and watch his son.i know both boys this has been going for
years so dont blame one boy.if this coach stays on the team
your child could next.it has happen twice and it will happen
agian.i was there when the coach come to the boy and the boy
did not say f your son.the bottom line is this man is dangerous
to the around kids its not about taking sides it about what the
coach done for the 2nd time.think about it the coach that done that could hurt your child in his boys fight.iwill say this
again this makes the 2nd time.
peacemaker

Prestonsburg, KY

#9 Sep 15, 2010
asecret wrote:
<quoted text>If this is what happened I would have told my son the same thing the Coach did .
bhscheermom i dont know where you got your information from but it couldnt be farther from the truth,i know this boy and his famiy and they are good people and i dont believe for one second that he said all these curse words i dont know the other boy and his family that well i know them when i see them but i was told by some other football parents that this boy is known for starting trouble again i dont know this boy only things ive heard,beside if your a cheer mom how do know what was going on with the foootball players and who are these coaches that seen and heard all this and why didnt go to his parents instead of just telling him to leave the locker room,just asking
asecret

Logan, WV

#10 Sep 16, 2010
peacemaker wrote:
<quoted text>bhscheermom i dont know where you got your information from but it couldnt be farther from the truth,i know this boy and his famiy and they are good people and i dont believe for one second that he said all these curse words i dont know the other boy and his family that well i know them when i see them but i was told by some other football parents that this boy is known for starting trouble again i dont know this boy only things ive heard,beside if your a cheer mom how do know what was going on with the foootball players and who are these coaches that seen and heard all this and why didnt go to his parents instead of just telling him to leave the locker room,just asking
I did not write the post .I just stated my opinion ,if that was true.If cheermom said she knew for a fact and someone else knows for a fact ,,,guess what noone knows for a fact except the players in the locker room[if they were paying attention]. The real TRUE facts would be coming from the two players, and I bet they would tell different facts.Bad situation .
bmscheermom

Lubbock, TX

#13 Sep 16, 2010
crazy wrote:
<quoted text>you
know alot was you in the locker room.i dont know what happen in
the locker room but the boy did not tell the coach f the boy.
i saw that part. it dont matter this man is a coach you stop
shit like this.the coaches boy is no angle if know what i mean.
if this school lets him keep coaching or lets him on the field.
the parents need to stop it. i will say again it has happen twice
and it will happen again.fact are fact this was dumb thing to do.
your nephew is one of the boys you dont know the facts.like i
said i have a boy on the team and he said it did not happen like
that.i dont know what happen in the locker room.i will not take
sides.i was there when the coach come to the boy . the coach screaming and using bad words.the coach forced the fight.
i cant see how the parents would let him come to a game after
this happen.i know if this was my child he done this to i
i would try to stop him from going to any game.THIS HAS HAPPENED
TWICE AND IT WILL HAPPEN AGAIN!!!
No I wasn't in the locker room, and neither were you! We are each repeating stories from children. When you are talking of 11-12 year old boys, I don't know of any that are ANGELS! I will say the coaches kid was not punished at school, or with the football coaches, but that's not the case for the other. So normally the punished one is the guilty one. As for the man coaching I personally don't think that any parent should coach, for instances such as this. It is very hard for any parent to separate the two roles. Any parent comes to their child's defense, and not always do we make the best choices, when we see our children being bullied. I'm not looking to take sides either, but the truth should be told, too often on here we read totally fabricated stories.
asecret

Logan, WV

#14 Sep 16, 2010
bmscheermom wrote:
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No I wasn't in the locker room, and neither were you! We are each repeating stories from children. When you are talking of 11-12 year old boys, I don't know of any that are ANGELS! I will say the coaches kid was not punished at school, or with the football coaches, but that's not the case for the other. So normally the punished one is the guilty one. As for the man coaching I personally don't think that any parent should coach, for instances such as this. It is very hard for any parent to separate the two roles. Any parent comes to their child's defense, and not always do we make the best choices, when we see our children being bullied. I'm not looking to take sides either, but the truth should be told, too often on here we read totally fabricated stories.
You are right .Coaches should not coach their own children,for these reasons[well one reason there are others].
parent

Logan, WV

#16 Sep 18, 2010
asecret wrote:
<quoted text>You are right .Coaches should not coach their own children,for these reasons[well one reason there are others].
As far as I know coaches dont get paid... so who else (besides a parent) is going to give up their time to do it???

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#17 Sep 18, 2010
You r all idiots! The kids have let this go, why cant the adults? GET OVER IT!
asecret

Logan, WV

#18 Sep 18, 2010
parent wrote:
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As far as I know coaches dont get paid... so who else (besides a parent) is going to give up their time to do it???
Middle school coaches DO get paid if they are in the school system .If they are not then they have procedures to complete and then they can get certified and then YES they are paid .[In Logan County they are and surrounding WV counties.]KY, actually pays their Coaches a lot more than WV does....
concerned parent

Pikeville, KY

#19 Sep 18, 2010
well instead of the coach trying to be dr phil talking bout this starting at home which more than likely that could be the problem but its not the coaches call to make a judgement like that to the kids parents instead of attacking the parent he should have been adult bout it and try to defuse the sitation instead adding fuel to the fire cuase there two sides of every story.because this he said stuff and ive learned thru past history in sporting event with children the parents are worse than the kidds
I KNOW

Logan, WV

#20 Sep 19, 2010
As soon as i started reading this post i knew exactly who the kid had to be that was doing the bullying!! This kid has bullied my child for many years!! Seems to me it is way past time for the school board to deal with this child and his parents!! The mother of this kid was even arrested a couple of years a go for trying to beat up a teacher!! And the dad very much encourages the child to fight and bully!!!!Those trying to defend this behavior need to GET REAL !!!! Boys this age do fight....but the extreme bullying this child does to so many kids is not normal !!!! Someone is really going to get hurt, and i sure don't want it to be my child!!!! DO YOU WANT IT TO BE YOURS??????
concerned

Prestonsburg, KY

#21 Sep 19, 2010
I KNOW wrote:
As soon as i started reading this post i knew exactly who the kid had to be that was doing the bullying!! This kid has bullied my child for many years!! Seems to me it is way past time for the school board to deal with this child and his parents!! The mother of this kid was even arrested a couple of years a go for trying to beat up a teacher!! And the dad very much encourages the child to fight and bully!!!!Those trying to defend this behavior need to GET REAL !!!! Boys this age do fight....but the extreme bullying this child does to so many kids is not normal !!!! Someone is really going to get hurt, and i sure don't want it to be my child!!!! DO YOU WANT IT TO BE YOURS??????
i know this family personally and you are so far from the truth,if something happened with her and a teacher im sure it was a big misunderstanding,SHE HAS NEVER BEEN ARRESTED,did you know that she preaches and she is very good ive went and heard her several times. I wish everyone would just drop this whole thing and quit trying to drag this family through the mud, the coach is an adult and he knew better if the kid was causing problems he should have went to the parents or someone elese in charge. This kid goofs off alot but he is not a bully he is a good kid and his parents are good people.STOP THE DRAMA AND LEAVE THE FAMILY ALONE !!!!!!
Must be Stupid

Stollings, WV

#22 Sep 22, 2010
I have a son who plays Football for BMS , and i dont have a clue what you all are talking about , when did this happen? lol For all i know you all could be talking about my son.
Ya think

Pikeville, KY

#23 Sep 22, 2010
asecret wrote:
<quoted text>Middle school coaches DO get paid if they are in the school system .If they are not then they have procedures to complete and then they can get certified and then YES they are paid .[In Logan County they are and surrounding WV counties.]KY, actually pays their Coaches a lot more than WV does....
Head coaches are the ONLY ones to get paid in middle school. There are NO paid "volunteer" assistant coaches. The only payment these men/women get is to watch a child excel at something they love to do. You know, there ARE people out there who do it for more than a check!

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