Have You Lost A Great Love

[also stupid]

Because we were young and just living for the moment! We had what boys wanted[our vaginas] and we were let to believe that that loved us and in reality we were used! The boys that did loved us were taken for granted by us and we made bad choices by going out with all the wrong boys! I lost out on a guy that was almost perfect! He later got married and it was too late to get him back! I've lost out on a very special guy that loved me and wanted to marry me but there I was having sex like there was no tommorow and no aids! I'll always regret my wild ways that cost me the love of my life!

[tattle tale]

also stupid wrote:

Because we were young and just living for the moment! We had what boys wanted[our vaginas] and we were let to believe that that loved us and in reality we were used! The boys that did loved us were taken for granted by us and we made bad choices by going out with all the wrong boys! I lost out on a guy that was almost perfect! He later got married and it was too late to get him back! I've lost out on a very special guy that loved me and wanted to marry me but there I was having sex like there was no tommorow and no aids! I'll always regret my wild ways that cost me the love of my life!

And girls, boys DO tell other boys what you allowed other boys to do to you, please be aware of that! Soon you will get a bad rap that you are an easy lay! Don't be the good time had by all!

[confused]

I was madly in love with this girl, she was a few years younger but still was in a relationship with me with the approval of both her mon and dad. We ended up apart because of her wild ways after I found out what type of girl she really was. I found out she was having sex with many men and women! I ended up moving out of town and later found a beautiful young lady that loves me and we are very much in love. The ex has tried to get back with me, she calls me telling me what a fool she was for going out on me and always wants another chance! I always tell her that I have moved on with my life and to forget about me for I now love somebody else! Sure, I still love her and will always love her because we were lovers for many years! I do not understand why she went out on me after I was madly in love with her and did everything for her! Did I show her too much love? Where was she when I cried myself to sleep because I had lost her and missed her? Now she wants me back and I am afraid to take her back because she may leave me again and I just couldn't handle that! The trouble is that I have not forgotten about her and still love her! Any suggestions on what i should do???????

[ann landers]

Hey guy, stick with what you have right now! Your ex was such a slut sleeping with all those men and women, she must have a Grand Canyon at the Y by now! She made a fool out of you and now she wants you back; you would be foolish to take her back! You are much better off without her even when you have feelings for her! Why take a chance and end up being played again? Get rid of that ho once and for all and stick with your current girlfriend!

[dear abby]

Good advise sis! I also think you should keep your current girlfriend and tell your ex to vamanos! She was having sex behind your back and now she wants you back to take care of her in her later years! Tell her to go to hell!

[mira nomas]

Why do girls always eat the goose that lays the golden eggs? They have guys that love then like crazy and yet they screw around with other guys just for sex! When they have enough they always want to come back1 Many times it is too late!

[blew it big time]

mira nomas wrote:

Why do girls always eat the goose that lays the golden eggs? They have guys that love then like crazy and yet they screw around with other guys just for sex! When they have enough they always want to come back1 Many times it is too late!

Tell me about it! I had a guy that loved me also and would do anything for me; he was popular, didn't smoke, didn't drink, had a good job, never abused me! I went out with many boys while in a relationship with him! I guess I just knew he was very much in love with me and took avantage of him! When I was ready to settle down, he was no longer available! He got married, has a great job, has a beautiful wife, and a great future! He comes to Beeville every now and then and I've only seen him from a distance! I blew it big time folks because I let him slip away! All those guys just wanted sex and I was stupid for giving in to them while the great guy that wanted to marry me took all my abuse! I guess he just got fed up with me! He also was my first lover and the best! I just found out a little too late what a super guy he was!

[missy]

Yet one more girl that was in a good reationship and ruin it by her wild life! You'll never know what you have until you lose it as the saying goes! Well girl, please don't make the same mistake twice! If you do find somebody special again, just hold on because they only come around once in a while! Those guys that you went out with only took avantage of you and played you big time! You missed out on a very good deal, a good man that adored you and wanted to marry you! Bend over so I can kick your ass into the next county!

[manual]

I am a player and have gone out with many girls in Beeville......sure I'll have sex with them, they are easy.....but when it come to settle down and get married, I will look for a girl that has not been around the block, that has not slept with so many guys! Girls, we know the girls that are easy lays, after we spread your legs, boys will spread the word! We want you only in bed and not to take to the wedding chapel! Thanks for the sex but no thanks if you want to get married with me!

[low profile]

I know who she is, how can you love a person that is so low and so dirty?? She is a whore, she sleeps around with the whole town and if you don't know she is also bisexual!! She works in the Mconnell unit in beeville.She is the dirtiest , nastiest person I have ever met!!

crazy wrote:

hey does anyone know nelda martinez she is actually from pearsll texas . i have been looking for her for about a good year or so . last time she lived in pearsall and was working as a safe prison sgt. at the torres unit in hondo . and now i know that she lives there in beeville . please let her know that a past love wants to see how she is doing that is all . and to tell her THANK YOU for making me a stronger man in life . please tell her to post something on here and by the way her best friend is SGT . BARRAZA FROM THE GARZA WEST UNIT .

[johnny]

matt wrote:

Just like many Sundays past, I got all dressed up in a suit and went to worship services and prayed to my Lord to please bring back in my life the love of my life! I always come home and pretend she is here and mention her name"......I'm home, time to wake up!" I pretend she answers something like this "come join me in bed and make love to me!".....hey, I'm a big dreamer.....I guess I am just trying to say that it is hard, lonely, miserable not to have the love of your life in your life anymore.....how can you love somebody so very much, with your whole soul and that person turns right around and simply walks out of your life and does not want a damn thing to do with you......it hurts, and I wish you reading this post will never have to go thru what I am going thru right now.....I wish the person you love does love you right back! Please pray for me, that I will be able to cope with all this heart break!

Hey Matt, just hang in there dude.....father time is a great healer.....I have been in the same situation and look at me, I mean life goes on dude.....you are right that it hurts to lose the great love of your life, the girl of your dreams.....sometimes people do get back together after being apart.....and reflecting back in my case, I am glad all those years of having sex with her that I didn't get her pregnant or I would be ditching out child support money to her and that would really put me in an even deeper financial bind than I am already in.....so I got all that sex for free and walked away without still be having to pay for it today, to be getting screwed for the screwing I did with her..... and come to think of it by now, after all these years of now having seen her, she might even start looking like her mom and that is something I don't even want to contemplate!

[gerald]

manual wrote:

I am a player and have gone out with many girls in Beeville......sure I'll have sex with them, they are easy.....but when it come to settle down and get married, I will look for a girl that has not been around the block, that has not slept with so many guys! Girls, we know the girls that are easy lays, after we spread your legs, boys will spread the word! We want you only in bed and not to take to the wedding chapel! Thanks for the sex but no thanks if you want to get married with me!

You are right dude......girls that give it away freely never end up with good decent guys, they end up with drug pushers or illegals.....illegals don't give a rat's ass if they are fat, ugly or sluts......they just want a maid to cook for them and some sex!

[pedro]

gerald wrote:

<quoted text>You are right dude......girls that give it away freely never end up with good decent guys, they end up with drug pushers or illegals.....illegals don't give a rat's ass if they are fat, ugly or sluts......they just want a maid to cook for them and some sex!

most of those illegals are married and have a wife in their own country and hook up with an ugly girl here so they can cook for them and for sex!

[rajr]

i lost a girl sometime back when i was training in beeville last dec wish i could have her back in my life but i know thats not what she wants anymore i wish her well and maybe ill run into her I plan to transfer there soon

[big fool]

Boy, talk about screwing up my life.....I'm also from Beeville visiting relatives in the Houston area and trying to locate the love of my life, the guy I let slip from my hands.....he no longer calls me or writes to me.....I do not have his new number and he even changed his address.....I was such a fool for going out with many guys and even had lesbian affairs.....he loved me, he wanted to marry me, he was popular, he was older than me and he was my first lover.....yet I made a fool of him many times, I guess he finally had enough and moved to Houston.....at first I didn't care but later I started to miss him and all the things he used to give me and his loving ways.....now I know it was a huge mistake for having dumped him and driven him away.....I lost someone very special, someone I love, someone I need.....please wish me luck and pray that I will be able to locate him once again and beg him to take me back.....I was such a fool and girls please don't make a huge mistake like I did.....if he is special, treat him special!

[janie]

big fool wrote:

Boy, talk about screwing up my life.....I'm also from Beeville visiting relatives in the Houston area and trying to locate the love of my life, the guy I let slip from my hands.....he no longer calls me or writes to me.....I do not have his new number and he even changed his address.....I was such a fool for going out with many guys and even had lesbian affairs.....he loved me, he wanted to marry me, he was popular, he was older than me and he was my first lover.....yet I made a fool of him many times, I guess he finally had enough and moved to Houston.....at first I didn't care but later I started to miss him and all the things he used to give me and his loving ways.....now I know it was a huge mistake for having dumped him and driven him away.....I lost someone very special, someone I love, someone I need.....please wish me luck and pray that I will be able to locate him once again and beg him to take me back.....I was such a fool and girls please don't make a huge mistake like I did.....if he is special, treat him special!

Well, you paid the price for being a player......you gained a reputation for being a ho and now you have lost a very special guy......you should have taken care of that special guy that loved you and wanted to marry you and yet you played him for a fool and broke his heart......why not contact his friends or family to know his where abouts.......maybe he just gave up trying to win your heart and still loves you and just thinks that you will never have a chance with you.....you are right, you were so wrong to have dumped a great guy like that.....if I were you I would give it my best effort to try to locate him once aain and get on my knees and beg him to come back into my life......good luck girlfriend and may you have a happy ending with your story......let us know if you'll get back together

[shy girl]

dummy wrote:

So why do we do it girls? Why do we continue to screw up by making the wrong choices? Why do we treat those men in our lives that are totally in love with us and go have sex with guys that only use us for sex, guys that are not worth a damn but only great in the sack? We do it and then when we want those guys that love us, they have since moved on because they got tired of waiting for us? Put me on that list of dummies that also had somebody very special, he had class, took care of me, adored me, wanted to marry me but here I was having free sex like there was no tomorrow and now he's no longer around and moved out of town! My only hope is that he'll once again come looking for me and maybe we can restart our relationship! I had him in the palm of my hand and I let him slipped away! How the hell was I so stupid! It reminds me of theat song "I Told You So!" by Carrie Underwood! Check it out on "youtube"! Girls, please don't make the same stupid mistake I made! Seek out that special man and bring him back into your life! Call him or write to him, if he loved you once he'll love you again!

so who is the guy that u dated

[dummy]

shy girl wrote:

<quoted text> so who is the guy that u dated

The guy I dated was my first lover, older, that loved me even when he knew I had cheated on him, he wanted to marry me and now I realized that he was the great love of my life and now I have lost him for being such a fool.....this great guy was right in front of me and I was having sex just to have sex with many men and girls......he found out and he still told me he loved me and I kept it up til I drove him away.....now I know what a huge mistake I made!

[sally]

dummy wrote:

<quoted text>The guy I dated was my first lover, older, that loved me even when he knew I had cheated on him, he wanted to marry me and now I realized that he was the great love of my life and now I have lost him for being such a fool.....this great guy was right in front of me and I was having sex just to have sex with many men and girls......he found out and he still told me he loved me and I kept it up til I drove him away.....now I know what a huge mistake I made!

Well girlfriend, I hope you have learned your lesson after having free sex with all those men and women......it didn't get you anywhere but only made your nookie bigger and don't you know that guys only like smaller ones.....let other girls learn from your mistakes!