what age does a woman hit her prime?

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#73 May 1, 2012
thirty wrote:
<quoted text>I guess you are right a woman can still have a baby in her late thirties, but most women don't wait that late. A woman can have a baby all the way up to her fifties, if she wants to. Just because a woman can still give both does not mean she is "in her prime". After all men can make babies until they are ninety but that don't mean they are in their prime. A woman who has a baby in her late thirties is not being fair to the unborn child becaue menapause is so close and not fair to the child when it is growing up. She will be in her late fifties and old enough to be a great grandma when it needs her the most in its teens. Just not fair to the child. A woman should be done having children by the time she reaches 35, just because she can have one does not mean it is healthy for her or the child to do so nearing forty. A woman is no longer in her prime after 35, and having a child does not prove she is. When a woman gets near age 40 she should accept her age with dignity and realize she is in the same age group as the ones she calls an old woman. She is no longer a youth and she is reaching an age where her children will be having children. Yes, the 40 to 60 age group is appropriate. A woman nears menapause in her 40s and after that it does not matter. Babies born to women late in life are a birth risk, why would any mature woman put a baby through that just to prove she is still young when she is defeinitely not. And guess what I am a 36 year old woman, just know the facts. My mother had a baby at 44, and admits that if she had it to over for the baby's sake and her own, she would not.
http://www.wvnstv.com/story/18014032/born-add...

Makes one wonder who is the bigger risk huh?

Seems as though the older women no longer propose as big of a threat as the younger ones...This type of having babies has increased FOUR FOLD since 2000..(Taking for granted the majority of babies are still being landed by younger than 35 year old females of course)

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#74 May 1, 2012
That's ONE in FIVE... incredible.... How come these "women" aren't arrested for assault, child abuse, etc.?

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#75 May 1, 2012
OVER THIRTY posts removed on this thread?

I should have gotten back sooner:)
please

Ardsley, NY

#76 May 1, 2012
granny wrote:
<quoted text>Have you ever seen a woman naked who had a baby after 35? It ruins them. Women are not made to have babies that late in life and if they do, their stomach muscles will sag forever. Their breast will look like wilted loaves of bread and there teeth will suffer too. Most that old age will have ot have a C section which means a big ole gross scar across the stomach. If you think it ages a woman ten years to have a baby in her teens or twenties, you need to see one that waited until she was old to have a late life baby. Why would a woman do that to herself when she is at an age where she needs to be taking care of her aging body and skin? She would have to be totally ignorant or uncaring.
Maybe the woman doesnt give a shit if her body gets destroyed, but she wanted to wait until after she was financially secure and had a loving environment that was stable before she brought a child into the world, instead of being a kid raisin a kid. I was in my 30's when I had my kids and it was the best decision i ever made. A woman is ready to have kids when she is ready. Who cares what it does to the body, the love of a child far surpasses that of vain beauty.

“Ain't you got a jack?”

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#77 May 1, 2012
agree wrote:
<quoted text>women over 35 are definitely no longer in their prime, women can have babies in their fifties too, does that mean they are in their prime just because they can still have a baby. what a dumb comment. Any woman over 35 is considered an older lady so what does it matter if they are 36 or sixty, that are getting older. Capability to have a menapausal baby does not mean a woman is still young or in her prime dummy.
I didn't say anything about being in their prime. I just don't think that 35-60 can be lumped together as an "age group".
correct

Rocky Mount, NC

#78 May 1, 2012
Super Nifty Name wrote:
<quoted text>
I didn't say anything about being in their prime. I just don't think that 35-60 can be lumped together as an "age group".
most of the time it will list 40 to 60 so I agree with you. 35 is not all that old, but I am only 20 so I guess 40 seems ancient to me, twice my age. Face it, old is old and if they are over 35, then they might as well be 80. You can only be young once so suck it up if you are over 35 and realize you will just get older every day. Of course, the nearer you get to 40, the more you could lie and say you are still 35 since it sems such an issue to you.
twenty

Rocky Mount, NC

#79 May 1, 2012
a woman hits her prime at 18-20 and is considered still in her prime until she is around 30, most consider a woman "old" when she hits 35, at least they no longer think of her as a youngin anymore. It just seems like when women hit 35, they worry so much about the age thingy that they start to look really old.

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#80 May 2, 2012
When you're 20, 40 does seem old. But wait until you get to be in your mid-30s, you'll probably think otherwise.

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#81 May 2, 2012
I don't know what you people are talking about when you say that a woman's body is ruined after they have a baby. How shallow!
LOL

Rocky Mount, NC

#82 May 2, 2012
Super Nifty Name wrote:
When you're 20, 40 does seem old. But wait until you get to be in your mid-30s, you'll probably think otherwise.
When mosst women hit their mid-30s, they are usually closer to 40 and lie. It seems a lot of women stay 35 for a loooooooooooonnnnnng time. I know a woman that is 38 or 39 maybe close to 40 but she has stayed 35 for four years. People laugh behind her back because she is always the one who brings the conversation around to the age issue, and she is the one who is always making a crack about some other woman's age. Wonder how long a woman can stay 35 and get awawy with it. I would wager she is the one who started this thread too. How shallow does someone have ot be to start a thread like this anyway? This thread was obviously started by an older woman in her late thirties worried whether she is "still in her prime". My answer, if you are that worried about the age thing, no matter what your age, you are no longer in your prime. A woman that neeeds to lie about her age when she is from 35 to 40 is no longer in her prime. That should cover the issue pretty well. I agree, age is just a number, but each person, male of female, has peak years where they look their best and feel their best. I plan to remain in my prime by staying as healthy as possible and taking care of myself until I am dead. To me, attitude is everything and starting this type of thread or worrying about other people's ages will definitely not make one appear to be in their prime. People jokingly say things like "you are not old, you are still in your prime" to elderly or older people to make them feel good; those are the types that will stay forever young.
LOL

Rocky Mount, NC

#83 May 2, 2012
In other words, a woman is no longer in her prime when she needs to start petty childish threads like this, and when she worries too much about other women's ages. No matter what her age is, she is defeinitely no longer in her prime.
answer

Rocky Mount, NC

#84 May 2, 2012
wonders wrote:
Just wondering what average opinion would be. Stay on subject, please.
Yhis thread was probably started by an aging woman in her late 30s that is desperately clinging to the idea that she is "still in her prime". She is probably around 38 or 39 and tells people she is around 35. No one should be this caught up with age issues to worry so much over it. A woman is no longer in her prime if she is this worried about age or if she is over the age of 35. Common sense tells one that and to start a thread about it is just more proof that age matters way too much to this individual. Maybe that is all they have going for them, or maybe they need to make a point or maybe they are in need of reassurance. However, to start this thread is pathetic. Women can remain attractive and active at any age, and I have seen much older women who are far more attractive than younger ones, because they are not so petty as to ask childish questions like the one this thread is centered around. In my opinion, this thread was started by an aging 38-39 year old woman wanting to make a point to an older woman she is secretly envious of. Just my opinion, but I have seen this type behavior on here before.
ghost of -Wild Man Steve

Beckley, WV

#85 May 2, 2012
"Women over 50, they don't smell,they don't tell, they don't smell, and when you sock it to them, they're grateful as Hell."
how do u like ur primerib

Beckley, WV

#86 May 2, 2012
Every time he hits it.
lody lordy i am 40

Rocky Mount, NC

#87 May 2, 2012
ghost of -Wild Man Steve wrote:
"Women over 50, they don't smell,they don't tell, they don't smell, and when you sock it to them, they're grateful as Hell."
Trouble with women my age is dealing with men my age. Men over 40, lordy lordy, when you let get get a sniff, they run for the pills cause that is the only way they can get a fake hard. Men lose it at 40 and then think they can handle a 20 year old and have a heart attack taking Viagra because that is the only way they can get it up. Young women hate a fake viagra lay, in fact old women my age hate a fake viagra lay. Ain't it funny how us old 40 and 50 year olds can get all the twenty somethings we want and are kicking the old soft men to the curb. Only way most men over 40 can get a sniff is to pay for it, whether they realize they are or not. Us old women take your money and spend it on hard young studs. Aint no women 40 or 50 grateful that I know, we can get all we want, just don't want no smelly old men, we want the hot young stuff that can keep up. yeaaaah baby.
lody lordy i am 40

Rocky Mount, NC

#88 May 2, 2012
men who say 40 and 50 year old women are hard up, are men who can't get "hard up", right girls?
get real

Rocky Mount, NC

#89 May 2, 2012
ghost of -Wild Man Steve wrote:
"Women over 50, they don't smell,they don't tell, they don't smell, and when you sock it to them, they're grateful as Hell."
I am 54 years old and turn down more in a month than you have probably paid for in your whole life. I find the older I get, the more picky I get and realize I can pick and choose between men my age, and young guys. I get asked out as much or more now than I did in my 20s because I know how to laugh at life and have a good time. I turn down dates every day and never spend a weekend alone. The only one grateful are the ones I agree to a second or third date with. I know I can be picky and hope I never meet a man as stupid as you seem to be. If a woman is ever grateful to you, then she must be a real dog no matter what her age is. When I walk into a room I can pick who I want to be around and who will ask me out. The only thing I can't stand is a man who is in his 40s and such a loser that he acts like he is too good for women because they all turn him down, unless he has a little cash to spend on them. I defeinitely am picky but when I pick it is someone with intelligence, money, and the savy to know a good thing when he sees it. I hate stupid men and let them know it if they hit on me.
hotmomma

Saint Albans, WV

#90 May 2, 2012
PINKBROOM wrote:
<quoted text>no they aren't old ladies. your not old until your dead.
Honey i'm 49 and i've always attracted younger men so get real i can't help it if ur ulgy
Deep in the Appalachia

Beckley, WV

#91 May 2, 2012
You people are crazy,my husband and I are going into our 60's and I can ,and will,tell you it's a lot better than what it was in 20's!Prime rib, that was a good one honey,lets see now,hot,pink in the middle and juicy;)
Thats funny

Beckley, WV

#92 May 2, 2012
What difference does it make unles your a prime lender.....Lol

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