I dont like kissing my boyfriend! Doe...

I dont like kissing my boyfriend! Does this mean Im not attracted to him anymore

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Thinking

Montgomery, TX

#1 Dec 2, 2008
I love him but I just dont like kissing him

“......Country Girl......”

Since: Nov 08

Pine Grove, WV

#2 Dec 3, 2008
I have been with my husband almost 2 years and since the very beginning of our relationship we have chose to hold hands, cuddle, or just talk instead of kiss. When we do kiss it is a simple peck on the cheek, forehead, and maybe twice a day on the lips. Does this mean we don't love each other? No, it just means we have other ways of showing our love to each other.
Every couple is different so just do what works for you.:-)

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Come on now

Waynesboro, VA

#3 Dec 3, 2008
Some people are compatible in ways and some people are not. You in fact may be able to love this person/ live with this person/ care for this person without enjoying kissing them. They may just be a really bad kisser its up to you to decide if you can tolerate it or not. Some people can't do other romantic things without the kissing involved and others can so you gotta make the call here
mee

Willis, TX

#4 Jan 13, 2009
i love my husband with all my heart but kissing like with tounge we don't do personally i think it's gross i'd much rather just peck kiss hug and cuddle to show affection to him

“Down in the Bayou”

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Vancleave Mississippi

#5 Jan 13, 2009
uh..y'all are weird...

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Since: Nov 08

Waynesboro, VA

#6 Jan 13, 2009
FOR SURE!!!!!!!!! Make out or get a divorce
EMS

Sulphur Springs, TX

#7 Jan 18, 2009
If you don't like kissing your man, by all means break up. You should love absolutely everything about your significant other. You should have a healthly intimate time together. If you can't stand kissing him, what's the point of spending anymore time together. It's just potential for divorce.

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#8 Jan 18, 2009
I look forward to kissing my wife every morning, every time I come home from work and every night before I go to bed... If I was given a choice between giving up kissing her and having sex, I would keep the kisses.

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“Let It Be”

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Mullens, West virginia

#9 Jan 18, 2009
jedi83 wrote:
I look forward to kissing my wife every morning, every time I come home from work and every night before I go to bed... If I was given a choice between giving up kissing her and having sex, I would keep the kisses.
I also enjoy all the kisses that you give me in between those times!!!!! Long live KISSING!!!!!!
the nurse delayed

Edmonton, Canada

#10 Feb 23, 2009
I wouldn't listen to adivce of a person that says y'all, and you will never love everything about another person unless you're delusional. That doesn't mean you don't love them fully, but there will be things that won't mesh or you don't like, and that's fine-unless those things are MUSTS to YOU (is kissing a must to you?). As far as if it means your not attracted to him, do you still look at him and get a surge, or have sex and enjoy? There are many ways to show attraction (as mentioned above). Good luck!
cheryl

Beckley, WV

#11 Feb 23, 2009
There are things that can make me not want to kiss a guy no matter how attractive I may find him.(1) don't brush and floss his teeth at least twice a day (2) smokes or drinks beer (3) uses smokeless tobacco (snuff etc.) (4) don't know how many other people he has kissed that day (5) eats garlic (6) he is a bad kisser, too much tongue, too wet, too hard, too sloppy, (6) you accidentally used his toothbrush to clean the bathroom floor once and can't bring yourself to kiss him now
Rita Ann

Corpus Christi, TX

#12 Feb 24, 2009
I just had to comment on this one!! Something is wrong if you don't like kissing your man. I can't imagine that. When I have been in love, kissing was always the favorite part. When I was kissed by my first love (first kiss, too) for the first time, we had so much electricty, we had to jump apart. If I couldn't enjoy kissing, I would still be a virgin. It's just that important..
I know I have quit dating men who didn't kiss good. If they don't know how by now, chances are they won't ever know.
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Since: Nov 08

Waynesboro, VA

#13 Feb 24, 2009
I love kissing my wife. Goodbye in the morning hello in the evening its awesome I couldn't go without it... if you can then go on with your bad self but your probably not in a very affectionate relatioship. Some people look at marriage like a business relationship and personally I think that is IGNORANT love is what it is and thats why divorces stand where they do today!
cheryl

Beckley, WV

#14 Feb 24, 2009
great comment. I married my husband, and although we have been put through hell, we still kiss each other goodbye every day.
root182

Lubbock, TX

#15 Feb 26, 2009
U NEED TO START
anonymous

Beckley, WV

#16 Feb 26, 2009
Thinking wrote:
I love him but I just dont like kissing him
You can have passion without kissing. Has anything like this ever happened to you?: A couple of times after an especially passionate session, as I pulled away from the embrace, I felt something tickle my throat and realized that I had been breathing so hard that I had sucked her long silky hair down my throat.
Anonymous too

Corpus Christi, TX

#17 Feb 27, 2009
anonymous wrote:
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You can have passion without kissing. Has anything like this ever happened to you?: A couple of times after an especially passionate session, as I pulled away from the embrace, I felt something tickle my throat and realized that I had been breathing so hard that I had sucked her long silky hair down my throat.
Long and silky, was it? Really now?
i know all about it

Humble, TX

#18 Feb 27, 2009
I have issues with people who just don't like to kiss, other than the obvious reasons listed above! I'm "looking" at the moment, and if he don't like to kiss, he doesn't stand a chance with me. You can learn alot about a person by "how" they kiss...and like someone said above, I'd give up the sex for the best kissing! Not to be rude, but my attitude is this "If you can't put your lips on mine, then you don't deserve the opportunity to put them elsewhere"!
what

Rocky Mount, NC

#19 Feb 27, 2009
what, no smoothie--I likes the smoothies-cleaner
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Since: Nov 08

Waynesboro, VA

#20 Feb 27, 2009
I have been thinking about this and basically it means that your boyfriends breath stinks which ain't your fault so no its fine if u dont wanna kiss his nasty A##

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