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Confused

Peterstown, WV

#1 Sep 10, 2011
If your spouse is talking to someone of the opposite sex, and hiding the fact from you, deleting numbers from their phone, sneaking away to talk to them, when they are caught talking to them they lie out of it, then they finally admit to talking to someone and say I thought you would over react if I told you, it's just a work associate, is that considered cheating or not, opinions only please, no bashing....
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#3 Sep 10, 2011
IMO it is or getting ready to be. If it is a work associate talking about "work" then there is NO reason the spouse can't have the conversation in your presence. If the spouse has to leave to "talk" then they ain't talking about work.

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#4 Sep 10, 2011
I agree with Brandy.
eddie

Lubbock, TX

#5 Sep 10, 2011
Confused wrote:
If your spouse is talking to someone of the opposite sex, and hiding the fact from you, deleting numbers from their phone, sneaking away to talk to them, when they are caught talking to them they lie out of it, then they finally admit to talking to someone and say I thought you would over react if I told you, it's just a work associate, is that considered cheating or not, opinions only please, no bashing....
they are humping.get yourself a lawyer.
same boat

United States

#6 Sep 10, 2011
My husband is starting to do same thing only he on local sex sites making profiles he looking for 3 somes and discret sex. He says all men do this and that I need to get with the times. But I just don't accept that.
Terrible

Elkins, WV

#7 Sep 10, 2011
same boat wrote:
My husband is starting to do same thing only he on local sex sites making profiles he looking for 3 somes and discret sex. He says all men do this and that I need to get with the times. But I just don't accept that.
WOW! That is bull crap. Not all men do that. Go to your doctor asap and have yourself checked for STD's. Don't accept his stupid logic of getting with the times. He is blatantly cheating on you and expecting you to accept his selfish wants. Find a lawyer and get out.
Dax

Tarboro, NC

#8 Sep 10, 2011
same boat wrote:
My husband is starting to do same thing only he on local sex sites making profiles he looking for 3 somes and discret sex. He says all men do this and that I need to get with the times. But I just don't accept that.
Maybe he is trying to drop hints to you. Maybe he wants to spice up your sex life. Not saying it is right or wrong but maybe he wants you to try something different. Especially if he let you know he was looking at them anyway
Confused

Peterstown, WV

#9 Sep 10, 2011
Well, I do know the woman he is talking to is from the Beckley area. Supposedly she a married woman also but he refuses to tell me her name. He said if her husband found out he would kill her and me and I said if your not doing anything wrong(his words) then why can I not know who she is, keeping this secret in my opinion is cheating because you are being deceitful...he left yesterday, I ask him if I could tag along, he said he was only going to his moms and be back in 30 min or so, well he was gone over 7 1/2 hours, he told his mom he going to lowes, he could not tell me when he got home where he had been for so long, I told him to leave , I was tired of the lying and disrespect. He said he would never give me a divorce, now he just keeps sticking to me like glue, I love you etc, I told him, I'll pack your stuff for you, your woman in beckley give you place to live....

Since: Jun 10

Topix

#10 Sep 10, 2011
I'm not bashing, I'm only asking...is this a rerun/rehash/renewal from the problem in the Glen Daniels' Topix forum that recently spilled over here?
get with the program

Beckley, WV

#11 Sep 10, 2011
Let me tell ya, If my husband did any of the above statements he would come home to all of his goods burning in the front yard! Not to mentions what I would to to his ride. and Yes go get checked for std's because beckley is full of them and not afraid to share them!

If he doesn't want to give you a divorce then get you another man and move him in! He will then!
Confused

Peterstown, WV

#12 Sep 10, 2011
hourglass wrote:
I'm not bashing, I'm only asking...is this a rerun/rehash/renewal from the problem in the Glen Daniels' Topix forum that recently spilled over here?
Well hourglass, thank you for not bashing, but yes he finally sit down last night and said that he would never tell me who the woman is that he lied about the name Tanya Clark, and I totally apologize if there is someone out there by that name, it was wrong of me, but I was a scorned woman and was doing anything to get to the bottom of it, but I am now past the crying and hurt and I am now mad and just want him gone, no matter who the woman is and I now realize my children and I deserve better, so please don't come back bashing...I would hope you would understand what I have been through...I have told him to leave, he said she works at a go mart in beckley area, age 40, married with 2 kids, but would never give her name up, well that's fine, I just want him gone and he said he would never give me a divorce, that he messed up and I just need to move past it, BUT I can't, he committed a sin that I cannot forgive.....

Since: Jun 10

Topix

#13 Sep 10, 2011
Thanks. Good luck.
Confused

Peterstown, WV

#14 Sep 10, 2011
hourglass wrote:
Thanks. Good luck.
Thanks to you to....thanks for not bashing....

Since: Jun 10

Topix

#15 Sep 18, 2011
You're welcome.
teresa

Mullens, WV

#16 Sep 19, 2011
if his name is don he is cheating!!! once a cheater always a cheater.
Hmmm

Peterstown, WV

#17 Sep 19, 2011
teresa wrote:
if his name is don he is cheating!!! once a cheater always a cheater.
His name is not don, he is not from beckley, he lives southern end of state, but the woman works at a go mart in beckley area, she is a mgr.
Meee

Beckley, WV

#18 Sep 19, 2011
This is an awful situation , but "giving you a divorce" is not his option, you are definately doing the right thing and once you get a lawyer and file papers he wont have much of a choice. Good luck to you, and may karma greet him with quickness :) No woman or man deserves to be cheated on, and what goes around definately comes around.

Just a thought that crossed my mind.... there is a forum that I haven't read yet, called "The manager at go-mart" ...think it could be the same one?
If so , do you really want to know who it is? When I found out my ex cheated on me, I wanted answers, and when I got them it hurt ten times worse than I already was.
Hmmm

Peterstown, WV

#19 Sep 19, 2011
Yes, go read it, it is him. I am the best friend of the wife...it's sickening.....
wow

Beckley, WV

#20 Sep 19, 2011
Please dump this man. At orientation at RHG, we were told that Raleigh county has the highest incidence of AIDS in WV. It is just not worth it, please do what ever you have to to get away and get a fresh start with someone who actually deserves you. If there is even a hint or threat of violence, call the Women's Resource center, they will help you. Best of luck.
Looking

Alexandria, VA

#21 Sep 21, 2011
Confused wrote:
<quoted text>Well hourglass, thank you for not bashing, but yes he finally sit down last night and said that he would never tell me who the woman is that he lied about the name Tanya Clark, and I totally apologize if there is someone out there by that name, it was wrong of me, but I was a scorned woman and was doing anything to get to the bottom of it, but I am now past the crying and hurt and I am now mad and just want him gone, no matter who the woman is and I now realize my children and I deserve better, so please don't come back bashing...I would hope you would understand what I have been through...I have told him to leave, he said she works at a go mart in beckley area, age 40, married with 2 kids, but would never give her name up, well that's fine, I just want him gone and he said he would never give me a divorce, that he messed up and I just need to move past it, BUT I can't, he committed a sin that I
cannot forgive.....
You go girl! And about the divorce thing. Whether or not he willing give you a divorce 3 times going through the system its granted without his consent. So screw him and hind happiness cause it doesn't lye within him. And no, not all men do this today and those women should equal it. Two wrongs doesn't make it right just makes it fair!

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