who should your kids not hang out wit...

who should your kids not hang out with ? ?

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mother

Demotte, IN

#1 Jun 21, 2011
I am a mother of a teenage boy and he is want to hang out with kid that i just dont know about so please tell me some kid that my son should not talk to or hand out with
huh

United States

#2 Jun 21, 2011
How about you just meet the friend. Not a good idea to get on this site. Plus check your post before posting. Maybe your son should teach you proper grammar. Oh, and did you think that starting this post will cause issues with other kids parents for dragging them onto this site?
parent

Bardstown, KY

#3 Jun 21, 2011
mother wrote:
I am a mother of a teenage boy and he is want to hang out with kid that i just dont know about so please tell me some kid that my son should not talk to or hand out with
Guthrie Mccay lol!
my 2 cents

Tomball, TX

#4 Jun 21, 2011
This is not a reliable source of information for parenting. I agree with the previous poster about meeting the friends and their parents, make a decision based on that.
stub

Bardstown, KY

#5 Jun 22, 2011
I think you also need to learn to trust your son a little better as well. Growing up I ran around with a not-so-good crowd but my parents raised me correctly and trusted me around them and I made my own decisions. Those friends did not influence me.
mothers advice

Bardstown, KY

#6 Jun 22, 2011
I agree with "my 2 cents" as far as this site not being a reliable source of info. But, let me add this, a mothers instinct will go along way. FOLLOW IT!!! Friends can lead you down the wrong path and in a hurry. "Stub" sorry to say, but your parents were idiots. A bad crowd of friends can turn your child into something you dont want. Everything you tried to teach your child can turn the other direction in a short period of time. And as far as trusting your kids, in the words of Judge Judy..How do you know when your teenagers are lying?..when the open their mouth! Trust is what you put in a friend and when your kids are grow, you can be a friend. Until then you are their parents. They have plenty of friends, they only have one set of parents. My best advice, disipline your kids, raise them to the best of your ability, follow your instincts, and pray that God will take over the rest.

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#7 Jun 22, 2011
Sounds like you don't trust your son.
Parenting and teaching him to no do something is more efficient than sheltering him from whoever you think he shouldn't be with.
spartan

Louisville, KY

#8 Jun 22, 2011
AeroXtasy wrote:
Sounds like you don't trust your son.
Parenting and teaching him to no do something is more efficient than sheltering him from whoever you think he shouldn't be with.
That looks good on paper,but in reality,regardless of how much attention,understanding and communication you may share with your child,they will still find themselves believing in the wrong people.Mother is only right to be cautious.That is why I agree with the others who suggested that she make every opportunity to get to know this boy.It would be fair to her son if she at least gave this kid some kind of token chance before putting the 'kibosh' on their friendship.

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#9 Jun 22, 2011
Have some trust in him.
spartan

Louisville, KY

#10 Jun 22, 2011
AeroXtasy wrote:
Have some trust in him.
I can't dispute that partner,but a mother that doesn't show this level of concern,isn't doing her job.It's a dangerous world out there with many unforseen dangers.Parents aren't slow to trust because they WANT to hold things back from their children.They are this way because they know that even a child on his best behavior could fall victim to one of the worlds gazillions of circumstances or predators out there.In short,trusting a child,even a teen-ager,doesn't mean that bad things can't happen to him.
Ho-tep

Louisville, KY

#11 Jun 22, 2011
You do your best raising them, then you hope they took some consideration in what you tried to instill in them!
awesome me

United States

#12 Jun 23, 2011
barnsfather, fogle and most of the ppl that still hang around nelson county with out a job and still try to hang with all the teens arent good people
wtf

United States

#13 Jun 23, 2011
kelsie grabbert, matina or tyler thurman, liz humphrey, and amanda english. they'll all get your son in to reall bad trouble.
my 2 cents

Tomball, TX

#14 Jun 23, 2011
Child bashing azzholes--- REALLY?? Putting kids names out there on Topix??? Would you want your child's name posted to this site???
schooler

Bardstown, KY

#16 Jun 24, 2011
wtf wrote:
kelsie grabbert, matina or tyler thurman, liz humphrey, and amanda english. they'll all get your son in to reall bad trouble.
kelsie n matina wont get u in trouble idk the other 2 ppl but last yr i hung out with them never was in trouble bc of them n when we get in trouble u cant blame them my parents hate my friends but they knw im gonns talk to them n yall arent gonna be able to stop us from hangin with the friends we want i know my parents would wish id hang with other kids but they dont just tell me who they like n dont like
liz

Shreveport, LA

#17 Jun 24, 2011
idk who yall think yall are talking shit but u need to keep my name out of ur mouth i dont get nobody in to trouble i stay home n help round the house so yall can kiss my ass...idc what u say bout me it dont hurt but its kinda messed up that parents are on here talking crap about teenage kids i mean come on get a life!!!!!!!!
amanda jean english

Elgin, IL

#18 Jun 24, 2011
i dont know who is saying shit about me on here but i dont hang out with alot of people i mostly stay home and help my brother with the house i am curently in indiana with my mom helping her out and spending time with her i dont get anyone in trouble becouse really i dont go out muchand do childish shit i am more worried about my life and my school work so if do have a problem with me plz just get over it and leav my name out of it becouse i have not donr anything wrong my main point of veiw is my school finding a better job saving money and going to collge so no i dont get people in trouble becouse that would cause me to get introuble and i dont like to get in trouble and play childsh games its stupid to sit here talk about teenage kids when youare adults plus im about to turn 28 and im more worried about finding a college to go to and paying the bills at were i live so leave me alone and everyone else thank you good bye......
amanda jean english

Elgin, IL

#19 Jun 24, 2011
wtf wrote:
kelsie grabbert, matina or tyler thurman, liz humphrey, and amanda english. they'll all get your son in to reall bad trouble.
i dont know whoyou are wtf but plz leave my nme out of things i dont get peple in trouble i dont go do things much cuz i dont play childsh games so leave me out of this my fcus on life are collge and getting out of highschool and gettng a better job to pay the bills so leav my nme out of your mouth than you good bye
amanda jean english

Elgin, IL

#20 Jun 24, 2011
i ment to put i am turing 18
cassie

Demotte, IN

#21 Jun 25, 2011
liz wrote:
idk who yall think yall are talking shit but u need to keep my name out of ur mouth i dont get nobody in to trouble i stay home n help round the house so yall can kiss my ass...idc what u say bout me it dont hurt but its kinda messed up that parents are on here talking crap about teenage kids i mean come on get a life!!!!!!!!
Thats its lizzy take up for yur self its about time !!!!!!! And i am happy to see that you put your nmme up here unlike all these other bitchs lol

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